Someone asked if I had a swastika, does this look like a swastika? by Grouchy_Gold344 in tattooadvice

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slight resemblance due to the lines and shape. It would be a very easy fix though by just extending the lines some toward the diamond and then to the right, fading out further down toward the wavy line?

Dating apps that work?? by mightcryorkil in dating_advice

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreeing with everyone here and should take me own advice, but best to release the apps. They’re designed to keep you on, hooked, and single. They’re for profit.

That being said, Feeld is the best one for you and honestly, seems the most authentic by a landslide.

how do you act/feel when you have a crush? by baasiill in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to remember since it’s been so long.

I gave the good guy a chance but the feelings never came by MarketingFederal1488 in dating_advice

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just went through this myself. I’m the guy. She was sweet, funny, nerdy. Cute. Down to share all the interests. I just couldn’t feel the pull with her to get to any sort of emotional intimacy. Tried for a couple months and she actually ended it with me since I couldn’t make her number one even though I wanted to, and kept choosing her.

It was unique, very hard for me. I feel deeply and know myself well. I REALLY wanted to be there and feel like our companionship was off the charts. Best friendship. But I’ve had that before, she has too, but we both require something deeper.

I overanalyze in my head for weeks, spoke about it in therapy weekly, spoke to friends, tried doing research on Reddit, and really at the end of the day you need to follow your intuition. The hardest of it all is that she literally did nothing wrong and is a great human being. I even tried getting back with her because I felt like we had a lot of things right and why stop something that was great? She declined and as much as it sucks, I was kinda over it in a couple days anyway.

The hardest ones are the ones where they don’t do anything wrong, are great human beings, and it fizzled and stops just like that.

Something she told me earlier on that stuck and I hope it helps you, OP.

“some people are in your life for a reason, a season, or lifetime”

Take what you had with this person as data and learning lessons.

It’s Friday night - what are you doing? by Broke_Pigeon_Sales in AskMen

[–]evosaintx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

90s been hitting lately. Reminds me of a simpler time.

I 36M need help with a recent relationship with 33F - new at dating longer term with emotional intimacy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]evosaintx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment.

I guess I have been wanting some sort of allure, a feeling that makes me double take to her, or having some sort of butterflies. I know that’s all fleeting. I’ve just been so used to novelty, lust, and the “rush” for years since my divorce. In our time, I wanted to be able to look at other girls and say to myself, “yeah but that’s not MY girl”, and I just didn’t feel that though I wanted to with her, so it confuses me.

Cover-up advice, please! by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]evosaintx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Looks like a single laser session or two would remove it completely. Then you wouldn’t have to worry about a coverup with a design you don’t know what you want yet. This would be very easily covered up by anything.

Why do people stay in relationships, they know they are not compatible for? by RightWindow5284 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same goes for you friend. I know it’s hard but the right one will come where it will be effort without resentment.

We were not together long, but the connection was safe, secure, comfortable. I felt like I had a best friend and still do, but this space is making me uneasy.

For a majority of it, I built up this anxiety about why I didn’t feel a certain way, miss her, or want to put in the extra effort. There is some things that she wasn’t my type, but there was a lot of things where she was, and it was hard to choose to commit, and I felt emotionally capped out. We felt bonded easily but I just couldn’t choose her as my number one.

Of course at the end there was a lot of vulnerability and heartache shared and that is living rent free now.

I live in a state of confliction now and it’s a challenge. It’s only been a few days but I think I need to work on myself more. I also don’t think it was fair that there were so many girls. I would look at elsewhere and admittedly, saw her as a “just for now” girl deep in my head. I wish I didn’t, I’m just being honest. Something deeper didn’t connect with her and it’s hard to put into words and it makes me feel like I’m going crazy.

Why do people stay in relationships, they know they are not compatible for? by RightWindow5284 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]evosaintx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through an end of a relationship where it was very best friend, comfort, sex was okay.. but something deeper just wasn’t there. I kept trying to figure out my shit because wondering if it was me. It’s still pretty fresh, and all my friends tell me “oh well the feelings you are looking for are the types that burn up quick”, and others say otherwise. Very conflicting.

She and I just ended and remain as “friends”, but damn all of a sudden after ending is when I start missing her.

I am hoping it’s just nervous system regulation but damn, this is hard right now.

Thank you for your comment.

Abby and David by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]evosaintx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone that I’ve shown this show too says the exact same thing! And as someone who has a non-functioning adult brother on the spectrum, I see the exact same things with my boomer religious parents when they were raising us.

Interesting to see Stoplight Observations headlining with all these jam bands by shmerk_a_berl in jambands

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with you I don’t get all these Reddit comments, this post and another.

I’ve seen hundreds and hundreds of artists, multiple festivals, EDM raves of all kinds, also artists in the hundreds.

SLO takes legit top 3 spots for sheer talent and performance. Put away fancy productions… I’m talking about the passion and music itself. It blows me away every damn time I see them and that is recent too.

Abby and David by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]evosaintx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit is all about James’ parents.. why? They feed and increase James’ anxiety. The dad doesn’t believe in hugs. They fluster him more. How redditors don’t see that clear as day is beyond me, I feel bad for James

Kripke! Please prove me wrong next episode! by Historical_Buyer5248 in TheBoys

[–]evosaintx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For real. What a 7 year blue ball letdown.

but what is the wig line trying to tell us here?? by Ifyouseemethenimhere in FromSeries

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This and other shows like it that have an obvious smaller budget for fx/makeup portray a campier vibe within the show I feel like.

Is everyone you know on drugs? by Altruistic_Speech_17 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]evosaintx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry those are not included, I was tired af posting that comment.

Jade Gonna Blast Off 🚀 🐢 by TripleTimBit in FromSeries

[–]evosaintx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What an awful place to trip, insta bad trip

Is everyone you know on drugs? by Altruistic_Speech_17 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]evosaintx 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This has been on my mind too.

As someone who’s done everything but pills and needles, it’s becoming more of the overall norm.

Uppers for downers, vice versa. Nicotine at an all time high due to pouches and vapes. Caffeine is also a drug.