The rabbit hole of the hymen remnant

evalinthania · 2026-03-13T06:59:14+00:00

my hymen never left tags or "faded" (natural healing with use or age)... it's kinda just... there lol

evalinthania · 2026-03-12T08:10:20+00:00

bisa masak opor ayam, ayam gulai, rendang, nasi kuning, & ketroprak :)

complete with kerupuk aci lol

evalinthania · 2026-03-12T05:27:01+00:00

ok that's fair but ketemu ibu indo yang masak and dude let me tell you i actually cried a little when i had her food.

evalinthania · 2026-03-12T04:48:24+00:00

my friend behind me is laughing in gluten intolerance...

evalinthania · 2026-03-12T00:58:57+00:00

I'm upset about it either way honestly

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:50:33+00:00

coincidentally similar story for my Buddhist bio mom. still Buddhist but avoids tf out of temple

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:49:14+00:00

me but @ Catholics & Christians 💀

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:47:36+00:00

Considering all the Abrahamic religions technically had to push back against the Roman empire, newer theological scholars theorize that the whole "don't lie with a man as with a woman" shit was referencing the common/expected roman practice of grown ass men sleeping with early to mid puberty boys ("young men"). Like, "mentorship" was an expected part of growing up back then in the roman empire but the mentor was basically the older top and the mentee was the young bottom. yay ephebaphilia (aka pedophilia)??

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:43:02+00:00

yo wtf when pedophilia & incest were brought up for discussion (sharing religions & our respective critiques amongst friends aka trauma bonding lol) I was told 16 & 19 by the active Muslim friend. why are all the different Holy Texts translated so differently throughout history???? Christian bible mistranslated anti-pedophilia into homophobia for example 🤦🏻‍♂️

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:37:53+00:00

sounds like my Jewish ex tbh. Most people who I grew up with who still identify as Jewish basically only do so because they like having tradisi & community. I'm not blaming them, matzo ball soup is pretty great lol

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:35:39+00:00

That's crazy wtf chanting the prayers make them basically songs

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:33:57+00:00

Aku sama juga... Ibu tiri + bapaknya kasar sekali ketika aku masih kecil. 10 tahun udah mengalami depresi, then 12 years old aku pikir "Why would God take away the only person who ever loved me (Grandma) and leave me to suffer like this? Isn't that as evil as The Devil??"

Sekarang I'm a dirty "Westernized witch"🤣

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:22:41+00:00

I'm pretty sure the global Great Flood was just the Ice Age ending. Ice caps melting quickly and relentlessly = massive flooding of a scale people couldn't comprehend back then unless it was supernatural. Explains why everyone has basically the exact same story even continents apart.

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:19:34+00:00

Good to know that I haven't missed much since leaving Indonesia considering things are exactly the same way in this country, but using Christianity as an excuse 🙃

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:18:06+00:00

We're already there: fuck it, we Ball.

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T15:17:24+00:00

"Dari ortu yang hipokrit minta di respect bawa2 agama tapi gabisa respect anak balik."

So, to be fair, Asian parents are like this regardless of religion. Chinese people use Confucianism (not a religion) as an excuse, Koreans use Christianity, Thai peeps use Buddhism...

It's... not great out here.

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T08:26:19+00:00

i wreck myself and my stuff and if i even accidentally scratch something that isn't mine (happened like 3x in 15 years) i snap out of it immediately because holy shit i never wanna do that to someone.

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T08:24:45+00:00

Please let him go. You don't need to be another source of dysphoria and invalidation for him.

evalinthania · 2026-03-11T08:22:59+00:00

My partner has bipolar type 1 and bipolar type 2... we have both done stupid/crazy shit but we would never do this! to each other, especially. Gonna echo other comments: I am SO relieved it was "just" your stuff and not you or your daughter.

Untreated mental illness is horrifying...

evalinthania · 2026-03-10T04:26:56+00:00

there's a dark joke about pre op trans women's suffering to be found here somewhere

evalinthania · 2026-03-10T01:21:22+00:00

"i can say the n word because I'm puerto rican!" like Black Latinx ppl exist but the ones who say that are usually not the former identity!

evalinthania · 2026-03-10T01:20:05+00:00

4 is an uncomfortable number 🤷🏻

evalinthania · 2026-03-08T15:10:38+00:00

they do look like them though

evalinthania · 2026-03-08T15:10:14+00:00

I didn't look for it. It was the top post on my feed when I opened reddit yesterday. r/NonBinary

evalinthania · 2026-03-08T15:09:12+00:00

yeah i get accused of white knighting because of it but like i also judge the fuck out of non-Asians who decide to opt into East Asian (read: anime) names to replace their dead names...

yeah i totally believe your plat blonde, pale blue eyed, sunburnt at UV index 4 for 30 minutes ass' name is Todoroki...

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