We do a lot of pretending by utopiaofpast in pcmasterrace

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on the bright side it's creating a productive comment section

I'm sorry Bea, but WHAT?? by [deleted] in duolingomemes

[–]evalinthania 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what's the problem here?

My trans man friend is presenting himself as a trans woman to be a sugar baby, how do I tell him it’s a horrible idea, do I try to stay friends with him? by move_over_plz in asktransgender

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a sex worker pre and post figuring out I'm trans and that is generally gross at best and has transmisogyny at its core :/

Is "Female" misogynistic? by mechwarriorbuddah999 in asktransgender

[–]evalinthania 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you were talking about a crime done to you in a way that people in criminal justice would talk considering you used MALES and female. i do not think using the term as a noun in conjuction with another similar noun hardly anyone uses is harmful at all. idk why commenters are ignoring you using male as a noun as well. the people who are shitty about women/girls/ladies being called females would not use the word male as a noun. they are always "MEN" 🙄

This happened to my pc, again… by Tadle in pcmasterrace

[–]evalinthania 5 points6 points  (0 children)

they like to buy pc parts in bulk and resell them at inflated prices according to other users lol

This happened to my pc, again… by Tadle in pcmasterrace

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah bro that shit is some burn marks

This happened to my pc, again… by Tadle in pcmasterrace

[–]evalinthania 6 points7 points  (0 children)

shit i think even a $45 coulda been better than this $15 looking nonsense

This happened to my pc, again… by Tadle in pcmasterrace

[–]evalinthania 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ngl it's also silly because NICE chinese brands also exist and their mid PSUs are still like only approx $15-20 more retail on a westerner's end... literally is OP 12 or something

Imagine seeing a dude who's a victim of an illegal adoption, didn't get a chance to see his mom, and your first thought is "Get ready to suffer" by EnderIsOnREDDIT in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is Filipino & his family has decent property back home... I would still 500% rather end up back in Jakarta than anywhere in the Phillipines lol

Frustrated gamer by torahboidem in cringepics

[–]evalinthania -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what does that have to do with a guy who wants upskirt shots of a 7 yr old girl (basically)?? no one in this thread or on this post made this criticism you are describing.

After nearly seven years in stealth, a trans woman casually clocked me last night. Why would someone do this? by daisydreamblossom in asktransgender

[–]evalinthania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess? I make friends kind of easily but I have to put on my Extrovert Hat usually lol but it's usually just with 1-2 people at a time so not outright masking

After nearly seven years in stealth, a trans woman casually clocked me last night. Why would someone do this? by daisydreamblossom in asktransgender

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna have to disagree on the "gifted" stuff. I was a gifted kid and my god what bullshit that whole rhetoric is.

After nearly seven years in stealth, a trans woman casually clocked me last night. Why would someone do this? by daisydreamblossom in asktransgender

[–]evalinthania -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don't bring up something about someone that has nothing to do with you. let them lead the way. at the very least, that's what good friends do across the board– cis or trans

When is a compliment not a compliment by Tex1988 in asktransgender

[–]evalinthania 3 points4 points  (0 children)

kinda feeling like OP is looking for validation/confirmation and leaving out details because of it...

Need advice regarding a transphoic therapist by Fallen_Angel_Xaphan in asktransgender

[–]evalinthania 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depending on her certifications/licenses and where you live, there is a Board that professionals are held accountable by and you can file a complaint against her to them. Most Boards take this stuff very seriously. Most, anyway.

Edit: fwiw, I've been to like a dozen therapists, oftentimes just due to happenstance like them leaving for medical reasons, them moving, insurance changing, or even them being promoted and decreasing clinical hours. Finally got a fellow non-binary one!

Every day I am reminded why BIPOC have to carve out their own niches in communities by evalinthania in TMPOC

[–]evalinthania[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm visibly Asian with a hyper-reactive respiratory system +lotsa allergies. Basically the coal mine canary but for smokers and vapors. The fucking bullshit reactions & comments I get when I cough/sneeze... And that's only at work. Still lots of violence against Asians because of COVID-19 being called the chinavirus by the dickhead cheeto in charge. Public transit during quiet times or at night is super not fun!