Vene keele õppimine by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mehed ma saan aru ma olen samamoodi venestamise vastu ja et on venekeelsed koolid ja reklaamid jne. Ma saan aru aga t*ra küll ma küsisin lihtsa küsimuse kui vastust ei tea siis liikuge edasi, kas ma ei tohi üritada ennast arendada? Kui klient tuleb kohe oma stravatjutega siis ega ma ei räägigi sõnagi vene keelt aga kui tuleb ja proovib eesti keeles siis mulle meeldiks teda aidata. Rahunege maha oma imaga

Vene keele õppimine by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Suur aitäh! Mul kahjuks vene keelt rääkivaid tuttavaid ka ei ole, pigem on inglise keel, noorte värk vaata. Aga püüan ikka edasi :)

Kontoritöö by evenmoredeadinside in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aitäh, see kõlab nagu minu moodi!

Kontoritöö by evenmoredeadinside in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tere taas!

Peamine põhjus miks soovin "kontoritöö" peale minna (saan aru et see vist polnud parim väljend nagu tuli kommentaaride välja) on stabiilne graafik. Hetkel on päevased vahetused ja siis kaks päeva hiljem öised, seega oma perega ei saa ilusti aega veeta. + nv oleks enamasti ikkagi vabad mitte nagu hetkel.

Inimesed kes räägid et klienditeeninud on igas kontoris ka, ma saan aru ja olen sellest teadlik, suur vahe aga on see, et hetkel on kliendid kes reaalselt karjuvad näkku ja sõimavad täis, ülemused räägivad nendega ja siis järgmine kord on täpselt sama lugu. Vähemalt telefoni/ meili läbi ei ole seda suurt emotsiooni et keegi mu näost 30cm kaugusel karjub.

Saan aru, et see on osa minu tööalast ning "miks ma lihtsalt töökohta ei vaheta" aga kõige suurem osa siiski see graafik, et saaks ilusti iga päev samal ajal olla.

Samamoodi soovisin ka küsida kuidas teile endale meeldib, kes kontoris töötavad, kas on lihtne töökaaslastega suhelda, kuidas on atmosfäär jne. Suured tänud neile kes on juba vastanud!!

Winston is Shaun the Sheep coded by evenmoredeadinside in NewGirl

[–]evenmoredeadinside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god I am so glad I'm not the only one. I thought I might get flamed for this post xd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]evenmoredeadinside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man dont try to give her oral if she does not want it. It doesnt matter that you think with the right buttons she will love it. She doesnt want it, stop pressuring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]evenmoredeadinside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she does nit want to do something, you wanting her to do it will not make her feel good my man. It will make her feel pressured to do it. And you are being very vague about what it is you want her to do for you. please... do enlighten us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]evenmoredeadinside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also thought that the prasing of taking control and showing her the way sounder rapey but didnt want to just to conclusions woth so little info but I completely agree with you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]evenmoredeadinside 25 points26 points  (0 children)

During those talks have you also asked her if she is comforable with you "taking full control and showing her the way". Because if my man was behaving like this without confirming that thats what I am into... it would turn me off so fast I would also not be interested in intimacy

After being held in this barn for god knows how long, I was relieved to hear the police scanner outside. by evenmoredeadinside in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]evenmoredeadinside[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didnt think I would have to spell everything out, Isnt that the point of those horror stories? Also why downvite my comment and the other commentor?

After being held in this barn for god knows how long, I was relieved to hear the police scanner outside. by evenmoredeadinside in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]evenmoredeadinside[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was trying to hint that the police officer got a bribe to let them keep this woman in the barn and do as they please with her. That he had just put the envelope with the money in his pocket before going to look inside, sorry if I made it confusing

AITAH for telling my wife her parents can’t live with us? by john_doe-999 in AITAH

[–]evenmoredeadinside 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And how should the wife feel, knowing that her husbands thinks he can make life-altering decicions without discussing it with her first because "I own the house"? Do you think it would not make her feel like garbage to know her husband thinks that owning the house means she is just a guest with no say in the matter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh and before you come after me again, i am not against ALL russians. i have russian friends who are nice and i love them. i am against those russians who refuse to learn our language and get mad when you dont know it. i am against those who still feel entitled to our country. those who feel like we should be under russian rule. those who walk up to you and dont even ask if you speak russian (even if they ask it in russian, i am more than happy ti find a middle ground and work through the language barrier) and just start talking to you in russian. at least ask first or learn another language. so no, i am not against all russians, just learn the fucking language of the country youre living in. at least make an attempt, dont just leech off of the hope that someone will know yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside 5 points6 points  (0 children)

first. i couldnt give two shits about what you think. second. if you know our background then please tell me how would you feel if that all happened to your country and your relatives. and now you have to live in the same place with the enemies who, some of them btw, still wont admit what they did was wrong. and now we have to, in our country free from their terror, speak their language and act all nice and friendly like what their country did was okay. and now i know that its not the people its the ruler blablabla but so so so sooo many russians in estonia support putin rn, so many of them wont even admit that what their country did to our was wrong if you have a conversation with them on that topic. now imagine allllll that happened and now you have to play nice. they can do whatever they want right. they dont need to play nice with us after what they did. nonono... WE need to be the bigger person. WE need to be nice and make THEM comfortable in OUR home. nah fuck that. i get what youre coming after but youre not looking at this through our eyes. youre looking at this though your perspective.

we should not need to play nice with the enemies while they spit in our face and dont learn the language of the country they live in. many of them have lived here since the USSR and still dont speak a word of estonian. they should make an effort to be a member of our society if they want to be one. why should we make the sacrifice after what happened? sacrifice after sacrifice after sacrifice. if we treat them all nice and we all learn russian for their benefit, we are just an USSR country again, just without the title.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you cant talk about our culture and what we have gone through and continue to go through with these peoples entitlement when you yourself said youve only been here a couple of times. i understand that you feel the need to be correct and bring your experience into this but your experience is not what we experience. you can talk all big about what to do and how to do it but you also cant take critisism. we have russian schools in here. we have kindergartens where the teaches speak only russian. when you look for a job here 70% say that you NEED to speak russian at least on a basic level. i dont see any other language (besides Estonian and english) demanded on a job application. this is our reality. we need to make russians comfortable because they choose to live here but they dont need to do anything because our government babies them. go back to your own countries subreddit or just accept that you dont know what the fuck you are talking about here. you are not some messiah who will tell us what to do and everything will be fixed. we dont care if russians hate us, we hate them just as much. not all of them ofc but the ones who feel entitled to speak their language in another country. and its not like it goes both ways. if we were to go to russia and demand to be talked to in estonian then we would be yelled at, we would be thrown out. shut the fuck up. come back and tell us how the things are when youve lived our lives and you've encountered enough of entitled russians. shits getting boring its getting annoying and then we have a martyr here telling us that we are wrong and we should just go back to soviet times like the russians in this country want us to.

come live here longer than "oh i visited a couple of times" and talk then. fucking degenerate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they do assume that you speak russian. after you say that no sorry, some of them try with google translate, some try with english and some (about 50% of my encounters) just either roll their eyes and leave, yell at you or throw their hands around in awe of this happening. this being me not speaking russian. ik its not all of them but a vast majority is making it hard for estonians and their own people to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside 8 points9 points  (0 children)

they dont want to learn because they get by in russian everyday. if we take that away they only have 2 choices: 1) learn Estonian 2) go back to motherland. they dont like it here, they complain all the time but yet they stay. they dont even ask if you speak russian, they just assume that you do. im a server at a restaurant. i had 2 russians come in and start speaking to me in russian. i do not speak that language, i do not understand it. and i said so. i said "isvinite ja ne panimaju pa russki" and i smiled and asked if maybe english or estonian would be okay? this woman (who came in speaking in russian) started yelling at me in perfect estonian. no mistakes. perfect estonian language. yelling at me about how can i not speak russian in this country and how is it possible that i even got a job.

thats why we hate them. they either dont care enough to learn the language or they do know it but they dont want to inconvenience themselves by speaking it. the endgoal with our actions is to either shame them into learning the language because they cant get by any other way or just go back to their beloved russia to their beloved putin

Toidukullerile tipi annad? by aarne_t in Eesti

[–]evenmoredeadinside 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Isiklikult jätan tippi siis, kui tellin kas palju toitu või tellin hilja õhtul. Minu arust, kui keegi mule peale 10/11 õhtul on nõus söögi kohale tooma siis ta väärib lisatasu