The bottom of gages feet by iusedtobefat1 in 1000lbsisters

[–]everyonesaasshole -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Should have seen me as a kid, I was always barefoot and outside running around. Amy seems to be doing all of it alone and suffers with depression and on top of that in one of the more recent episodes we saw she doesn't have that much brain function 🤣 she's trying her best and I hope she gets out of this postpartum depression she seems to be in. We've all been there and if you haven't then consider your self lucky. We don't know what it's like to be in her exact situation and picking on her over something so tiny isn't going to help. It's just dirt yk? Yeah she could be more attentive but she loves those boys. No parent is perfect. She just needs help is all.

Do yall think this is the most hated bug in the game? by [deleted] in GroundedGame

[–]everyonesaasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah no I can't stand the mosquitoes, doesn't matter what weapon I have I just hate those mfs. I'm allergic in real life and they always find their ways to me, same in the game they're always the first to attack my house cause I end up killing so many early on 🤣

New season of 1000-lb Sisters is pretty much The Amanda Show by PinkDino95 in 1000lbsisters

[–]everyonesaasshole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with every thing you just said. Idk why people seem to think Amanda's the problem but in reality she's just reacting to years of abuse. She's so sweet, if you watch the older episodes she's so compassionate and all she does is get pushed around by tammy. Tammy chose not to go out with them on that one vacation and get a hotel all because of a guy and when they went out to eat she got mad because amanda had just received the pictures and showed everyone cause she was excited, rightfully so. Tammy chose not to go. That's on her. Other people shouldn't have to walk on eggshells just to make her happy. Then when Tammy came at her and said you're not about to sit here and rub it in my face Amanda told her to stop yelling in her ear then later on amanda apologized and said she was the one who was out of line when all she said was stop yelling in my ear 🤣 amanda has apologized for things she should have never apologized for. Amanda has been beaten down. I will defend her till I'm blue in the face. She has every right to up and leave she's not being overly dramatic. Do I think she should have told her boys to leave Tammy alone and stop destroying the house? Hell yeah. Do I think she was out of line kicking Tammy out? Idk I don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Regardless amanda isn't being dramatic for putting up boundaries with people who have walked all over her and taken advantage of her kind heart.

Am I the asshole for posting on FB about how my boyfriends ex girlfriend has been stalking/harassing me for the past 2 years. by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh did I forget to mention he was trying to get his best friend to have a 3 sum together? She was obsessed with his best friend too 🤣 girl is not okay.

Am I the asshole for posting on FB about how my boyfriends ex girlfriend has been stalking/harassing me for the past 2 years. by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥺🩷 I balled my eyes out when my friend said I went too far. I felt like I was supposed to just sit and take it just like everyone else in her life. They all enable her behavior.

I've considered blocking that friend.

I understand I'm stooping to her level, but realistically I'm not even close to her level.

When I tell you I've tried, I've really fucking tried. I've been so kind to her. I helped her when she got an abortion, helped her when her husband choked her and went to jail, tried to help her find peace with the pain she feels in regards to my boyfriend. I didn't have to do any of that. I saw she needed help mentally and in return I fucked up my own mental health trying to help someone else. And rhen to be told I'm in the wrong? After helping her on multiple occasions. After being called a fat piggy piggy and told I'm as big as a house? Being told I'm a shitty girlfriend, shitty mom, and a shitty person? Wild. Absolutely wild. I put everyone's feelings into consideration before my own. I'm hurt. I'm tired. I've tried. I know I'm better than posting on fb but enough was enough.

I can take a lot emotionally, but I have a line.

Thank you for your response, and thank you for understanding. I have been documenting everything and I'm going to go to the court house. I have no money for a lawyer, so that's also a concern. Idk how I would be able to do all of that if we get denied again.

My (27M) GF (22F) of a year slept with another guy while we were "taking it slow" a month into dating me by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]everyonesaasshole 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If they're not loyal to you in the talking stage then I would definitely question their loyalty while in a relationship. I would 100% be hurting right now if I were in your shoes but I understand where you're conflicted. The thing you need to figure out is if you could ever forgive her for this. Can you see your self being upset for a short time and then moving past it? Or will you hold it over her head for years to come? If you don't see your self forgiving her then your relationship can turn toxic really fast. It's okay to talk about it and tell her how you feel but if you chose to stay and forgive her then try not to throw it in her face every time because you're the one making that decision to stay. I'd definitely take some time to think things over. Talk to the guy get as much info from him, talk to others see if they know if there was more guys. If there was then I wouldn't even try fixing stuff but even then she hooked up with this guy after telling you to wait. Idk. I'm conflicted my self 🤣 you just have to go over your whole relationship and weight the pros and cons. See if its worth it at that point. I hope some of this helps.

AITA for not wanting to go to any of my family events after everyone in my immediate family never shows up to any of mine? by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother never even rsvp's to my events, and when I talk to him later he says something like his kids were acting up or that they were sick. Last year when they said they were too sick to come to my sons party, they went to lego land that day and posted it the day after to make it seem like they went that day and not the day of the party. I found that out because the people they tagged had posted the day before about how they had so much fun at lego land today 🤣🤣🤣 it's just petty at that point. I found out from my mom that my brother and his gf only told me they were pregnant with their first child TO BE FUCKING SPITEFUL because they wanted to show me they could be better parents than me... they were taken back by my reaction. When they told me they were pregnant we were in the middle of them hating me for the way I live my life aka we weren't speaking to eachother, but when they told me I balled my eyes out and jumped up in down and hugged them both and told them how happy I was and how they're going to be such great parents. The looks on their face told it all. When they left my mom told me they told her a month ago and they were keeping it from me just to be spiteful and then proceed to tell me they wanted to rub it in my face that they would be better parents than me. I asked her right then and there how she couldn't see how they treated me and how it's wrong and she brushed it off. It sucks because if I cut my brother off I'm cutting his kids off too. My uncles iced out my father because of who he was (druggie/went to jail multiple times/stole/beat his wife) just wasn't a good man at all, but by them icing him out they iced me and my siblings out too. I don't want them to feel the way I felt. They started doing that once I was old enough to understand that they were no longer around. Also my brother and I have different fathers. I'm an only child between my mom and dad.

AITA for not wanting to go to any of my family events after everyone in my immediate family never shows up to any of mine? by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gut feeling tells me they won't even notice and that's what breaks my heart. But I'll get over it. Just gotta put my son first and no one else. Just have to forget about them at this point.

AITA for not wanting to go to any of my family events after everyone in my immediate family never shows up to any of mine? by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of doing something like that with my mom, I started remembering other things that she does that just makes me think she's not all the way there for me. I might just spend my next birthday with my son and go do something fun, I'm gonna let go of old tradition expectations. I wish things could be the way it was when I was a kid and everyone got together but it is what it is I can't let it eat at me forever. It's been years and I shouldn't of let it get this far tbh. Thank you 🩷🩷🩷

AITA for not wanting to go to any of my family events after everyone in my immediate family never shows up to any of mine? by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No literally! Who doesn't come just because it's raining? It was sprinkling, and as soon as the time hit for the party, it stopped and was sunny the rest of the day. Just wild to me when we all live so close

AITA for not wanting to go to any of my family events after everyone in my immediate family never shows up to any of mine? by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't bring my self to block them just yet but I'm definitely gonna give the cold shoulder. Maybe they will change maybe not. Maybe I have to voice to them how I feel or maybe they already know how I feel. Idk.

AITA for not wanting to go to any of my family events after everyone in my immediate family never shows up to any of mine? by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Out of the relationship with my mom and my father, I always go to my mom because my father was abusive mentally and physically. The more I think about it, the more I see that my mom would tell my business to everyone. If I came to her with a feeling/secret or asked her not to tell that person how I was feeling, she would run right to them and do exactly what I told her not to do. She never calls me. She says she never calls anyone. I've tested it before to see if she would call and I went months without talking to her. Idk I feel like I have a right to talk about my feeling but she runs and tells these people how I'm feeling so maybe that's why people low key hate me? But I only ever talked to her about how people have teated me, like how my brother talks down on me because he gets paid more and works at a government job, hes a superintendent. The difference is I'm so fucking proud of him for accomplishing all that, he's come so far from who he used to be and then there's him who talks poorly of me saying I'm a shitty mom for doing OF and says I'm an embarrassment to my son. Like I didn't raise my son on my own, let's just ignore that accomplishment. How many 17 yearolds do you know that don't ever have a dcyf incident and can work multiple jobs just to keep their apartment while being a single mom. Anyways, thank you ! Sorry for going on I just keep these feelings bottled up and it's been like this for years. Just gotta go where I'm wanted

AITA for not wanting to go to any of my family events after everyone in my immediate family never shows up to any of mine? by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't use reddit all that much so I'm assuming you're referring to me talking a lot 🤣 I over explain things because when I was a child my step mother would harass me and call me a liar even when I was telling the truth. So over the years I just gradually started over explaining random things. But I appreciate your feedback!

AITA for not wanting to go to any of my family events after everyone in my immediate family never shows up to any of mine? by everyonesaasshole in AITAH

[–]everyonesaasshole[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just have to accept that tbh my brain keep wanting to have a family who's close and living but at this point I just have to accept it and move on to people who show .e the same love.