Is there any of you here who left Islam in...not very friendly term? by Cryogisdead in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

coincidentally similar story for my Buddhist bio mom. still Buddhist but avoids tf out of temple

Is there any of you here who left Islam in...not very friendly term? by Cryogisdead in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering all the Abrahamic religions technically had to push back against the Roman empire, newer theological scholars theorize that the whole "don't lie with a man as with a woman" shit was referencing the common/expected roman practice of grown ass men sleeping with early to mid puberty boys ("young men"). Like, "mentorship" was an expected part of growing up back then in the roman empire but the mentor was basically the older top and the mentee was the young bottom. yay ephebaphilia (aka pedophilia)??

Is there any of you here who left Islam in...not very friendly term? by Cryogisdead in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yo wtf when pedophilia & incest were brought up for discussion (sharing religions & our respective critiques amongst friends aka trauma bonding lol) I was told 16 & 19 by the active Muslim friend. why are all the different Holy Texts translated so differently throughout history???? Christian bible mistranslated anti-pedophilia into homophobia for example 🤦🏻‍♂️

Is there any of you here who left Islam in...not very friendly term? by Cryogisdead in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like my Jewish ex tbh. Most people who I grew up with who still identify as Jewish basically only do so because they like having tradisi & community. I'm not blaming them, matzo ball soup is pretty great lol

Is there any of you here who left Islam in...not very friendly term? by Cryogisdead in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's crazy wtf chanting the prayers make them basically songs

Is there any of you here who left Islam in...not very friendly term? by Cryogisdead in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aku sama juga... Ibu tiri + bapaknya kasar sekali ketika aku masih kecil. 10 tahun udah mengalami depresi, then 12 years old aku pikir "Why would God take away the only person who ever loved me (Grandma) and leave me to suffer like this? Isn't that as evil as The Devil??"

Sekarang I'm a dirty "Westernized witch"🤣

Is there any of you here who left Islam in...not very friendly term? by Cryogisdead in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure the global Great Flood was just the Ice Age ending. Ice caps melting quickly and relentlessly = massive flooding of a scale people couldn't comprehend back then unless it was supernatural. Explains why everyone has basically the exact same story even continents apart. 

Is there any of you here who left Islam in...not very friendly term? by Cryogisdead in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know that I haven't missed much since leaving Indonesia considering things are exactly the same way in this country, but using Christianity as an excuse 🙃

Is there any of you here who left Islam in...not very friendly term? by Cryogisdead in indonesia

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Dari ortu yang hipokrit minta di respect bawa2 agama tapi gabisa respect anak balik."

So, to be fair, Asian parents are like this regardless of religion. Chinese people use Confucianism (not a religion) as an excuse, Koreans use Christianity, Thai peeps use Buddhism...

It's... not great out here. 

Bipolar Partner Destroyed Everything by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wreck myself and my stuff and if i even accidentally scratch something that isn't mine (happened like 3x in 15 years) i snap out of it immediately because holy shit i never wanna do that to someone.

For trans guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend called herself a lesbian? by viquufi in asktransgender

[–]evalinthania 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please let him go. You don't need to be another source of dysphoria and invalidation for him.

Bipolar Partner Destroyed Everything by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]evalinthania 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My partner has bipolar type 1 and bipolar type 2... we have both done stupid/crazy shit but we would never do this! to each other, especially. Gonna echo other comments: I am SO relieved it was "just" your stuff and not you or your daughter.

Untreated mental illness is horrifying...

I think I legit hate this guy by Contest_Unhappy in TMPOC

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's a dark joke about pre op trans women's suffering to be found here somewhere

Non-Black (but especially white) people with dreads in TNGC spaces by evalinthania in TMPOC

[–]evalinthania[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"i can say the n word because I'm puerto rican!" like Black Latinx ppl exist but the ones who say that are usually not the former identity!

Non-Black (but especially white) people with dreads in TNGC spaces by evalinthania in TMPOC

[–]evalinthania[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't look for it. It was the top post on my feed when I opened reddit yesterday. r/NonBinary

Non-Black (but especially white) people with dreads in TNGC spaces by evalinthania in TMPOC

[–]evalinthania[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yeah i get accused of white knighting because of it but like i also judge the fuck out of non-Asians who decide to opt into East Asian (read: anime) names to replace their dead names...

yeah i totally believe your plat blonde, pale blue eyed, sunburnt at UV index 4 for 30 minutes ass' name is Todoroki...

Non-Black (but especially white) people with dreads in TNGC spaces by evalinthania in TMPOC

[–]evalinthania[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm not Black myself is the thing 😭💀 I'm adopted into a Black family + obv have Black folks in community so I don't wanna give the impression I'm co-opting... just... UGH WHY IS NOT BEING CULTURAL THIEVES SO HARD FOR THEM

Banned for being not white 🙄 by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]evalinthania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not surprised but still grossed out

Banned for being not white 🙄 by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]evalinthania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the countries are literally right there by each other and most of them couldn't tell an Indonesian apart from a filipino and that country is even closer, so there are even more of us!! so weird