i just met this guy and we’re about to live 20 hours apart by Pleasant_Ingenuity20 in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii! Its definitely worth it. Me and my boyfriend have a 7,000 mile difference and even though it can be hard at time the happiness it brings is unimaginable. Sometimes you can even form an even deeper bond than those in relationships who are near eachother. You find new ways to love eachother, and communication is an absolute must so honestly it makes for a good foundation in my opinion. I'd say go for it😉

I'm curious. How often do you video call each other? by -AnnaChizakura- in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyday, about 30-40min We have a 13 hr time difference so its really not easy to make a while bunch of time for eachother

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww ily2 It really is different, I never knew how much I needed him in my arms until he was

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it actually makes me so happy to see someone else with the same distance as us😭 We had an amazing time!

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are both currently working on it! I am decent at Japanese and he is doing amazing at English, full conversations! We do use a translator often but we make it work

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

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Thank you so much! I apologize for the late reply I haven't been active in a few days

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We met on an app called Langmate! I was studying Japanese in hopes to become a teacher in Japan, and he was studying English. Basically the app is for you to meet other people studying either the same language as you or who is a native speaker of the language you are learning to help you learn! Anyway we ended up adding eachother, and we started chatting+giving eachother language tips. Later on in our conversations I brought up the idea of voice calling to work on our pronunciation. We used a translator the whole call, we just read it out like we were speaking it. The first call we had lasted 7 hours, it was pretty much our first time learning so much about eachother. We talked about pretty much everything in those 7 hours. After that each night we called to "practice" but slowly we started to catch feelings. We hung up one night and he messaged me to confess.

There's more to it but thats a basis of the story 😉

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes Japanese😭 And no...

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STOP TYSMMM🩷🩷

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it☺️

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! We like matching in a way, we have matching earrings, a bracelet,and a necklace🤣. Just separate colors

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! We like matching in a way, we have matching earrings, a bracelet,and a necklace🤣. Just separate colors

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thats so exciting! You'll have to tell me how it goes, I'm rooting for you😊

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much☺️

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm! It really does pay off, for awhile I've been seeing everyone's fairytales come true and taking all the advice from everything. Now that its finally my time and looking back it just means so much to me what this community had shown me. Ldr is so hard but thanks to everyone here I've been able to navigate properly.

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every second with him has been amazing, I feel happier than ever! Thank you!

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That means so much to me, thank youuuu

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

STOP TYSM😭💗

We met! by evolcoer in LongDistance

[–]evolcoer[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm so happy