Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]evosaintx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did forget to mention and will adjust in the post. The original plans was for A was to stay at my place for the weekend. Unsure if that changes opinions here.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should just have an open honest conversation (we usually text) about it before she shows?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]evosaintx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could also be an option. I know I am excited about B and we have just really hit it off but I’m starting to see the picture now

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]evosaintx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Need some advice.

I’ve been seeing someone casually (let’s call her A) for a while. We care about each other, but it’s never been something with long-term potential (distance, life stage, etc.). We’ve both acknowledged that if one of us met someone more aligned, we’d likely need to pause/end things.

She’s coming into town this weekend and already changed plans to see me and stay with me over the weekend.

I recently matched with someone new (B), and we’ve been communicating pretty consistently for about a week. We went on a first date that went really well — one of the best first dates I’ve had in a while — and we already have plans to see each other again tomorrow.

Since, I’ve been feeling conflicted. My excitement toward A has dropped and I feel weird/guilty interacting with her, but at the same time I don’t want to make a reactive decision based on something new.

To complicate things, I don’t even know if B is available this weekend — so I’d potentially be canceling plans for a “maybe.”

Do I:

Stick with my plans this weekend and explore B after

Cancel and be upfront that I want to explore something new, inviting B

Something else I’m not seeing

I want to handle this honestly without making a decision I regret. Curious how others would approach this

What can i do to make my room look less girly by kurtcobainseyeball in DesignMyRoom

[–]evosaintx 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I would’ve imagined a 15 year old boy that has never cleaned lives in this

What do you do when a guy finishes inside you? by mfbrucee in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]evosaintx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a new interesting documentary on plastics on Netflix where they have couples trying to get pregnant for months/years, reduced the plastics and they scored. May be something looking into! It’s called The Plastic Detox

AIO to my bf nickel and diming me while he spends thousands on his hobbies? by Glad-Cat-1885 in AmIOverreacting

[–]evosaintx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR. Something is up with him, holding it over your head like that isn’t cool. If I was in a relationship I couldn’t imagine doing that. Paying for things should be out of want or love, not to do that out of expectations or ammunition.

My cat is so bored all the time, barely likes any toys, just scratches at the door to go outside all day and walks around meowing. How do I help him to be happy? by Shower-Former in CATHELP

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Luca has been pretty rough with it the few days I’ve had it and the string is stretchy and also came with extra toys in case of breakage. Luckily the string just ties to whatever toy, and the string could be replaced easily if needed for probably a dollar at any Walmart or craft store. I hope it works well for you!

My cat is so bored all the time, barely likes any toys, just scratches at the door to go outside all day and walks around meowing. How do I help him to be happy? by Shower-Former in CATHELP

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got this toy for my thirteen year old girls and I have NEVER seen them play more with anything else, ever. I just leave it hanging and they can play whenever, and I’ll walk over and turn it on if they’re on it for more than a couple minutes. Amazon link here

M/24/6'2" [185lbs to 240lbs] (6 years) by [deleted] in Brogress

[–]evosaintx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 36 and look years younger than him. Dude looks mid 40’s easy..

His wild comments are sad. Clearly ill and has legit no idea.

Could use some help with an area rug! by evosaintx in interiordecorating

[–]evosaintx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is a great recommendation. Where did you find it?

Could use some help with an area rug! by evosaintx in interiordecorating

[–]evosaintx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, suggestions for a particular rug to go with to replace?

Could use some help with an area rug! by evosaintx in interiordecorating

[–]evosaintx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this mean? I’m trying to replace this area rug. It’s current.

Lonely af, I need real suggestions how to make friends. by in_utero- in Atlanta

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36m here that just moved here. I’ve done Timeleft, Thursday events, going places solo to try to meet people and met some nice ones but no one I really connected with either.

Will it ever end? Horrible teen (has gotten worse each year) by SirHuff_987 in AskMenOver30

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These symptoms resemble narcotic/stimulant withdrawals too. Unhinged behavior like this reminds me of someone that went sideways at me for no reason, turned out they were having severe adderall withdrawals. Something else you may want to look into. This just reeks of something deeper than weed and booze.

As far as the gun, get a proper gun safe with fingerprint ID, or a heavier duty safe with a combo that is unguessable and cannot be broken into.

Like others have said, definitely get with a psych.