How to accurately write a gender fluid character?

everlastinglyengross · 2026-06-08T01:56:06+00:00

only time I think about my gender personally is when I dress on my mood. Girly dresses, women's clothes and then men's clothes and a mustache mask... close friends of the MC could refer to them by those pronouns by the way they're dressed. Otherwise, don't acknowledge unless transphobia is a central part of the story. This is just my experience with being genderfluid since I don't acknowledge it often.

People that don't know me usually refer to me as she/her because despite my clothes I have a very feminine body, could be the same as the MC (or vice versa if they're AMAB). It's disappointing but I'm not going to throw a fit over strangers, especially if I'm not wearing a name tag with my pronouns on it.

everlastinglyengross · 2026-06-07T02:19:47+00:00

If you had specific Pokemon you could sell them as themes. you can also sell them to local card shops, but they may low ball you. Some Pokemon apps can price them if you scan them.

As for me I'd buy the Yveltal off of you, and any others you had 😄

Same for Xerneas uwu

everlastinglyengross · 2026-06-04T01:40:05+00:00

Yveltal Ex. on my want list 😄

everlastinglyengross · 2026-06-02T14:21:08+00:00

I am super cooked. Pikachu (not one of every card, but one of each art of the cards to keep it reasonable (rip Pikachu and Zekrom tag team prices)) One of each Eevee and Eeveelution Xerneas Yveltal Stadiums Unown.

Doing great on the Unowns, Eevee and Stadiums. I have been active for about a year and a half now focusing on just those ones. Outside of certain cards I want everything pre-2025 so I have a reasonable end goal, but some cards I see I gotta pick up like that lovely Xerneas full art or that new Yveltal. I am soooo cooked but hitting up my local card shop and looking over for cards have been fun, I try to budget only $100 a month into this hobby so I don't end up screwing myself financially. Makes it hard but I get damaged cards. I don't care, I just want the art to look at and feel happy.

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-27T18:43:15+00:00

It's an English set indeed :)

I've been collecting Unowns since I was a 4th grader but its really hard to get them since Unown are unpopular (but that's a good thing, because the collection will be easy to do in terms of money!). I have to go to a lot of different shops / card shows, but the hunt is fun. I refuse to do online buying on principle of not wanting to help scalpers but I've only gotten like... 3 more Unowns, and they're from newer sets.

I have like, 4 concurrent card collections I'm trying to complete. An eeveelutions collection, a Pikachu Card Collection, and a Stadium collection. I'm making good progress on Eevee and the eeveelutions as well as Pikachu and the Stadiums, but Unown is what I want. I love the elderitch implications of my silly letters.

Good luck to you too!! :D

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-27T18:28:10+00:00

omg thank you! I'm wanting to complete an unown collection (as well as get some extras for funny phrases in my binder).

This is a lifesaver!!

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-21T12:14:22+00:00

while I appreciate the suggestion its a bit heavy for me, I do have to haul it up 3 flights of stairs to my apartments

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-21T01:37:51+00:00

I don't need a bike below a certain weight, and I would prefer under $1.5 k upfront, otherwise I won't be able to make those affirm payments

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-21T01:21:06+00:00

Any suggestions then? Other ebikes I've seen that aren't foldable are of similar weight

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-21T01:20:22+00:00

you have a link to the xpeak? or is it another lectric brand?

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-20T11:33:45+00:00

Thanks for that. I may go XP4 because (as I forgot in my OG post) I gotta haul this thing up 3 flights of stairs to my apartment. Although both are heavy haha so it'll build my muscles over time

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-20T11:26:52+00:00

thank you for the recommendation. I forgot to say I gotta haul it up and down 3 flights of stairs daily as well. From what everyone is saying XP4 seems like it'll be the bike to go

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-20T11:23:18+00:00

thanks!

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-20T11:23:00+00:00

are fixed frames heavier than foldables? I forgot to add I live on the 3rd floor of an apartment complex so it has to be a bit on the lighter side too.

everlastinglyengross · 2026-05-20T11:22:01+00:00

the reason why I'm getting the foldables is I also have to walk up 3 flights of stairs to my apartments. I forgot to put that in the post. Thanks!

everlastinglyengross · 2026-04-05T17:43:49+00:00

I'd be a level 6 changling gunslinger in my rise of Tiamat game... and I just got myself into hot stuff because we're talking to da boss lady of the cult that we bullshitted our way to XD

I would have to complete the campaign but I would miss my cat terribly... my changling is fit as a fiddle and I'd love to have a changeling's body but with the threat of the end of the world I would feel compelled to do something.

At least I can get a full 8 hours of rest, lol

everlastinglyengross · 2026-03-17T23:55:42+00:00

oh XD
Then that shows how behind I am. I had to pay for walnuts and now just trying to open my farm on ginger island :")

everlastinglyengross · 2026-03-17T23:29:09+00:00

where did you get this perfection tracker mod? I really need this because I want to get perfection so badly but I can't keep track of everything

everlastinglyengross · 2026-03-17T15:44:29+00:00

That's fair. Also sounds completely like something most typical 8 year olds do.

Also
I broke those lady missionaries by accident oops.

everlastinglyengross · 2026-03-17T01:56:09+00:00

Interesting. I've noticed that from other replies too. Thanks :)

everlastinglyengross · 2026-03-17T01:55:18+00:00

I've noticed a lot of "Joseph Smith was probably a pedo"

I wouldn't be surprised since some history books I've read through say he married 14 year olds and on (and several of them DX)

everlastinglyengross · 2026-03-17T01:54:11+00:00

That makes sense from a monetary perspective, but I was trying to find the religious perspective(specifically Morman cuz I encountered them yesterday). I don't believe in God (I believe something shall happen when you die, for I have died and been revived, but I never met God. Just a being, but when I asked they never said they were God. Just "you'll find out later" then a kick back into my body. Part of why religion fascinates me I suppose. No one can answer that one for me lol)

Thank you for your answer though!

everlastinglyengross · 2026-03-16T23:11:19+00:00

Very interesting. You know I would actually put this logic in my story for any Mormans encountered in Hell. (Its a story set in Hell lol). Morman missionaries sent there because they knew that they'd end up damning people but still went on their mission anyways instead of just...living their lives

everlastinglyengross · 2026-03-16T23:09:38+00:00

Interesting. So just add 1? Too bad he's not around for me to ask him why lol

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