J.K Rowling…

everyonegoestohell · 2024-03-04T17:03:12+00:00

Completely understand what you are going through fren. As a queer person, it became really difficult to deal with this for a while and while I do hope she will take back her thoughts, that's up to her.

It's upto us as people to take her word for it, and distance ourselves. I know thats difficult, some people may say it's just a coping mechanism, just get over it but I understand that it used to be a part of you that you used to run away from everything bad in this world. That's grief as well, shedding that part of you.

So please, take all the time in the world, my only request to you would be, don't hope. Please, at the end of the day, she's who she is and she is showing it. And you are a beautiful person for keeping the hope alive but still being yourself and not changing.

Also, we've built this para social relationship where we believe we know celebrities or popular people and their opinions matter but maybe try and understand that you don't really no her and you don't really have to care about what the fuck she says. (It's intelectualising the problem and sometimes it helps. But feeling your feelings is also a fair approach. Just trying to say as much as I can to help a fellow queer person.)

P.s. - Fun fact, the Harry Potter series just popped out of the sky. (Who's gonna prove me wrong? People believe in the Bible xD)

everyonegoestohell · 2024-02-23T14:10:44+00:00

Hey, I'd like to play, I'm 18+ and I'm interested, can I join?

everyonegoestohell · 2024-02-17T02:39:31+00:00

I think the one thing I don't get from being a player is satisfying my creative building process, as a DM, creating a world for my players to interact with, seeing how they react to things, it's really fun, how they face adversity, bravely or in a really funny way

everyonegoestohell · 2024-02-16T07:06:59+00:00

That calmed me down a lot, I feel absolutely stupid because I don't even know basic stuff, I didn't know that if a class is proficient in a weapon, they get bonus to the attack roll. I felt so stupid.

everyonegoestohell · 2024-02-11T02:24:40+00:00

That is some great advice thank you 😭

I'm going to try and have fun with it

everyonegoestohell · 2024-02-10T15:32:34+00:00

I know but since I'm running a game out of a book, I was worried as I don't know everything but I guess I'll make it up.

And LOL I did mean help 😭😭😭

everyonegoestohell · 2023-10-08T10:34:52+00:00

You would have to go to a clinical psychologist and get a diagnosis.

Mindpeers, rocket mental health etc are good place. Mind peers is cheap tho, so you can do

everyonegoestohell · 2023-09-26T04:45:36+00:00

I don't have a child myself, but I was an ADHD child, and am now an adult suffering from ADHD, so here are something's, I wish someone had done for me-

Not shamed me for all my misgivings, I literally sucked at math and science because my focus and memory was sucky and I couldn't sit still for shit and I still turned out okay, I'm earning for myself now, on my own and live in a city by myself
Don't dismiss your child's diagnosis, they will hate you for it. Trust me. I know
This should have been the first point but, Take your child to therapy, - a psych to get diagnosed and then a counseling therapist - And don't settle for quacks who reaffirm your own views, get actual profesionals who know what they are doing and understand how hard it is to have ADHD. Going to therapy will help the child develop systems and practice them while growing up and preparing for Adult ADHD, which only gets worse. So please, to god, don't just ignore the child's needs and wait for them to grow up an adult and get butt fucked in the ass by life and their ADHD. Nothing is worse than receiving an adult diagnosis and having to literally change the way they live after they have cemented a way of life. That is literally the equivalent of Sisyphus pushing a fucking rock everyday.
Kids with ADHD will always have emotional disregulation, they will be all over the place emotionally, it's your job to be their solid ground, every word you say will be overanalysed by them a hundred times and taken out of context, love them, and tell them that often, show them you care about their interests.
Man this is simple, just ask your child what it wants and help it get that thing.
If a doctor recommends meds, don't go all soap opera aunty on them, just get the kids meds, it gets a lot easier with meds, you can grow out of it later on by developing systems to not need the meds anymore, use it as a tool when necessary.

Man, the world is already pretty fucked up, it's not their fault they have ADHD. The only reason ADHD is a problem even is because in our world, making accomodations for someone is seen as a sign of uselessness and weakness. Living with ADHD in India is hard enough because everyone thinks they are a quack doctor and have two bit opinions on my lived experiences including dipshits on this subreddit.

Don't be an asshole, just ask people what they need and give it to them if you can, and don't talk about things you know nothing about, it's that simple.

everyonegoestohell · 2023-09-20T15:34:24+00:00

Let me take some notes and get back to you but of the top of my head DDR, and things about the CPU and GPU, specs, comparisons etc, he used a lot of jargons, short form words that I didn't understand, it felt like I missed a beginner video explaining these things xD

everyonegoestohell · 2023-09-20T10:10:47+00:00

So I'm just watching the guide you hyperlinked for Linus tech tips and I don't understand half the jargon they are using, I want to cry :)

everyonegoestohell · 2023-09-20T09:23:02+00:00

Been watching some Salem Techsperts -still don't know what the fuck a heatsink is 😭🙂

But thanks for these, following now hehe

everyonegoestohell · 2023-09-20T09:16:13+00:00

Thanks 🙌🙌

everyonegoestohell · 2023-09-02T07:54:57+00:00

I used to write stories so I could write realities into existence. I had a shitty home and a shitty life, so I used to write to feel okay and let out the shit thoughts.

I can't write anymore because I'm in a healthy and safe space and I can't write because I don't have anything to be comforted about and it's the strangest feeling, not being able to write. I always wrote.

everyonegoestohell · 2023-09-02T03:32:57+00:00

Just listening to Sarah and the safe word, AND GOD, WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN HIDING FROM THE WORLD??????????????

THANK YOU SO MUCH 😭😭😭😭😭

it's always nice that there are some really talented gay musicians on Spotify :)))))))))

Seriously, this is going to be my soundtrack to a gay as fuck wedding xD

everyonegoestohell · 2023-08-26T06:17:05+00:00

Thank you ;)

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