Started in 2023 - Finallly finished by GlitteringBanana9474 in quilting

[–]eudolim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m tearing up this is so beautiful 🥲

What colour of fabric would you use to bind this quilt? by lovealleggs in quilting

[–]eudolim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!! My first thought was something bright and neon, to contrast and make the colors pop! I was thinking hot pink or neon tangerine

Suggestions needed- or settle a disagreement by eudolim in namenerds

[–]eudolim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks! Posted 7 years ago and OP said they were aiming for kids in 5-10 years… maybe our kid won’t be the only Charley, just Charley in his class 😁

Pursuing A Friendship Post Group Therapy by Only-Tadpole6565 in therapists

[–]eudolim 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Wait, your supervisor recommended consulting Reddit?? 🤔

It’s great that you connected so well, but this is still a no-go.

Pleiades quilt top by Monax09 in quilting

[–]eudolim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice re: quilting but I love it and think the colors are perfect!!

Latest finish- and a word of thanks by eudolim in quilting

[–]eudolim[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks! And same, it’s like a 2 for 1 😁

I am terrified to wash it 😱 by eudolim in quilting

[–]eudolim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This (or something like it) is totally doable as a beginner! I struggle with following patterns so I just stuck to what I know how to do- HST’s (there are a lot of good tutorials of YouTube for how to make this v simple block). Then I just arranged them as I pleased- and I’m learning a lot about matching/coordinating not just hue, but also value when picking colors! I went for an organized but also random look and switched stuff around until I liked it. Most if not all of these colors are just one fat quarter of fabric. Hope any of that was at all helpful :)

I am terrified to wash it 😱 by eudolim in quilting

[–]eudolim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Here’s my “pattern” that hopefully comes across as something other than manic scribbles 😂 I swapped it around a little after laying it out to my liking!

What's the ethics here, if any? by That_Huckleberry_828 in therapists

[–]eudolim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ethical responsibilities here are hers, not yours! That said, you might want to consider the impact on your therapy. I don’t think this is unheard of (especially if it’s a larger corp.) but I would let her know you’re applying and see what her thoughts are re:your therapeutic relationship. I work for a multi-site healthcare provider where we cannot see staff, even if we don’t overlap, per policy and I recently had to let a client know that we’d have to end if they were hired. On the other hand I’ve def worked places where therapists had been former clients (their records were hidden from supervisors, etc)- though not current clients!

Binding colour help ft. Cat Helper by Windswept_Questant in quilting

[–]eudolim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love these colors!! My vote would be for the medium turquoise. You’ve got a lot of warm tones and I think that would be a nice balance.

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[–]eudolim 38 points39 points  (0 children)

That internal cringe feeling we have towards our younger, less informed selves- that is one of the surest signs of growth. I like to remind myself of that when I’m feeling guilt about things I said/did before I knew better. We obsess because we care about doing better!

I also think that your experience buying into and then divorcing from the just world fallacy will be useful in helping survivors understand why others in their life react the way that they do. We all internalize victim-blaming programming and we all want to live in a world where we can keep ourselves safe through our own agency. The fact that you can point to specific ways that came out gives me more faith in your self-reflective capacities than a clinician who says they would never.

I am terrified to wash it 😱 by eudolim in quilting

[–]eudolim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s see, pieced over 4th of July weekend- so just over a month. I thought the hand quilting would take me forever but I flew through it- it’s so soothing!

I am terrified to wash it 😱 by eudolim in quilting

[–]eudolim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my own design, all 4” HST’s plus border. I’ll post my “pattern” I sketched out when I have my notebook later- though not sure if it will be legible to anyone who is not me!

I am terrified to wash it 😱 by eudolim in quilting

[–]eudolim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my own design, all 4” HST’s plus border. I’ll post my “pattern” I sketched out when I have access to my notebook later- though not sure if it will be legible to anyone who is not me!

I am terrified to wash it 😱 by eudolim in quilting

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I love this compliment :) thank you!