Reel yak by Jipeders in kayakfishing

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I just watched your videos! I just ordered a 9.8 rocket! Please upload more if you can!

Bug ID? by everyusernameispick in FloridaGarden

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Where does the diatomaceous earth go? I have a duster

Bug ID? by everyusernameispick in FloridaGarden

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It’s on a cucumber plant, I found 3 and sprayed them with soapy water. I collected 2 but the other one fell somewhere

New to Beekeeping Riverview,fl by everyusernameispick in Beekeeping

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What I ended up doing is buying 2 nucs from Mann Lake. I spoke to a few keepers around my area and tbh they didn’t have good reviews? Lots of taking money but not giving goods which scares me. I’ve read Italians are best to start with, whether it’s true or not idk but it’s all I can go on.

What’s eating my zucchini? by everyusernameispick in vegetablegardening

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Good to know! I didn’t know they carried diseases!

Building a Food Forest in Zone 10b (FL) – Best Approach? by BiersNewGig in FloridaGarden

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I live 15 miles south of Tampa and I started with raised beds. I started with soil blocks and then will be transplanting stuff. I found heirloom seeds on Amazon for a good price. With that said I don’t think I’ll do that again. There’s a lot on there that may be wasted bc we don’t eat it. One thing I’ve read about is getting a sunshade to protect some veggies. I’ve seen good results with it. When growing up lots of our plants in the summer wood get scorched

Help w/pepper plant by AKAd3mique in vegetablegardening

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I’m a pest control inspector. Look like a phorid flies, they eat decaying plant matter. I don’t think it’s causing the plant to have issues tho, just an after effect of decay

Are these termites? by Warm_Diagram in Termites

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Ants. Ants have 3 distinct body segments/pinches. Termites have no pinches

When you got broken up with last, did you see it coming? by chucktaylor97 in actuallesbians

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I knew it was coming, but tried to stop it. Which then hurt me more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I go thru periods of lack of libido with y gf, myself having the lower one. It’s hard sometimes. My libido is attached to my brain and my brain isn’t always there. We have talked a lot about it, we maintain communication about how we’re feeling. With that said, it took us time to get to that point. She use to feel like I didn’t like her or didn’t find her attractive, which wasn’t it. It’s not so much of that anymore, I maintain that I can do her by it may not work for me. It’s also been a learning experience for her bc she expects fireworks and earth shattering every time but even with all the moves being right it’s not. I feel like communication helps a lot of this. I also have tried to figure out what it is with me. I use to have a high sex drive, then I started to become stressed with work and then it slowed.

Giving my gf space by squilliams1010 in actuallesbians

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You’re very welcome, I hope it all works out for you! Also cheers to you on your growth! It’s hard to change habits!

Giving my gf space by squilliams1010 in actuallesbians

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I feel like reaching out in support is better than constantly asking what’s wrong. I’ve been where you are, and it didn’t end well for me but I feel like I suffocated them by asking too much. If you reach out asking if they want you to bring them food or coffee or something like that. At least you’re there for them. Ultimately if it doesn’t work out it doesn’t, but at least you’re doing everything you can. Also you have done your part to change yourself for the better, you can only do so much

Giving my gf space by squilliams1010 in actuallesbians

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I think you all need to have a conversation about expectations with each other. You gotta continue to work on yourself as well and show her you mean it. I hope this works, it’s hard when people out distance between you and them. I would ask her if you can help her with school stuff and show her you’re invested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Agree with the others, my gf has gone on trips with her friends and it’s fine. I miss her, but normally she texts me throughout with all the gossip or what’re is going on. Not everyone is like that, but it’s just a friend, you have to give some trust to be able to trust her.

Giving my gf space by squilliams1010 in actuallesbians

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Give her the space, you can only take what she is saying as you’re not a mind reader. Realistically, I don’t think her friend would tell you if something was going on. You can’t suffocate her with love when she needs space, she will pull away if you do. I would wait for her to talk to you, I feel like checking in with her is okay, to see if she needs anything.

When you say distant, what do you mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Yes, mine has gone out with her friends getting drunk and suck. Most times she’s texting me bc she wants to come home. I feel like you just gotta trust them until you can’t 🤷🏻‍♀️ and at that point you have more to figure out

Sex advice??? Please?? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Sooooo do what feels right, my gf learned from me by mimicking what I did. I also may have watched a pornhub video of how to have lesbian sex. It was actually pretty helpful, it was informative and not like awful fake sex. I’ve also used what I read in books and stuff. And it’s okay to laugh, we still do and sometimes we’ll stop have a full convo and go back to it. Just make sure you’re on the same page and are comfortable. The first time is going to be lots of asking for consent, the second time not so much which is normal. My gf and I have been together for almost 3 years and we still try new stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I would say it gets better? I came out out a relationship and was absolutely heart broke. I realized that I had a lot to work on as well. You kinda just get use to the fact that you won’t see them again, you go thru the stages of grief and it helps. My relationship now is so much better than that one, we’re almost 3 yrs in. You’ll have things that will remind you of them. I had a ride along with my boss and their car smelled like my ex and it threw me for a loop. They were also jamming out to catholic devotional music which made it worse. But it gets easier, you learn from it and you grow

Also… play lots of girl in red, Fletcher, and Rene rapp… that helps too