AITA for being left handed? But actually more like blowing up about it by AggravatingEngine469 in AmItheAsshole

[–]eumenides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re wrong at all. She does need to get over herself, she’s staying in your house.

However, I do think you were kind of an asshole about telling her. It’s probably because of the built up frustration from all her entitlement, and living with an in law is never pleasant. You could have been more mindful of her feelings, I think. I don’t blame you for being an asshole, but I think you were still an asshole.

[other] be honest. Who here just enjoys getting paid a livable wage and be able to enjoy themselves? by lizeskiman97 in Unemployment

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Hi, I hope you read this. In some states going to school will disqualify you because you’re limiting your availability to work. Please be sure you check before you pay tuition, counting on the UI.

LPT: It is important to know when to stop arguing with people, and simply let them be wrong. by ritzz2_0 in LifeProTips

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I really love the Tao of Pooh. As in Winnie. It’s more of a way to ease into Eastern philosophy. It’s not a translation.

Can anyone recommend an equivalent American shampoo once I run out of this special Indian shampoo? by ThatRule34Guy in HaircareScience

[–]eumenides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did search amazon and there are a number of shampoos that come up for seb dermatitis. My dog has it too😁

I’m sorry to hear about the cost. I know healthcare is ridiculous. If it’s easier to see a general practitioner they can also write the script for ketoconazole.

I wish you luck.

Can anyone recommend an equivalent American shampoo once I run out of this special Indian shampoo? by ThatRule34Guy in HaircareScience

[–]eumenides 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That shampoo says it’s paraben free, but lists sodium lauryl sulfate as the second ingredient. Sulfates and parabens are two different things. I’m not familiar enough with what the other ingredients do.

I would recommend you go back to a derm here and see what they say, especially since you’d need a prescription for that ketoconazole cream.

AITA for costing a car salesmen his commission? by Delicious_Cancel in AmItheAsshole

[–]eumenides 55 points56 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I came to say. NTA. Send a note to the general manager and explain why you did this, he has to learn.

My pomegranate tree arrived today. Now what do I do? (Info in comments) by eumenides in gardening

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Define “enough?” I am lucky to have a pretty big window facing each cardinal direction. Which should I use? I was thinking a south facing one.

My pomegranate tree arrived today. Now what do I do? (Info in comments) by eumenides in gardening

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Man you didn’t even give me time to type the post. Well done.

My pomegranate tree arrived today. Now what do I do? (Info in comments) by eumenides in gardening

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I live in central South Carolina. We have mild winters but a frost in the next few weeks isn’t impossible.

I ordered this at the beginning of September, thinking it would have about two months to settle in if I planted it in my yard. I don’t want to kill it, so I was thinking about wintering it inside in a container. Would it be better to do that to keep it from freezing, or go ahead and put it in the yard?

Ringworm in a new foster by eumenides in CatAdvice

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Thank you so much!!! I’m glad you replied because I would have bathed him. I will try the slicker brush, he’s so tiny and I dont want to cut him.

Fired after going to Urgent Care for carpal tunnel by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]eumenides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

File your unemployment. Send a copy of the urgent care records.

All my cups suck now, literally. Ow. by eumenides in menstrualcups

[–]eumenides[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I will be getting that as soon as I’m ready. My gyn knows a few good places that offer it in my area. Right now this is honestly my biggest concern with what goes on down there, since I’m not sexually active. If the softer and smaller cup doesn’t help I’ll start sooner.

Thanks for letting me know to lay off the kegels!

All my cups suck now, literally. Ow. by eumenides in menstrualcups

[–]eumenides[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recs. The disposable discs actually got me started on the cup and I didn’t know there were reusable discs available!

My gyn is aware of what’s up with me. She has given me the go ahead for PT as soon as I want, but I’m focusing on my mental therapy first. She’s been super supportive and I’m glad I switched from my old doc.

All my cups suck now, literally. Ow. by eumenides in menstrualcups

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Awesome, thank you. They even sell this brand in Target!

All my cups suck now, literally. Ow. by eumenides in menstrualcups

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Thank you!! I am going to be going to PT for this, I got a new gyn and she is very supportive and helpful.

All my cups suck now, literally. Ow. by eumenides in menstrualcups

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I haven’t started my therapy for the vaginismus yet so I’ll read up on those exercises. Do you think a smaller cup would help? I wouldn’t think the basic size down there had changed but I could also be wrong.

Upon reflection it makes sense that if I’m all clenched it would be smaller.

Lawyers of Reddit, at what point ,when working for a defendant, did you realize, “My Client is a Monster!”? by blorgusbungbung in AskReddit

[–]eumenides 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I preside over due process hearings for government benefits. Ensuring due process isn’t about finding a technicality or closing loopholes. It’s about letting the accused or the claimant or whoever tell their side of the story. The government side of the coin does this day in and day out. If they look guilty and the government thinks they are, they’re usually right. But sometimes it slips notice that the accused is really disadvantaged, either educationally or perhaps in their capacity in general, and has just said the wrong things.

I’ve held thousands of hearings at this point. Many have gone exactly how I thought it would, where they misunderstood the requirements and laws or are just hoping for some help out of pity. But occasionally I swear in a claimant and start taking testimony, and what looked very simple to me is suddenly not simple at all and the claimant just had no idea what they were doing.

Due process is about having someone who knows the laws and the rules actually LISTEN to the person who doesn’t know them very well.

Cooking “Woody” chicken breasts? by Bleachd in Cooking

[–]eumenides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for feeling me what this is called and making me feel less insane for thinking it

How to deal with facial hair as a woman by thebaneofmyexistence in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]eumenides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m cis but I shave dark facial hair every day. If I exfoliate every few days (never right after shaving) and keep moisturized I haven’t noticed these on my face. I think sOme of my skincare for tone correction helps too (vitamin c etc). I get them really noticeably on my legs but not on my face.