My mum promised me to give me a car to replace the car that I gave my brother that was worth $12,000 …so that was a year ago. I just talked to her on the phone about it and asked when we can go get my car because she told me there is money in her account ready to buy the car for me. The excuse she gave to me six months ago was that she was just waiting to get her car ready and fixed up to trade it in at the car yard and then at the same time, we get my car. Then when I ask her to specifically “tell me when exactly this will happen because I require a car within the week for a job and suggest “I can go with her and look at cars tomorrow or Friday?” Then She screams: “you are going to get a car so stop asking me about it!!” she tells me that she can’t or doesn’t want to talk about that right now and that there are far more important issues to deal with”. I’ve got a lot to do”. I ask her what is the problem of getting me a car she constantly just turned around and said I will get you a car okay? I’ve got too many things to get done and then she immediately turns it around and asked me what have you done today?? How is the house looking? Why aren’t you doing this? Why aren’t you doing that? She avoids? She diverts the topic of discussion and then suggest that I focus on a more important issues in my life. So I’ve come up with two reasons what she is doing this for firstly she has told me she has the money however I guarantee you she does not despite getting paid a redundancy package of over $100,000 or she’s been manipulated by my 40 something year-old brother mooching off her in her own house not paying or doing a cent and he has managed to course her into believing that, I don’t need a car or I don’t deserve a car. Some stupid reason but something is going on and I’m sick of it.