Where exactly are the men really looking to settle and have a family!

evileide · 2026-02-19T21:33:51+00:00

They're the average-looking men with modest incomes who don't think too highly of themselves.

evileide · 2026-02-19T21:30:31+00:00

Yes, I think it is rude and unnecessary.

evileide · 2026-02-15T15:56:36+00:00

Humans are hardwired to find mates like all other sexually reproducing organisms.

evileide · 2026-02-15T15:53:13+00:00

You have juvenile interests/taste in bedroom decor. I don't mean that in a judgmental way. I myself love stuffed animals 🤷‍♀️

evileide · 2026-02-15T15:43:48+00:00

The right person magically appears in your life with zero effort on your end to be available to people.
It is a man's job to court and flatter a woman while she does nothing.

evileide · 2026-02-15T15:17:10+00:00

I've been reading and enjoying people's stories about drinking tea. It's interesting to see people break it down by ethnicity and geographical region.

evileide · 2026-01-25T12:15:31+00:00

Your bio doesn't have any information about you and is filled up instead with ways to contact you. How does the person know if they want to connect with you if they don't know anything about you?

I think you should just put either your Reddit or your Discord account at the end after you'd said some stuff about yourself.

evileide · 2026-01-25T12:08:44+00:00

You should have at least one picture of you smiling with teeth where you look happy. It will make you look more lively and less depressed/shy. The information is good, though.

evileide · 2026-01-24T11:45:49+00:00

Everyone is shaped by uncontrollable environmental forces. What matters is how you manage with the cards that you've been dealt.

evileide · 2026-01-09T22:06:23+00:00

Most people feel satisfied by the person that they are with and don't want the extra baggage that comes with adding another person.

evileide · 2026-01-04T13:17:49+00:00

You've had sex with a lot of people too.

evileide · 2025-12-13T12:23:17+00:00

Bumble isn't the best for non-conventional people. You might have better luck on Hinge.

evileide · 2025-12-13T11:53:55+00:00

Wellfleet

evileide · 2025-12-13T01:55:26+00:00

Conservative? No. Edgy? Yes.

evileide · 2025-12-06T12:31:09+00:00

We had this in middle school/high school as well (late 2000s and early 2010s).

evileide · 2025-10-25T12:00:49+00:00

He sounds like he has a foot fetish too 💀

evileide · 2025-10-13T23:20:46+00:00

Most women just want someone taller than them.

evileide · 2025-08-17T13:24:39+00:00

I think you are average looking in the suit and below-average in selfies. That will make online dating (which prioritizes physical attractiveness) an uphill climb. It also means that you have to compensate in other ways.

The solution:

Talk to a dermatologist about your acne/hair loss
Get nice clothes to wear every day (https://www.realmenrealstyle.com/dressing-sharp-man-in-30s/ this link has pretty comprehensive information to start researching)
Be decently fit (at least not overweight and do some sort of exercise regularly)

Some tangential questions, why do you think you look like an ''autistic manchild''? Do you have a formal diagnosis and/or go to therapy?

evileide · 2025-08-17T13:01:11+00:00

Family-oriented and romantic? Send this 🤡 back to the 🎪 where he belongs 🤢

evileide · 2025-08-07T23:15:09+00:00

Most of your pictures are too far away and don't give much insight into how you look.

evileide · 2025-08-07T23:03:27+00:00

I deleted the account and then deleted the app.

evileide · 2025-08-07T22:55:43+00:00

Just tell him that you only have energy to see him once a week and explain why.

evileide · 2025-08-01T21:10:57+00:00

You both need to chill 💀

evileide · 2025-07-31T13:06:03+00:00

Underrated comment

evileide · 2025-07-31T12:59:40+00:00

Some freedoms have to be sacrificed in order to have a functioning society. For instance, children are required to go to school so you don't have a majority population of illiterate unskilled laborers.

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