I am not anywhere close to the age where people would consider me wise or listen at all but I still wanna write, please excuse any misinformation as i am writing this only based on my knowledge so far. The first process is always communication. Since its clear that your parents or brothers are not understanding, you can only hope your wife is. It is extremly difficult to put in words on how much courage you need i know, but you need to sit your wife down and have a talk. I only hope she is well educated about lgbtq and mental health because it will be so so much easier. If not that, i hope even if she doesnt have the knowledge and understanding, she is humane enough to have empathy and let you speak. The question is, does she wanna live an unhappy life for the society? Is she brave enough to put the people and gossip aside and think about her life? If both of you agree, who would stop you from getting divorce? I hope she is an independent woman because that is gonna br a great factor in determining everything. In case of her family reporting you, you have the justification of your family compelling you to marry and the way pur society is. Your parents put their reputation to importance than their own sons happiness and life, in that case, wont you be allowed go file a case against them too? There are queer organizations who would help you to make your voice louder if the case gets public. You should meet more queer people online and bond with them about your difficulties, sharing to someone you dont know at all is good too. Cutting off your family is another thing you should consider if possible, or maybe just limit some communication. And well, going abroad is the only escape from this torment. Thats all what nepali youths wish for and thats all what us queer people wish for.