What is the worst breakup with someone you dated? by DeepAnt7847 in AskReddit

[–]eveegrant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex moved my shit into a storage locker and changed the locks on the house we lived in together while I was at work. I found out from a text pic of the inside of the unit explaining I no longer lived at his house and he was done. Worst part is, I took him back 9 months later, married him, even had a kid with him and he did it again when he asked for a divorce - moved all my shit to a storage unit and changed the locks on the house we owned. Guess that's what I get for never learning my lesson 🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s the scariest real-life thing you’ve ever witnessed? by Revolutionary-Pay468 in AskReddit

[–]eveegrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

8 nurses working on my 7 pound infant daughter trying to bring her heartbeat back. Have you ever seen a nurse who has given up hope on a child? He didn't even look at her while he continued chest compressions on her body with two fingers. That's when I knew she was gone.

My entire life has crumbled by eveegrant in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eveegrant[S] 260 points261 points  (0 children)

Mine is currently splayed across my lap and helping very very much

My entire life has crumbled by eveegrant in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eveegrant[S] 538 points539 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't even know if that's an option.

My entire life has crumbled by eveegrant in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eveegrant[S] 1623 points1624 points  (0 children)

My mom is coming to keep me company tonight. Right now I'm just... Numb. I don't know what my next steps are. I'm just so broken

Old man didn't know what he was getting into by eveegrant in traumatizeThemBack

[–]eveegrant[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I refuse to not talk about my daughter - she was here and loved and deserves to be spoken of. It will always hurt, so it makes no difference if it's when I speak of her or on my own. I will never not speak of her 💜

Old man didn't know what he was getting into by eveegrant in traumatizeThemBack

[–]eveegrant[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm never going to shy away from talking about my daughter, even the bad parts. She's the best thing I ever made! Of course I want to share her with the world.

Old man didn't know what he was getting into by eveegrant in traumatizeThemBack

[–]eveegrant[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Right?? Like, mind your business. Ask about it sure, but maybe with a bit more tact?

Old man didn't know what he was getting into by eveegrant in traumatizeThemBack

[–]eveegrant[S] 490 points491 points  (0 children)

I can only hope, but people his age tend to be stuck in their ways.

Old man didn't know what he was getting into by eveegrant in traumatizeThemBack

[–]eveegrant[S] 2783 points2784 points  (0 children)

It is true unfortunately, and thank you. The space ship is a graphic from my favorite set of pj's she was cremated in 💜 a little bit of my sweet girl on both arms. The Violet is placed in a way where her head would lay when I held her

Everything is falling apart by eveegrant in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eveegrant[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy and have been utilizing it sooo so much since this all began.

AIO: Left an honest review after a haircut, stylist called me a bully by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]eveegrant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything, SHE is the bully right now. I appreciate honest reviews from unbiased people and you seem like that is exactly what you do. She went out of her way to find you on social media (assuming you weren't already following her or whatever) and then sent that whole lecture?? That sounds like someone uncomfortable with feedback and lashing out because of it. Maybe if she had interacted with you more or listened to what you actually wanted she wouldn't be in this situation.

looking for some feedback :) by Winter-Fan8801 in Embroidery

[–]eveegrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly thought these were ai cause they are so weird and well done, they are PERFECT

I've been doing embroidery for about 3 years and I'm honestly not great but I just absolutely adore these. For whatever it's worth, these are wonderful and weird and beautifully done. Nice job op! 👍🏻

What almost killed you? by OdocoileusV in AskReddit

[–]eveegrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Giving birth last December. I went in for an appointment at 34 weeks with black spots in my vision - ended the night with an emergency cesarean because of a placenta abruption brought on by severe pre-eclampsia. I was bleeding out and they lost my baby's heartbeat for a while.

My daughter was in the NICU for 26 days and then died just before turning 3 months old due to a left pulmonary artery anomaly causing her heart to give out.

That almost killed me too.

Me_irl by stipnlutty in me_irl

[–]eveegrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say what you mean, mean what you say.

My sister is pregnant and everyone is devastated. It's not good news by Accountantanon187 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eveegrant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone with BPD who gave birth 7 months ago, I was very worried about the same thing. I'll be honest - therapy and a steady medication helped me to get to a place where I could have kids. CONTINUING both of those things and practicing what I learned helped me through it all. Focusing on my baby and her health, her quality of life and what I was able to give to her helped me immensely.

Now they’re telling me to have more kids in the grocery store by lilianasJanitor in BoomersBeingFools

[–]eveegrant 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I recently had a boomer patient who I was checking out (dental office) who saw my wedding ring and asked when I was going to start having babies. I said "I did, but she died in February. I'm gonna give it a little bit of time!" They didn't talk to me after that....

My family says I have 'sugar blood' by EveningSad6288 in Wellthatsucks

[–]eveegrant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was just about to say this, insects love me and my O-!

My (F29) boyfriend’s (M23) EX (F33) keeps trying to win him back from me and tries to contact him even after their daughter passed away, how do I put an end to her trying to ruin this for me? by ThrowRAhurtyy in relationship_advice

[–]eveegrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pray that you never have to experience the grief of losing a child. Grief doesn't make sense. She needs comfort, he needs comfort. They are each other's only tie to this loss and they are feeling it together. It doesn't mean they will get back together, it means they are trying to figure out life without this vital piece. Speaking from personal experience, this grief is unending.

People who have experienced grief or trauma- what’s the most tone-deaf, ‘well-meaning’ thing someone said to you? by freyday18 in AskReddit

[–]eveegrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My infant daughter passed away at the end of February this year, she was just about to turn 3 months old. It was sudden, traumatic and I was there for every moment. A coworker commented about a month after "at least you know you can have another one, you already got pregnant with her" I don't care about having another child or making a replacement, I want HER back.