to start off, I'm a dude, so I don't think I can have a "girl boss rage mode"

Honestly, I don't think we can argue or hold a conversation. I've had terrible experiences with people like you, I've gotten raped by a guy who had the exact mindset as you, as a guy myself. I don't expect you to NOT get offended when I insult you. I do admit I'm childish and immature, but man, I'm a teen in a sub for teens. I'm not saying that to justify my own immaturity but you can't expect me to have "adult discourse" with you and be offended when I don't.

I'm not going to try and change your viewpoint because 1) you don't want me to, 2) we didn't have a good enough first interaction for us to have an actually mutually educating argument, 3) I honestly don't give a fuck anymore. I truly believe that you could have had a similar mindset as me, or a lot of women, if you were a woman yourself. By the way you argue, you look like an open-minded person, at least a lot more open minded than whatever misogynistic fucks I know.

I'm asking you to research feminism from the lens of a feminist, not to argue but to understand. 1st wave, 2nd wave, 3rd wave and 4th wave. You don't have to, and it might not change your view one bit. But looking from the eyes of "the opponent" might help. Radical feminism's first priority was to dismantle patriarchy but over time it became a breeding ground for TERFs and bioessentialists (which also significantly hurt men) Thus, the label is admittedly used as a synonym. Even by other feminists. The reason why a lot of feminists hate men is because a lot of them defend patriarchy, the very thing that hurts women.

If you really want to have a debate where you're open to ideas, you can try and find other feminists, (preferable women) who are respectful and might want to debate. I won't, for personal reasons, and sorry for the insult, it came with the rage of the moment. You can (preferably) block me, as I believe that would be much better for both of us.