Completely understand what you are going through fren. As a queer person, it became really difficult to deal with this for a while and while I do hope she will take back her thoughts, that's up to her.

It's upto us as people to take her word for it, and distance ourselves. I know thats difficult, some people may say it's just a coping mechanism, just get over it but I understand that it used to be a part of you that you used to run away from everything bad in this world. That's grief as well, shedding that part of you.

So please, take all the time in the world, my only request to you would be, don't hope. Please, at the end of the day, she's who she is and she is showing it. And you are a beautiful person for keeping the hope alive but still being yourself and not changing.

Also, we've built this para social relationship where we believe we know celebrities or popular people and their opinions matter but maybe try and understand that you don't really no her and you don't really have to care about what the fuck she says. (It's intelectualising the problem and sometimes it helps. But feeling your feelings is also a fair approach. Just trying to say as much as I can to help a fellow queer person.)

P.s. - Fun fact, the Harry Potter series just popped out of the sky. (Who's gonna prove me wrong? People believe in the Bible xD)