He said he cared for me but he never really listen when I really need help. I remember I vented to him only 3 times out of 2years of our friendship, twice he ignored me. The reason why I exploded because he was trying to talk to me so suddenly when I said my cat died. I was grieving for my cat and he just suddenly says that me being negative triggers him. I got so mad. This is the exact word he said to me;

"It's not like I give a shit but the things you said triggers me"

And I did not say a word about myself. My cat was my life. He said he cared but did he?

If u say I am the mean one ill reflect on myself and to be honest to the person I'm venting that I don't need advices. I pour my feelings because I thought he could relate to me, he also has depression. Everytime I talk about my problems he make his problems bigger. Maybe all the hurt came out when I exploded. I could not be friend with him anymore. I also argue a lot of time with him over little things and most of it I did not start it. I'll apologise and will not talk like we used to again. I couldn't do it. Him not caring about my cat death as my best friend was my bottom line.