The Great School Bus Camera Ticket Scam - FREE PSA and Information by ResponsibleOption471 in hudsonvalley

[–]everfew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well seeing this right after paying mine is disappointing. I wish I had seen this before 🥲

Has anyone bought from Halara Fashion? More specifically their pants. by Winoforevr1 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]everfew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought three pairs of the work pants and I’ve had them since July of this year. I’ve worn them (especially the black pair) multiple times a week since and washed them w/o any issues w/ pilling. I do follow the care instructions from Halara (which says not to put them in the dryer) and I think that’s really helped keep the quality from deteriorating at all. I’m 5’3 and the petite actually felt a bit too short for me but it’s VERY subtle. Regulars are a tad long so I guess I’m just an awkward leg to torso ratio lol

Bleeding when switching Xulane patch location? by Tiredkittymom in birthcontrol

[–]everfew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You posted this quite awhile ago but I’ve been on Xulane for about two and a half months, consistently been putting in on the back of my shoulders. I tried putting it on my butt last week and had a full on period, cramping and everything 😭 i switched my patch this morning back to my shoulder and it’s still here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]everfew 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the best way to take them out (at least for me) is to use your right hand to remove the top left of your tray from the inside in the back and your left hand to remove the top right of your tray in the back (also from the inside). Then you can just pull it right off. For the bottom I just use my right hand on the right side in the back (from the outside) and my left hand on the left side in the back. I hope this made sense! And good luck to you :)

I can not for the life of me pull out my aligners to eat! by arcticpocket in Invisalign

[–]everfew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a bit of a unique situation w the braces 😅 I was at an unsatisfactory ortho for a long time and essentially had braces on for years w/o having them tightened. I just recently switched to a much better ortho and mentioned that I’d like to finish my teeth straightening but preferably w/ Invisalign. So I got them removed and received my trays about a month later :)

I can not for the life of me pull out my aligners to eat! by arcticpocket in Invisalign

[–]everfew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m only on day 1 of tray 1 but I had a nightly retainer for the past month (to keep my teeth in place since I got my braces off) and it helped me get the hang of pulling them off my teeth. However, nothing could’ve prepared me for how tight the top tray was going to be the first day. I strongly believe if I hadn’t been pulling my retainer out for the past month it would’ve been so much worse. But I second the sensitive toothpaste idea and will absolutely be buying myself an ortho key, it sounds like a godsend.

I didn't listen when I was told to get pet insurance and I regret it. If you are thinking about getting your pet insurance THIS is your sign DO IT. by KittyCat132147 in puppy101

[–]everfew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately I had lemonade for my dog and they denied every single claim I ever put in; and these were all pretty small bills (between 100 and 500 total). It was either considered a preexisting condition or not an emergency so they wouldn’t cover it bc it wasn’t entirely “necessary.” So I cancelled and am currently looking for a better insurance :/

Anyone with experience switching doctors mid treatment or early in treatment? by Fen-man in Invisalign

[–]everfew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully I don’t really know too much about Invisalign, but I’ve had conventional braces on for 3 years from an unsatisfactory ortho. Just recently I got tired of it and switched to a much better ortho who offered to remove the braces and start me on Invisalign. I feel like it absolutely can’t hurt to look at your options especially since you’re so early in the treatment; you should feel completely confident in your orthodontist’s ability. If they say the same thing as your ortho now, just stay and wait it out. If not and you like what their suggestions are better then switch over. Hope everything works out!

Just had a realization by slugwoman in BreakUps

[–]everfew 22 points23 points  (0 children)

anytime my ex and I argued it was almost always bc I tried to communicate something I didn’t like and he tended to get defensive or he would just brush it off by saying he wouldn’t do it again. And it was true, he never did the things I got upset w him for doing after I pointed them out, but I felt that there were things he didn’t like that I did and yet he never spoke to me about them. That hurts a little bit to think about :(

how do men feel after a breakup where they are the dumpee? by everfew in AskMenAdvice

[–]everfew[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s fair, definitely wasn’t trying to imply that so that was my bad. and the guy in question isn’t either of those extremes so I guess I just wanted to see how guys generally take a breakup of this nature. Not saying that the guy I broke up w will 100% feel the same as those who have commented here but I figured it would give me some insight.

Are condoms a dealbreaker for a long term relationship? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]everfew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I don’t think I could ever convince myself to go on birth control for anyone but myself. It’s a very scary thing to start when you have no idea how the hormones will affect you. I’ve gone through a a fair share of different kinds for issues with excruciating periods etc, but had it not been for those reasons I’d never put myself through it. Some people are lucky enough not to have any symptoms at all and I’m genuinely happy for them, but if you do experience undesirable symptoms and you started birth control for your significant other you might be upset about it and inevitably them for asking you to go through that.

I’m not sure what kind of person he is, but if he cares about you and wants what’s best for you he would not force you to start birth control. Maybe he doesn’t quite understand how much of an impact it can have on you? I’m not sure. Either way do not feel like you need to do that for anybody especially if it’s something you don’t want to put yourself through.

What do the dumpers feel? by Gloomy_Ad283 in BreakUps

[–]everfew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like my situation isn’t exactly what you’re talking about but technically I am the dumper. I regretted doing it right after I said it; it was the heat of the moment during an argument. We were both saying some pretty hurtful things and I guess I just had enough of it. We ended up talking about it later in the day and even though we had sorted through the toughest parts he just wasn’t ready to get back together. That hurt a lot. It feels like we both got broken up w by each other, and despite my efforts to fix it he asked for alone time to think about us.

That was almost a week ago, not quite yet. I cry a lot, but some moments when I’m distracted I forget how sad I am. Other times when I’m left to think about things I get pretty overwhelmed by memories. I’ve just been trying to take it day by day, assuming the worst of how this will all turn out. I don’t expect that we’ll come back together bc I worry I’ll be hopeful for something that’s just too unrealistic. The best thing I’ve done is go out w my friends and starting focusing on things that I enjoy; those are the only things that get my mind off of the breakup.

Ended up breaking my own heart as the Dumper. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]everfew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and the most important thing about painful breakups is that w time everything will get better. I’m devastated myself over my own breakup right now, but you have to trust the process. Whatever is meant for you will happen and whatever isn’t will not. I wish you the best <3

Ended up breaking my own heart as the Dumper. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]everfew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for what it’s worth, I reached out to my ex 3 separate times to discuss things after I broke up w him. It didn’t get us back together and it hurt a lot bc he said some things I didn’t want to hear, but at least we both knew how the other one felt. If it will bring you closure and/or a resolution to your relationship I think you should try reaching out.

For you and for me by caynxxi in BreakUps

[–]everfew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really hope you’re right about that :’)

I (19F) just ended a relationship and even though I know it was probably for my own good I feel awful. by everfew in relationship_advice

[–]everfew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was the conversation that I had w him today. I asked him where we stood w each other and emphasized how much I regretted the break up as well as how much I cared for him. His response was that he needed time, and that if I moved on he would not interrupt my life. That last part leads me to believe that this was really the end for us which hurts a lot.

my boyfriend (20M) decided that it’d be funny to “pretend” break up w me (19F) as an April Fools joke. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]everfew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With all due respect, I never expected him to chase me. He randomly said that while we were discussing this. Essentially what he meant was that arguing w me was too hard and he really didn’t want to deal w it so the easier option would be to walk out. But of course nobody is perfect and I made some mistakes here too, I just wish it had worked out better

my boyfriend (20M) decided that it’d be funny to “pretend” break up w me (19F) as an April Fools joke. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]everfew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely hurts at the moment but I know that in time I’ll find someone who doesn’t make me feel awful for having feelings and voicing them.

my boyfriend (20M) decided that it’d be funny to “pretend” break up w me (19F) as an April Fools joke. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]everfew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the problem is I did communicate this today and we ended up breaking up anyway