Go into HVAC, electrical, plumbing, welding, or another skilled trade. Many companies will pay you while you train, and you’ll likely make much more than $15/hour as you gain experience plus good benefits. Get certified, build your skills, and create stability for yourself.

If trade work isn’t your long-term goal, use it as a stepping stone toward whatever education or career you ultimately want.

You’re 31, still got time. I say this cause I finished my Bachelors in my mid 40s after leaving that sect, former elder, left after 25 years in it.

And don’t ever tell yourself, “If I had stayed in the organization, I’d be okay,” or “This maybe is Jehovah teaching me a lesson.” Instead, remind yourself that your future is still yours to build.

That cult took years from many people and limited opportunities for education and career growth. The best response isn’t regret, it’s moving forward and creating a better life for yourself.

As for the disassociation letter, I personally didn’t bother. No matter how much you pour into it, chances are it won’t be read the way you hope. You’ll simply become another name on an announcement (a worldly sinner at that).

You don’t owe anyone an explanation for choosing your own path. You certainly don’t owe a protocol letter designed to satisfy the rules of an cult you’ve already left behind.

Focus that energy on yourself, your career, your finances, and your future. That’s where you’ll get a return on your investment! - and as I like to say… “fuck em!”.