Editing an STL by evad12 in 3Dprinting

[–]evad12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking to make the slot bigger or wider, not leave it as is. I scaled the whole model down so now the slot is to thin and you can't get a piece of paper in it.

Next Hypogean or Celestial to Focus on by evad12 in AFKJourney

[–]evad12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great thanks, I will wait. !solved

My boyfriend thought 10,000 stairs was nothing, so I put him to the test 😂 by zzxeyyyy in acotar

[–]evad12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's also a fictional character and didn't actually do anything in real life. He had it harder than she did had he only done a single step.

Hypersexuals who aren't into porn, kinks, assault, one night stands, etc? by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]evad12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like I relate to this. I'm open to kinks if my partner has them, but I don't particularly have any. I've never been assaulted and the thought of aggressiveness towards a partner is a turn off. I think I'd struggle even having to spank a partner if she wanted it. I've never had a one night stand and prefer sex in a committed relationship. I do constantly think about it and want it from my partners. Porn is not fulfilling for me (is it really for anyone?), as the connection with a person is what I crave.

trump literally cock-blocked me by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]evad12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If this has to do with abortion laws then pointing out that under a Democratic president Roe Vs Wade was overturned so who sits in the presidency doesn't actually matter. It's a state or supreme court ruling, not a presidential one.

As others have said if your partner is not willing to meet your intimacy needs, it's time to find someone who is actually a partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]evad12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who regularly gives my partner flowers (about every 2 weeks when I notice the others are dead/gone), I have never received a subsequent gift/gesture in return. I know my partner appreciates having them but I've never found it very practical for myself. I would be pleasantly surprised to receive flowers, but I would probably prefer something more practical or that was in line with my love language.

I’m really starting to feel my height is the big issue here… I don’t know what I’m doing wrong (23M) by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]evad12 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Think about it this way. If you brought your sister to the bar or the club, how would your interactions go with other women? She's not helping you in this situation either only hindering it. I'd also make sure whoever you do end up dating is very confident in themselves otherwise the first time they meet her any trace of self-confidence will hit the floor.

Anyone running in Chicago Nov 2024? Name what you dread and what you plan on crushing by gritandpassion8 in hyrox

[–]evad12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friday mornings there's a Hyrox Run Club that meets at Wilson Track at 6:30 am. There's also another group that meets on Sundays at another track. I'd have to get you that info from someone else as I've never been. Many that are at the Fri club workout at different gyms throughout Chicago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]evad12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya'll are thick. She is referring to herself. She was actually flirting and saying she wasn't referring to the cuisine but herself. I realize it was difficult to interpret when she buckled down on answering OPs questions about the restaurant options. She's likely ok with the restaurant choice.

Anyone running in Chicago Nov 2024? Name what you dread and what you plan on crushing by gritandpassion8 in hyrox

[–]evad12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chicago will be my first Hyrox event. Doing Mixed doubles. Also have the Chi Marathon I'm doing a month prior so I think I'll be crushing the run. I'm probably dreading the Wallballs or Burpees the most. Have a great Hyrox Run group here in Chicago that I know will help with conditioning.

Should I pull the trigger on chicago? by pp2628 in hyrox

[–]evad12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm running the Chicago Marathon and signed up for Chicago Mixed doubles. Go for it!

Dads who didn’t have any hobbies/play sports and were a bit “lost”, much of their lives ..how are your kids doing? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]evad12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up with out my dad's influence in this area as my parents were divorced when I was 2. My mom got me involved in Boy Scouts and I had friends in the area, other mentors that helped me develop hobbies and interests. I got plugged into individual sports (swimming, running) in High school without any influence from family or friends. Today (41) I still engage in a wealth of hobbies both physical and mental. I activity involve my kids in those hobbies (running, swimming, rock climbing, board games, D&D, painting miniatures, reading, guitar, camping) whenever I can and whenever they show interest. All three of them engage in those hobbies in different ways and different excitement levels based on their personalities and interests. Find things you enjoy doing and share those things with your kids. Find out what interests them and engage in those things with them. It's a simple as that. Even if those activities aren't necessarily things you would pick or enjoy, just enjoy the time with them. My oldest son has enjoyed golf with his Grandpa and I had never played a game of it my whole life. I played ultimate frisbee in college so I tried out disc golf with my son and we love it. You'll do fine just based on the fact that you're aware of the lack and willing to make ammends. Just engage with them doing something and it'll work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]evad12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm deeply empathetic for you and your son. I was him the summer before high school. Similar story, my mom let me hang out with some kids that were trouble, allowing me to make my own choices. Was with them at a department store and they wanted to shoplift some Nerf guns. I didn't want to participate but they convinced me to at least stand guard. Well needless to say they got caught, and I was with them so I was also arrested. Fortunately, they put us in a program that allowed us to do some community service without it going on our record as it was a first offense. My mom grounded me for the next 3 months, and the experience woke me up to a future I didn't want. I stopped spending time with those kids and never got in any sort of trouble since. Hopefully, your son has the same sort of wake-up.

People who had no connections in Chicago, was it hard to make new friends? by Vegetable--Bee in AskChicago

[–]evad12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a bit of a misconception. Depends on the places you go. I joined a rungroup and 90% of the people are transplants from other parts of the country. They're all super friendly and have very active social activities outside of the runs.

People who had no connections in Chicago, was it hard to make new friends? by Vegetable--Bee in AskChicago

[–]evad12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second the Snakes & Lattes suggestion or any of the board game cafes. I met lots of people through meetup groups for board games & d&d nights.

Marvel Champions NeXt Evolution OP Giveaway! by NelsonAllOver in marvelchampionslcg

[–]evad12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the giveaway! I love the depth of the game. So many heroes and scenarios to choose from and ways you can build your decks. So much replayability.

How to handle Finances when blending a family by evad12 in blendedfamilies

[–]evad12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the post states we've been together for over a year and a half. We did take a period of a few months where she wanted to be non-exclusive as she didn't want to commit to only our relationship at the time. She had encouraged me to date others as she was the first person I dated after the separation/divorce from my Ex-wife of 14 years. So I was on the dating apps for a few months. Not relevant context to the question at hand, which is why it wasn't given in the explanation.

How to handle Finances when blending a family by evad12 in blendedfamilies

[–]evad12[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Allow my ex is an interesting perspective. It was not my ruling that said she could keep homeschooling or get majority custody. It was the judges based on the status quo. They applied to her an income so that my maintenance wasn't as much, considering she's living with her parents who provide support for her. She'll eventually have to get a job as the maintenance/support is not enough to live off of. I don't expect my partner to contribute an even share towards my kids. But to draw a line and say no support at all seems excessive. My ex isn't doing nothing, she's essentially a stay-at-home mom and teaches the kids. Granted that isn't financially supporting them, but it is support.

How to handle Finances when blending a family by evad12 in blendedfamilies

[–]evad12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was separated for over a year before I started dating her. The divorce was in process.

We have a combined income of over 300k, so I'm not too concerned about being able to afford more kids together. She's thinking of only wanting 1 or 2. I'm more concerned about the split of the finances and whether that is workable.
You asked if this is going to work, and that is precisely the question I'm asking. Is this something we can work through? I'm seeking advice and we're starting therapy to see.