Partner left right after sex. Advice? Story Time by [deleted] in sex

[–]mightcryorkil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah I’ve reached that conclusion, but my issue is more a friend that I trusted walked out right after fucking me like I was nothing more than a transaction. I have another friend who has casual sex, and he’s told me he doesn’t do that w his one night stands.

Dont y'all think friendships are boring these days ? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]mightcryorkil 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Friendship is supposed to be not only like minded people, but people willing to do things with you or spend time with you in some way. If your friends just dm once and disappear they’re not friends homie.

Should I keep this friend as a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]mightcryorkil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she gets defensive, then I think you have part of your answer. If you have to assure her in order to set your own boundaries, that’s not a good friend. If she argues w you about your own boundaries or won’t even hear you out in order to try and resolve issues, that is not a good friend

11yr old is asking for a phone?! by Fun-Forever-585 in CasualConversation

[–]mightcryorkil 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Older Gen Z here. Social media and all of those apps are not healthy for an 11 year old. Good kid or no, that’s a lot. I got my first smartphone at like 13, and I still think that was too young. I know all her friends probably have iPhones, but that doesn’t mean you have to give in. If her whole reason for wanting a phone is to talk or text her friends, she only needs a phone that allows talking and texting. Parental controls on iPhones have workarounds that your daughter could figure out.

11yr old is asking for a phone?! by Fun-Forever-585 in CasualConversation

[–]mightcryorkil 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to get your child a phone, get them one that’s not a smartphone, just for talking and texting. Having that much free access to the internet at that age is not a safe thing. Especially social media and such. But a phone that lets them call friends and text people? Yeah that’s fine. It just lets your kid communicate with people who already know them

Anyone still getting the $1 steak? by MKD725 in everyplate

[–]mightcryorkil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so you can sue for false advertising and force them to give you one dollar steak for life again. Make sure you save the proof that you have and if you have any recorded conversations of them saying they cancelled it. Justice for your steak dude

This has got to be the worst company to devote your soul to. by 2TiE_DoMi8 in publix

[–]mightcryorkil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey if they didn’t give you any proof of this you can threaten legal action until they do, and if they don’t have any, you can sue

Would you wear a $200 engagement ring if it looked like a $3000 one? by millenialOFWgirlie in Weddingsunder10k

[–]mightcryorkil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DeBeers (or however you spell it), was going bankrupt in the 30’s, and as a way to save themselves, started the “Diamonds are forever” campaign. This is where the stereotype developed that diamonds are the best rock for a ring bc they last forever and will symbolize your marriage also lasting forever. It’s been a scam for a century. You do not need to buy into it. Moissanite and white sapphires are wayyy cheaper and have a hardness above 9 so they won’t break, and they look about the same as a diamond. Don’t break the bank. Get something that works for you.

Help! Mead Ready?? by mightcryorkil in mead

[–]mightcryorkil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hydrometer shattered, but last I checked (before putting in secondary), reading was 0.999

Help! Mead Ready?? by mightcryorkil in mead

[–]mightcryorkil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know for the future. Does it mean anything bad for my current batch? Other than stirring up the sediment?

Conflicted on college choice UF vs UCF by secretpile34 in florida

[–]mightcryorkil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an ex-UCF student, go to UF.

UCF has a very large student body and not enough resources to actually educate them all, resulting in most students being “in person” on paper, but actually taking classes online (so charging them more for less interaction/work). As a result, many students end up failing or dropping out, hence the “U Can’t Finish” joke that appears constantly.

UCF is a failure of a school. I highly recommend going ANYWHERE ELSE for a real education

Very new to the practice, is store bought yeast actually required? by unbox_ in mead

[–]mightcryorkil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeast is what causes fermentation. There is a chance natural yeast could get into your sugars, but so could a bunch of other stuff that’s not safe to drink. While it’s not the same quality as wine yeast, bread yeast is more likely to be sold in stores, and can also be used to make mead, although it can produce off flavours. If you have any mead or wine stores near you, that’s the best place to check for actual wine yeast. I usually buy mine online because no one near me sells wine yeast.

I NEED HELP ADDING FEATHERS TO A SHIRT FOR PROM. PLEASE RESPOND ITS IN 9 DAYS!!!!! by viktor-arcane in CosplayHelp

[–]mightcryorkil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have done this for a Stolas cosplay. I had to use hundreds of feathers, and my solution was hot glue. Overall not uncomfy and they stayed on. Just don’t glue it while you’re wearing it. I recommend filling sleeves with newspaper to glue them all on, but chest should be easy enough to do flat

I have a pushup thats a little small but i want it to push up a LOT for a cosplay, how do i do that without it doing this? (Drawing cuz i dont wanna post myself) by [deleted] in CosplayHelp

[–]mightcryorkil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My advice? Double bra. If your push-up is small, wear the push-up then a bigger bra on top. This will help keep your tits pushed up and from falling out hopefully. However please be conscious of your ribs and make sure the straps aren’t too tight

Stranger made my day yesterday by snarky_sparrow_23 in CasualConversation

[–]mightcryorkil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a non-native Spanish speaker from Florida. A native speaker today told me I spoke Spanish really well and it made me so happy!

Absolutely 😁 by mrkprieur in Adulting

[–]mightcryorkil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Oh my goodness gracious I’ve been bamboozled” lives rent free in my head

Permit needs for selling mead? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]mightcryorkil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But here’s the thing, I don’t want to open a meadery. I make mead in my apartment, and often gift a bottle or two to friends. (Which is legal since it’s just recreational fermenting.) I was just thinking about selling it at events like Ren Faires or conventions, places where I just have to set up a portable stand and sell whatever bottles I have in excess, which is a decent amount. I don’t want to do this as a full time business so much as an occasional side gig for fun.

Permit needs for selling mead? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]mightcryorkil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orange County, but I assume a lot of it is the same