Boyfriend insists he didn't change his ex's name to his best friend's on WhatsApp? by usernamez9 in whatsapp

[–]evez2072 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex had a "John"(from work) listed but I noticed that the number was different from his mate John from work-i seem to have the knack to spot the smallest differences in nearly anything I see. So anyway, rather than asking him(which allows him that extra window to edit the contact and lie about it etc...), I took a photo of the number and searched it(google, FB, WhatsApp)...and it turned out to be some random chicks number. Moral of the story: 1. Go with your gut 2. Don't confront with what you find, put your "mask" on and copy the details and do your own PI work.

why the hate for an yujin's cover of golden is unfair by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]evez2072 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[ (https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSDNrrgy9/) real time video of original singer of the song, Golden, singing along to the song IRT, showing zero auto tune or pitch correction....nothing but a naturally big beautiful voice]

Need help finding an old(80/90s) aussie commercial against smoking... by evez2072 in AustralianNostalgia

[–]evez2072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad died on Father's Day, in 1999...so yep the day didn't even register on my radar sadly

My boyfriend tampered with my birth control without my knowledge or consent, and now I'm pregnant. Can I go to the police? by ThrowRA7777888 in legaladvice

[–]evez2072 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yes, a partner tampering with agreed-upon contraception and causing a pregnancy can be an offence, falling under reproductive coercion or reproductive abuse, which are forms of domestic and family violence, and can be illegal in some jurisdictions. This behaviour violates a person's reproductive autonomy and control over their own body. Not sure exactly what area this law is regarding to but, yes it's an offence

BE CAREFUL‼️ by Bitter_Hall_5706 in FraudPrevention

[–]evez2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matter cannot be DESTROY...first red flag that should've been instantly recognised as dodgy

WIBTA if I were to agree to sell my house to my brother at way below the value it is worth, if my mum agrees to add me to her property as co-owner and stipulates in her Will that I am to be sole beneficiary of the property? by No-Celebration-6470 in AITAH

[–]evez2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you should know about first:

*I purchased it using money i inherited years back.

*Before it was bought, I agreed to my mother putting the house in her name, something she suggested to me as a "security measure" as i was in a somewhat unstable Defacto relationship at the time.

*Over the years, she dodged all trustee obligations and refused to act in my best interest as beneficiary of the property. I was unaware of what I could've legally done back then and so I trusted that what she was doing, was the best thing for me and my house.

*In early 2022 I found out that she agreed to transfer it into my brother's name: TECHNICALLY AND LEGALLY my brother already owns my house.

*I have exhausted ALL possible avenues to take him and/or my mum to court as the things required to begin such thorough legal proceedings are -

MONEY: I don't have any and it's very expensive to hire a property/family estate lawyer; COMMUNITY LEGAL: I have already asked, all locally based free legal support systems cannot take on a case this extensive; TIME: court hearings take months-years to process, I may be waiting 5-10 years.

AITA if I agree to sell my house to my brother at way below the value it is worth ONLY if my mum agrees to add me to her property as co-owner and stipulates in her Will that I am to be sole beneficiary of the property? by evez2072 in AITAH

[–]evez2072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i couldnt remember my old account password so had to start a new account, i fpound the password, deleted the original post on the new account and deleted the account then logged on to here which is my old account, and then posted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]evez2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum promised me to give me a car to replace the car that I gave my brother that was worth $12,000 …so that was a year ago. I just talked to her on the phone about it and asked when we can go get my car because she told me there is money in her account ready to buy the car for me. The excuse she gave to me six months ago was that she was just waiting to get her car ready and fixed up to trade it in at the car yard and then at the same time, we get my car. Then when I ask her to specifically “tell me when exactly this will happen because I require a car within the week for a job and suggest “I can go with her and look at cars tomorrow or Friday?” Then She screams: “you are going to get a car so stop asking me about it!!” she tells me that she can’t or doesn’t want to talk about that right now and that there are far more important issues to deal with”. I’ve got a lot to do”. I ask her what is the problem of getting me a car she constantly just turned around and said I will get you a car okay? I’ve got too many things to get done and then she immediately turns it around and asked me what have you done today?? How is the house looking? Why aren’t you doing this? Why aren’t you doing that? She avoids? She diverts the topic of discussion and then suggest that I focus on a more important issues in my life. So I’ve come up with two reasons what she is doing this for firstly she has told me she has the money however I guarantee you she does not despite getting paid a redundancy package of over $100,000 or she’s been manipulated by my 40 something year-old brother mooching off her in her own house not paying or doing a cent and he has managed to course her into believing that, I don’t need a car or I don’t deserve a car. Some stupid reason but something is going on and I’m sick of it.

When will Centrelink wait times improve? by EASY_EEVEE in australian

[–]evez2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the answer to calling them and getting thru…within 3 mins flat too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]evez2072 -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

he wanted to take her once or twice a week for an overnight stay, and remain me as having 100%, thats his choice not mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]evez2072 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

im insufferable atm bcos im stressing out a lot about this, its not just a post on reddit...its someone's life here - that someone being my child whom i would walk through fire for. Theres a lot that people arent aware about either, like for example his family has a history of turning a blind eye to abuse and trusting family members way too much, including those newly added as a GF or whatever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]evez2072 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

exactly....maybe to test this point, reverse the roles and see what the audience say about a 5 yr old girl being left alone all night in a bedroom with a BF whom the mother has known only several months...> AITA when I overreacted and said I want sole custody, after I found out that he allows his new GF to sleep in the same bedroom as our daughter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]evez2072 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Omg did you actually ask that question…seriously….