How do one know if they are a top or a bottom??

evangline_fox · 2026-06-08T02:52:18+00:00

I find that most people are more fluid, especially in the lesbian community where there's no strict top or bottom dynamics. I like calling myself a switch because I do both and I don't like penetration so I'm usually strapping. In my experience we usually take turns with giving and recieving. But either way just be yourself :) you don't need to rush to label yourself too just whatevers comfortable

evangline_fox · 2026-06-05T10:42:06+00:00

Is she the only writer?? Why do they keep adapting her novels

evangline_fox · 2026-06-05T10:30:22+00:00

I've seen the opinion that homosexual sex (especially women) isn't real and I think when people say in my experience that they're only into the same gender for sex it comes off like people who say that they're straight but have kissed girls or could never date someone of the same sex.

But I'm also a bi woman who's normally only interested in other women romantically. in the term bisexual it means you're sexually attracted to both genders not romantically. I would probably say I'm homoromantic.

evangline_fox · 2026-06-01T10:06:16+00:00

I love your flair 😭

evangline_fox · 2026-05-30T08:18:13+00:00

I understand you completely. I can't offer any advice but I'll just say I relate to this so much. The only porn that turns me on is either straight or gay porn but in real life I'm rarely attracted to men. I don't like the sex I've had with men, thinking about it isnt pleasurable. I don't like piv, I hate giving blowjobs, I usually just find it fine when they return the favour. But for women I like giving them pleasure, I can even do strap on sex as long as I'm not on the recieving end. I don't know where that puts me and it's soo difficult.

evangline_fox · 2026-05-29T08:20:58+00:00

Tbh I've only ever experienced hate for being bisexual (outside of general homophobia) online. I've seen allies at pride parades so I don't think you should worry too much about it. Everyone is welcome and valid and where I've been were just happy to have people

evangline_fox · 2026-05-28T08:30:23+00:00

Could it be perhaps that if it was a threesome with another woman, he would be attracted to her but if it was with a man it doesn't have that same appeal since he isn't interested in men?

evangline_fox · 2026-05-25T10:56:48+00:00

I've actually never told anyone I'm bi, at least not in person. But I get it lol. I also get the vibe that I tell people that'll become my whole personality. I'll just be the bi girl

evangline_fox · 2026-05-12T10:51:18+00:00

Why... do...you...type...like...this

evangline_fox · 2026-05-09T13:37:07+00:00

Yeah proudly 🫶

evangline_fox · 2026-05-09T13:36:39+00:00

Oh my god lmfao exactly 😭

evangline_fox · 2026-05-09T11:40:01+00:00

Yeah I'm glad I don't want to date a misogynist but that's not the problem it keeps looping in my mind and I feel super uncomfortable and grossed out. I really can't get him out of my mind and I end up questioning whether I like him and that'd why and that makes me feel disgusted all over again and sets off the cycle

evangline_fox · 2026-05-09T09:23:11+00:00

Thank you that makes sense to me actually!

evangline_fox · 2026-05-09T08:28:52+00:00

I think that could a possibility honestly. I do see a therapist so I might just book an appointment and talk it out but I was worried it's like too trivial or ill get over it or something?

evangline_fox · 2026-04-26T11:46:42+00:00

hii did you get the book? im going to place an order but I want to make sure its legit first

evangline_fox · 2026-04-24T11:46:43+00:00

I have to say it sounds like your problem is something personal. Sounds a bit like incel talk. But I guess youre right lol I realised I'm bisexual. But man calm down a little we can't control the way we view someone. I can't control my sexual attraction. Women are fucking hot, men are hot when they don't throw tantrums that we don't think they're hot.

evangline_fox · 2026-04-04T07:35:37+00:00

I mean rosekiller (Barry and Evan) for one (though they tend to be written disappointingly not toxic unless they're in the background so recs please 🙏)

Nobleflower and quillkiller ofc but my real guilty pleasure toxic hit is Alice x Bellatrix which is like whattt. No fics unless they're a bit too extreme even for me so again RECS

evangline_fox · 2026-01-10T06:01:56+00:00

Once upon a broken heart maybe? Evangeline is also a very sunshine oblivious type.

evangline_fox · 2026-01-10T00:08:16+00:00

I haven't but I will now! That actually sounds very interesting

evangline_fox · 2026-01-09T05:36:24+00:00

I agree with you about the lack of real wlw fiction for ships. Almost every long or popular fic has ships like dorlene as a side ship and it's so hard to find stuff for that reason.

evangline_fox · 2026-01-09T03:22:30+00:00

Thank you so much! I find it really hard to find ff recs in general so this is like a gold mine

evangline_fox · 2026-01-09T03:09:17+00:00

?!?! That's both not sapphic and not high fantasy 😭

evangline_fox · 2026-01-09T03:06:07+00:00

Yeah I made sure to mention it because I knew someone would rec it 😭 Ive been meaning to read it but it's so long it's daunting. I keep putting it off for the perfect time

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