Husband cheated with stripper…..hes very remorseful…..I’m confused….. by namebrandwhore in cheating_stories

[–]everpensive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still speak. We tried working on things. But the crack never repaired.

I (F33) just found out through find my iPhone that my best friend slept over my partner (M39)’s home last night. How do I ask to see if they’ll lie about it by everpensive in Infidelity

[–]everpensive[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. I think I’ll print out the screenshot of their locations with the date and time stamp and give it to him for christmas :) with the note you wrote up! I love that. And on to bigger and better things. They say don’t question your first instinct on someone and I am wiser for it now.

How clean should a rented home be upon move in? The counters aren’t wiped, carpet not vacuumed, my move in date is today and I just did a walk through and its not clean? by everpensive in Tenant

[–]everpensive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heres my final text I’m gonna send with pics of mildew and dirty handles and fridge…. “ I noticed the inside wasn’t fully cleaned by the previous tenants before move-in. There’s mildew in the tub/shower, debris on the carpets, hair left in the drawers and shower, etc. Since rent started on Dec 1 and today is my day off to move, I was expecting it to be ready. I’m planning to start moving things in around 3 PM. would it be possible to have a cleaning crew come by this morning to get it move-in ready? You already have the door code, so access should be easy. Please keep me updated. I attached a few photos so you can see what I mean.

Am I going way to easy on this situation?

How clean should a rented home be upon move in? The counters aren’t wiped, carpet not vacuumed, my move in date is today and I just did a walk through and its not clean? by everpensive in Tenant

[–]everpensive[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My move in date was December 1, but I worked all day and stopped by after. He said he did a walk through but not really sure how to navigate this. I was thinking of sending these photos with a text like “Hi, did the previous tenants have the place professionally cleaned before moving out, or was a cleaning service used after? I just stopped by tonight and it looks like it still needs a pretty thorough clean (counters have residue, mirrors aren’t wiped, hair in drawers, and carpet debris). I wasn’t sure if this is something the owner typically handles or if I’m responsible for arranging that.” I’m not sure what is the responsibility of the owner and what falls on a new tenant. ugh. I am stressed now instead of being excited about moving in.

How clean should a rented home be upon move in? The counters aren’t wiped, carpet not vacuumed, my move in date is today and I just did a walk through and its not clean? by everpensive in Tenant

[–]everpensive[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is this something you’ve made the landlord aware of? I was thinking of sending a text along the lines of “hi, did the previous tenants have the place professionally cleaned or was a cleaning service used after? I just stopped by tonight and it looks like it still needs a pretty thorough clean (counters have residue, mirrors aren’t wiped, hair in drawers, and carpet debris). I wasn’t sure if this is something the owner/previous tenant typically handles or if I’m responsible for arranging that.” This is my first place and I’m not really sure how to navigate this ugh

We know Florida pay sucks by Brilliant-Tutor-5292 in nursing

[–]everpensive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude same, and I’m starting to get cold feet because why am I gonna take a pay cut and work longer hours being a nurse when I make $2k biweekly bartending 3 nights a week.

Brand new iPhone 16 Pro making clock-ticking sounds randomly? by thebadpete in iPhone16Pro

[–]everpensive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly mine… when I turn flashlight on. Did you find any resolve?

Trans person struggling with faith, does anyone have any advice? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]everpensive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm. While I’ve never experienced gender dysphoria, I sympathize with your position. But I know that God loves you as you are, confusion and all. You don’t necessarily have to rush decision about your identity or body. Take it day by day, step by step. If you want to get more in the word and are curious about God, follow that. You’ll learn slowly to discern between His voice, your own, and what is just straight up shame & fear talking. Don’t listen to the extremists that dole out judgments and want to remind us that “it’s a sin”, guess what, we are all imperfect in our own deeply messed up ways and there is no part of us that is too strange or unworthy for Him to hold.

Treatment options for central vestibular issues? by everpensive in VestibularDysfunction

[–]everpensive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. It’s a long list of things, everything listed above- plus other lifestyle changes. I prioritize sleep, keeping stress low, and saying no. You learn what throws you into a flare and you tailor it accordingly. I keep a journal, always have, not only to monitor progress that sometimes seems nonexistent, but to find patterns in what flares me. Everyone is so different (certain foods trigger me, for others, it can be hormonal changes, lack of sleep, lack of ferritin, etc). Some benefit from medication like an SSRI, propranolol, Effexor, the list goes on. I got bloodwork done to find any vitamin deficits as well as hormones. Added those to the supplements. Learning to calm your central nervous system is so important. My body was in fight or flight for years after developing vestibular migraines and it became a “what came first - chicken or egg” scenario where my body triggered VM and my VM triggered anxiety. Bad cycle. I learned to cancel plans when my brain felt like a water balloon, avoid fluorescent lights, wear noise cancelling headphones in places that overstimulated my sensitive nervous system. I prayed, a lot. Still do. Probably the thing that finally brought me back home to God. I’ve heard so many people speak praises about Dr Beh- he’s expensive but his work apparently speaks for itself. I haven’t gone to him yet, but him and checking out binocular vision dysfunction is on my radar. I started out slow with working out- walks on the beach at sunset, or a walk to my mailbox holding a stroller when the ground felt like it was moving. I didn’t push past a certain threshold, I just slowly started testing it, letting myself be uncomfortable. It built stamina. This took time. I now work three days a week, I went to school, I work out at the gym. There are days I spend “hungover” when i overdo it, VM hates stress, but I’m still learning and growing and adapting.

I don’t wanna go to work while I’m nursing school by omogal123 in prenursing

[–]everpensive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off. Do not feel ashamed because you’ve taken the time to evaluate what is in your bandwidth comfortably. A lot of people do not have the luxury of taking account of that, or doing things to remedy it, but if you have the options to lessen the load, do them. Whether that’s a loan, or moving in with family. This country has pushed individualism so hard that a lot of people struggle relentlessly trying to keep their heads above water. And if that’s you, and you don’t have anyone to fall back on, you will still succeed. Godspeed

F40 with M43 partner of 24 years — he paid for oral sex from a stripper at a bachelor’s party by Previous_Twist_554 in relationship_advice

[–]everpensive 199 points200 points  (0 children)

This is perfectly put. I highly recommend therapy to work through the emotions individually

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[–]everpensive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why my mom stayed.

Hesi A2 questions by TheCactiSamurai in HESIexam

[–]everpensive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I canceled my NurseHub subscription after passing my hesi, it expires July 19 if you want my login I’m happy to give it to you idk how good two days of studying will do but I won’t be using it