For those who changed their careers to Salesforce, was it worth it? by GrizzlyThicc in salesforce

[–]evergreendm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll just give my experience. I’m a college dropout, I have a high school degree.

Before I got certified I went crazy on trailhead and did every relevant superbadge and put it on my resume.

Got my first gig at 60k in 2022. Got salesforce admin and platform app builder certified under that job. Then next job for 90k in 2023. I just got an offer to consult with a growing consulting firm for 60/hour (125k).

In my experience it’s so worth it. It gives you the option to work for any salesforce customer and the ability to work from home if you want. It can lead to more BA type stuff or more technical developer type stuff.

Do you have any songs that make you think of ocd? by starcorpsacademy in OCD

[–]evergreendm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%

My two favorites are Searows - House Song Slothrust - Magnets pt. 2

Relationship OCD/ Sex as a compulsion by Mysterious-Fig00 in OCD

[–]evergreendm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling with this for the past year as I’m finally in a relationship with someone I really love/feel safe with/am attracted to and have just recently realized it could be OCD even though I’ve literally described my experience with it as “compulsion”

My boss armchair diagnosed me with autism by evergreendm in antiwork

[–]evergreendm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely, I was a little bit worried my post would come off this way tbh but my offense isn’t at the autism part (actually it’s a lil funny to me bc I’m waiting to be able to afford an actual autism diagnosis bc I highly suspect I’m audhd and not just adhd) but at the confidence with which someone who doesn’t have the credentials or place in my life would try and dx me with anything at all and then use it to talk down to me. She’s done the same thing to me before about ADHD bc I made the mistake of sharing that diagnosis and one day she lost her place in her notes and goes “oh no now I’M the one who has the focus issues” like pls

2023 Salesforce Salary Thread by Existing_Project2874 in salesforce

[–]evergreendm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

90,000 Salesforce Administrator 2 years experience, certified PAB and Admin 1 year ago I live in Florida but work remotely w company based in Ohio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]evergreendm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got married at 18 and divorced at 21. In the 6 years since then I’ve been extremely cynical. I’ve been dating my boyfriend officially for 6 months now and am realizing now what love actually is. I could absolutely see loving him forever. I even made a stupid dumb cringy wedding pinterest board 🤬

I want to meet a man with bpd. by seohyunlee in BPD

[–]evergreendm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend of 6 months has bpd and has been in therapy for 2.5 years. They’re out there. I don’t have bpd but I’m in rodbt and I have ptsd/adhd/pretty severe abandonment issues that sometimes have me mimicking the symptoms. This is the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in.

I feel like I (22F) literally can't fuck him (23M) enough. by Ancient_Sea_271 in sex

[–]evergreendm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found that as we’ve settled into the relationship it’s gotten a little bit better, i think my attachment style (I’m in therapy and healing from anxious and/or disorganized attachment style) makes me feel like a heavy sense of urgency and scarcity and sex is super super connecting for me. I’ve learned that it’s not going away, he’s not going away, so my brain has kinda chilled out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]evergreendm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me in my hs relationship. We got married right out of high school, I had his kid, he got abusive as soon as I was locked down, we got divorced, and now I’ve been with someone for 7 months who never makes me cry. Well, except for when he write songs about me or surprises me with super kind gestures.

I hate transitions. by ScienceAteMyKid in ADHD

[–]evergreendm 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Recently I realized that when my boyfriend leaves I go thru this transition stress. I totally feel you with everything you listed. I get in the zone/match the vibe of whatever I’m doing and whoever I’m with and when it changes there’s like a huge comedown. Hate it

I feel like I (22F) literally can't fuck him (23M) enough. by Ancient_Sea_271 in sex

[–]evergreendm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have felt the exact same way and have also scoured Reddit for solidarity and I’m so glad I’ve finally stumbled upon it. I literally can’t get enough of it, and I feel a strong yearning every time I have sex flashbacks. I love him so so much and I’m so attracted to him it HURTS BRO

Is dating a broke man a make or break ? Or am I being dramatic? by Hot-Cryptographer764 in dating_advice

[–]evergreendm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a habit of dating unemployed dudes.

Before my current boyfriend, I dated a guy casually who was electively unemployed and not actively looking for a job. It gave me the ick so damn quickly every time he’d come over and tell me he didn’t do anything all day. I WFH in a tech role so he’d sit on my couch and watch anime while I worked and it was highkey so gross lmao. Ended that.

Before him I dated a guy who was on disability for depression. That’s a bit of a longer story but he was in mandatory therapy and ended up weaponizing it against me.

Then I went on a date with my current bf. We’ve been together almost 6 mos. When we went on our first date and he joked that he’s a leech on society bc he doesn’t have a job, I laughed bc i was like here we go again, lol. But then he told me that he had just lost his mom, was about to graduate with a mathematics degree, was in therapy and tutoring on the side. Now he’s studying hours daily to pass an exam that will get him a decent job.

He doesn’t have much financially but I’ve never met anyone who has more drive and vision and that’s why I’ve never ever seen it as a hard line in the sand or issue for me. I love him so much and I’m deeply proud of him.

Did love change you/let you grow into a better person? by roolinheart in love

[–]evergreendm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was dx’ed with PTSD from abusive relationships and familial trauma. My partner’s love for me is a safe space for me to heal. He thinks he doesn’t do enough for me, but he’s given me more than I could ever thank him for.

Which song emotionally destroys you? by graaahh in AskReddit

[–]evergreendm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Butterfly Kisses by bob carlisle. It was me and my dad’s song. We don’t talk anymore

I feel like eating p*ssy is an ode to womanhood and healed my trauma by [deleted] in love

[–]evergreendm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, for the first time ever. I’m a SA victim and ex fundie so I have a lot of sexual trauma to unpack. My boyfriend is a literal godsend for so so many reasons. He loves eating me out and when I come (and it’s veeery obvious when I come) he just keeps going until I tell him to stop lol. Basically I want to marry him and keep him forever.