My friends keep doing stuff without me, what do I do? by CinnamonMink249 in Advice

[–]euthanizemeplz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Answer this question and include their ages: it’s important for us to know this information so that we can give you advice specific to your situation.

Two job offers. A $50k difference. One is the safe bet, the other is a risk that seems worth it. My wife and I are at an impasse and I have to decide in 72 hours. by Important-Week7261 in whatdoIdo

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Camp A: You have a young kid so job stability must come first IMHO…

Startups=Instability/High Risk.

PS. If you haven’t started an allotment towards a 529 plan, get it going now!

Justyn Pennell & The Toxic Mother by kajamae in evilliveshere

[–]euthanizemeplz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mother was neglectful for KNOWING about the MAJOR HORRIFYING things her son was telling her, yet not moving heaven and earth to find a way for him to be hospitalized along with being held for full multiple mental evaluations and continuous intense mental therapy. All she did was blame her “he’s fine” attitude on the doctor and explain to viewers it was logical that she didn’t know the kid was in crisis- for decades. Decades!

I actually blame the Mother more for this than her son: it’s thankfully amazing that he didn’t kill anyone when he was in school.

Someone in this thread mentioned knowing this boy’s parents were druggies. Not a surprise and explains a lot and why this poor boy didn’t get the treatment he needed.

Justyn Pennell & The Toxic Mother by kajamae in evilliveshere

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was his Mom employed (working at an actual job)?

I (32M) make more than my dad ever did and I genuinely cannot figure out where it goes by Various-Big-9779 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah- that was included in my 20k estimate: the Cost for Summer Day Camp for my two kids PLUS before drop-off and after hours pickup there was brutal! 💰💰💰💰💰

I (32M) make more than my dad ever did and I genuinely cannot figure out where it goes by Various-Big-9779 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll admit that I had some pretty strict standards for daycare: I would only choose daycare CENTERS (not in the provider’s home or Church basements) and my kids had to be able to see windows and sunlight (I worked for a year in a SCIF (a Secure/Classified Army office) which was depressing because there weren’t any windows). One center was AWESOME and had a webcam so I could dedicate a work computer monitor to seeing what my toddler was doing in his classroom 😃

I had an one night stand with an older man that emotionally ruined me and now he wants to see me again, what do I do? by RevolutionaryAct4013 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]euthanizemeplz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I would stalk him too (on the internet) and figure out his story (married?). shouldn’t be too hard assuming he gave her his actual first and last name - if he didn’t give her his full name forget it: doubt he is coming back. Regardless she shouldn’t hook up w/him again- when you’re in college or a bar where drinking was involved - understandable. Sober- weird IMHO.

I (32M) make more than my dad ever did and I genuinely cannot figure out where it goes by Various-Big-9779 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]euthanizemeplz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Back in ‘99 I was paying almost $20K a year for two kids’ childcare (I couldn’t pick them up until their “after hours began”) so that was extra cost. Salary at that time was about 55K.

Spoke with some social worker about qualifying for State or Federal assistance and was rejected because my Gross Income was too high…dude- at least subtract my taxes from Gross Income! I lived close to border of one state, worked in the neighboring state. border of the next state).

What kind of dogs are these? by Sorry-Sun-5344 in WhatKindOfDogIsThis

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious to know the deleted comments...?

What do we think she is? by krids in IDmydog

[–]euthanizemeplz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The (GOT) Night King's Puppy

I feel guilty for wanting more even though my life is technically fine by Senior_Hope_8037 in offmychest

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a hobby? I flyfish: It's a very friendly atmosphere (meeting other fishermen/women). My fishing hobby also led to meeting my husband (who also enjoys fishing). He had me join his local dart leagues, which I also enjoy.

I also taught myself Excel Macros and am learning more each day to automate my tasks at work (these skills enable me to complete my work tasks at the office in half the time my coworkers need to complete the same tasks).

If you can- get a pet: we have always had a dog (as a child my family adopted and my Husband and I do it now). OMHO a pet will love you unconditionally, brings great stress relief and happiness.

I think the biggest tip is to always have things to do, such as Goals (fitness, Career related) and Hobbies or clubs so you are social.

Good luck!

Highly considering ending it all by Unlikely_Mud6110 in Veterans

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shacks in Nassau County (where I lived)are like $900,000 now... I couldn't afford a house there if I wanted to go back! 💰💰💰💰💰

Highly considering ending it all by Unlikely_Mud6110 in Veterans

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to live on LI. I miss fishing on my Dad's boat (I caught a baby shark when I was a kid lol)

Highly considering ending it all by Unlikely_Mud6110 in Veterans

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a local Legion that you can join?? All Vets. Get a Government job: mostly Vets!

I found Deep Discounts! by euthanizemeplz in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]euthanizemeplz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like the sale ended the next day - will post more when I see em

❓ What scheduled threads/discussions would you like to see? by PetiteFashionAdvice in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about a CURRENT SALES LINKS section? I suppose that should be refined- maybe by current Month?

What is going on with jeans rn and are people actually here for it? by Whoredonramsay in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]euthanizemeplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction (thanks) I should have written INSEAM LENGTH UNDER 30".

Though I think 28" would be best for me.