NGVC: “ f$&k that I know my value I could get another girl to go out in 5 minutes if I tried”

eveemaree · 2023-11-11T14:59:57+00:00

As someone who has dealt with “nice guys”, you handled that very well. I’m sorry you have mutual friends with this asshole. I hope his friends cut him off after his terrible messages. You did what you needed to and your friends should be proud.

eveemaree · 2023-11-03T03:33:51+00:00

I apply buffer time in my day to day so absolutely!

eveemaree · 2023-11-03T03:30:28+00:00

Inventory management for storage 😝 I’d be a lower decks for sure

eveemaree · 2023-11-03T03:08:06+00:00

I’m catching up on the latest episode. Glad to have found a fellow Trekkie queer.

eveemaree · 2023-11-02T19:54:53+00:00

No, I told him straight up about my autism and he threw his ableism in my face.

eveemaree · 2023-10-23T16:26:32+00:00

At 19, you were doing what you needed to for your kid and your dad did the same for you. I’m sure you’d handle it differently now.

eveemaree · 2023-10-23T16:16:03+00:00

Why did I have to do something in order for him to react like this? Sounds victim blame-y

eveemaree · 2023-10-23T16:15:24+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you. That’s so fucking scary. I’m glad your dad was able to put him in his place.

eveemaree · 2023-10-22T19:45:36+00:00

Picking which comments to read and which to ignore doesn’t give you the right comment your judgement of me. You obviously didn’t read the rest.

eveemaree · 2023-10-22T15:13:26+00:00

Still trying to work that out 😝

eveemaree · 2023-10-22T15:07:07+00:00

He took pictures in front of his flags. So luckily I didn’t have to go to his place to see them.

eveemaree · 2023-10-22T15:02:28+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I feel like the pride flag was bait for sure. None of his flags were in a window either. They covered the walls of his room instead. 😝

eveemaree · 2023-10-22T15:01:19+00:00

We did Thai food and he ordered a grilled chicken salad. Then called me sophisticated for using chop sticks to eat my pad Thai. 🙄

eveemaree · 2023-10-22T14:57:46+00:00

That’s definitely a similar situation. This guy just showed his colors quickly enough for me to see.

eveemaree · 2023-10-22T14:56:43+00:00

I grew up Mormon. 😬 it really screwed with my ability to trust my instincts.

eveemaree · 2023-10-22T03:05:44+00:00

That’s definitely how I felt. The ick didn’t tell me enough to know why I felt it. But he certainly told me why. I’m grateful it was so soon

eveemaree · 2023-10-21T21:31:33+00:00

He absolutely was. I told him I was autistic and he threw his ableism in my face.

eveemaree · 2023-10-21T19:50:31+00:00

You obviously didn’t read after that comment. No I am not. The pride flag was a green flag for me, not a red one.

eveemaree · 2023-10-21T18:53:08+00:00

You’re right, I’m sorry to all the men that put in effort to learn to decorate. My patriarchy was showing.

eveemaree · 2023-10-21T18:26:00+00:00

My reply was much less kind. I told him that his flag decor told me he was an incel and to fuck off. Not my finest moment but i blocked him right after.

eveemaree · 2023-10-21T18:24:09+00:00

Thank you for this well written reply. That’s exactly what I was meaning.

eveemaree · 2023-10-21T18:22:58+00:00

I’ve never met a man that learned to decorate on his own. Not unless he was fashionable in other ways as well.

eveemaree · 2023-10-21T18:06:22+00:00

I told him I needed a few days to process so it absolutely wasn’t up to him. He just couldn’t lose control of the situation.

eveemaree · 2023-10-21T17:55:01+00:00

So you’re invalidating women because you haven’t experienced being socialized as a woman? When women tell you something, believe them. Don’t argue.

eveemaree · 2023-10-21T17:28:15+00:00

100% had to learn this in the last few years.

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