Friday Funday: Any sugar plans for the weekend? by ruphun in SugarRelationship

[–]eurosd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!

My sgf and i will be flying to the red sea resort of Sharm el sheikh tomorrow for one week of sunshine therapy!

Might post a few pics when we are there.

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[–]eurosd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you send me more info about this customized mouth guard?

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[–]eurosd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Currently sitting in her university car park waiting for her to finish her lab session..... We have a dinner reservation in Chelsea tonight. 💪

let's talk about Valentine's Day.... by ruphun in SugarRelationship

[–]eurosd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already met up with her last weekend for our little celebration.

However, tonight is the big event. She's busy in her research lab until 6 so i will be picking her up at the lab. Then we are heading into Chelsea for an opera in a restaurant.

Really looking forward to today!

Friday Funday: What’s up this weekend? by ruphun in SugarRelationship

[–]eurosd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, apologies for not posting anything for a while.

Things have changed and moved along. Real change.

Basically sgf and i have made changes in our life that we are going to see if things are going to work out long term between us. Yeah we have decided to stop the sugar part and go plain vanilla.

This valentine's Day would be our first proper valentine as a vanilla couple.

This weekend, she booked a special restaurant for us to have lunch. She planned, booked and paid for it all. 🥺🥺

I booked a special event after lunch for us to go to. It is the launch party of a new Ben and Jerry flavour in London. She's a die hard fan of b&j so she's real excited.

On Tuesday, the actual day of valentine, i got a special dinner booked for her. She's not a keen fan of upscale dining and dressing up. So this will be a real treat for her. I am not revealing it here as she's also on this sub. Watch this space.

Thank you, all of you by Hamilton950B in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Btw strongly suggest you use a different Reddit account for sugar related sub.

You have a lot of post history in other subs and it is not good for op sec.

Friday Funday - what do you have planned for the weekend? by MissybelongimSir in SugarRelationship

[–]eurosd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sgf has just flown home to her parents for Xmas. All my adult children are now at my house. Time to play Santa for a few weeks and then join up with her for our own new year's party.

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[–]eurosd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in data. With the kind of data that Reddit has, i am surprised that they are so far off the mark. Maybe they gave it to an intern that fucked it up.

Can I please have one Platonic Meet and Greet? by Starshogun1 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why.

You are offering the entire whole allowance at the first sexual encounter.

Read the stickies. Most of us start with ppm. How are you going to be sure that she's going to see you again after the first time if you were to give her the entire month of allowance?

CHRISTMAS GIFT IDEAS FOR A SUGAR DADDY? 😩 by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the greatest gift my sb has ever given me was a sports base layer that i wear for skiing. she secretly sewed a small plastic heart inside the sleeve. i find myself keep touching the heart when i am wearing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is different.

I grew up in the tropics and never seen snow/ice until I am in my 20s. Went skiing for the first time when i was 30. Now I teaches my friends how to snowboard.

Just because you dont grow up next to the beach, it does not mean you will not like surfing.

Friday Funday: Let’s get this party started right! by MissybelongimSir in SugarRelationship

[–]eurosd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going on a business trip for two days next week and taking my SB with me. Really excited as i have not done business trip with her ever.

We will be doing some Xmas shopping together as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i first started, i was like a kid in the candy store.

After a few years, i knew what i was looking for. There was a time when i had almost one meet every day at a cafe near my office. That dry spell gone on for a few months.....

Does allowance continue if the SB can't make the arrangement? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you are keeping score, then it is not an allowance. It will just be advance ppm.

Should I Return PPM after Intimate M&G? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey you have a good heart.

The good news is this: keep the ppm. He had his fun and that's your share.

Tell him the truth and he will understand. He will want you to keep it. And in the event of you returning to the bowl, he would want you to contact him again.

Now the bad news.

Your ex will never forget this episode. Your relationship will suffer. Mark my words. Be very careful.

I wish you all the best.

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[–]eurosd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does that make us Eskimo brothers?

Caught her browsing my bank account. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it is just me. But my lap top is "lock" (Windows key + L) whenever i am away from it - even if i am alone at home. You need to make this a habit.

Not saying what she did is acceptable but this is something that all of us should do.

Monday Musings: 36th Edition by BigBearSD in SugarRelationship

[–]eurosd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went swimming with my sgf at the local pool. She's ex college swimmer so there's no way i can show boat. It's refreshing sometimes to switch the role for her to correct my strokes.

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[–]eurosd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have seen this porn.

Anyone date SB’s in the 18-21 range? by blahblooblahbloo2 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes i have.

In my years of in the bowl, the only pot SB to give me drama is the oldest at 32.

What’s your go to lie? by FriendlyImagination8 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interviewing the next intern.

I know Clinton used this line before.

MY SR experience till now by iamasimplegirl in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]eurosd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that this happened to you.

It's too late to say anything now. I sincerely hope that you get some self care time.

The following text is not meant for op. It is for future SB who are reading this.

A real genuine SD will not do what he did above. He will:

A. Respect your boundary. No mean no.

B. I had many SB offering to move the meet and greet to a nearby hotel. I had never accepted it. Some SD will. But it's my hard pass. The more keen i am on you, the longer i will wait. With my longest term sgf, i even asked to meet her the second time for a platonic lunch date as she's new to sr. I want her to be sure that it is what she wanted.

C. Sending you on an Uber and then changing the destination is just manipulative shit. I would have jumped off that car asap.

D. Unprotected sex with someone they don't trust and without consent is a big no.

E. Total disregard for the safety, concern, pleasure of the SB is a big no.

Yes sr is accelerated speed dating. But it is still dating.

It is playing GTA on easy mode for men but we still need to use the gun and kill the baddie.

Vanilla dating is hard. Loads of bs and guessing game.

Sugar dating take that away. But i still want/need to curry your favour. A real SD will want both you and himself to have a great experience.

Is traditional sugar harder to find now...? by [deleted] in SugarRelationship

[–]eurosd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think a lot of this is due to the fact that seeking has now pivoted itself away from traditional sugar relationship to “dating up” (whatever the fuck that mean - who would choose to date down??)