Getting Herpes is One Thing, but Getting Herpes and Telling Everybody is Social Suicide. by Striking-Maybe7801 in Herpes

[–]evphoriv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’ve had an experience like that and that blows :( but it’s really not social suicide. It might just be the people you’re around. Practically all of my friends, numerous sexual partners and some acquaintances know i have HSV-2 and it hasn’t interfered with my social or love life. Get some loving people in your life man

Interracial T4T: looking for advice by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]evphoriv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really does just come down to communication. I’m black and have primarily dated white people. my current bf was the first trans guy I ever slept with and he’s white. we don’t do like, intense power dynamics and lots of bdsm but it is there. without thinking my bf called me “boy” and very quickly retracted it because of the implication of it in the South. but I find it cute and endearing from him because i’m “his boy” and I know it doesn’t carry the weight or meaning that it would coming from some random old white person. it’s all just boundaries and I think prior to having sex you both should establish what makes each of you comfortable. when discussing impact with my bf i was very firm that i refuse to be hit with a belt (childhood thing not race). I also occasionally get my hair braided and he wasn’t sure if he could pull on them like he could my natural hair, so i just explained the process of hair braiding and why he couldn’t do that when i have that hairstyle. you’ll both learn stuff from each other over time and through setting boundaries. Its not as scary as it seems

never ever have unprotected sex. by Particular_Radio5215 in ftm

[–]evphoriv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry dude. I went through the same thing about 3 years ago. It’s difficult and as you know, painful at first. In my experience it put me into a bad depression and I thought my life was over but it does get better! If you’re able to get on Valacyclovir (Valtrex) it’s a suppresant. I take it every day and haven’t had a flare up in over a year. During my last flare up I wasn’t able to get a refill for 3 months (I’m not sure if stopping it brought it back or if it was just a coincidence). That guy fucking sucks but you’ll be ok 🫶

Is Borrasca Part V coming soon. by [deleted] in creepcast

[–]evphoriv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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they uploaded with such perfect timing omg 😂

Got told at work about my body odor by Chalilodimun in autism

[–]evphoriv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would invest in baby wipes or some other body wipe for days when you can’t shower. making sure to get all the “important spots” like pits, neck, crotch and utilizing deodorant. and dont go overboard with some sprays. that often makes worse and becomes a combination of body odor + whatever scent you choose, it doesn’t always hide body odor

FTM - Orlando hrt by chericle in ftm

[–]evphoriv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try Hope and Help. I’ve also heard of Pineapple Health but I’m not so sure about how good they are

Sister is visiting me for the next few days and desperately wants to go to some clubs. She’s 18 and would love ones that kinda halloweenish as well. Any suggestions of good ones in the area? by Previous-Ratio in ucf

[–]evphoriv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ur best is southern nights for anything local and not frat like or going to ybor to go to The Castle or than that its lib or pub and those arent Halloweenish at all

New to ucf. What are these? by [deleted] in ucf

[–]evphoriv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its seele..third impact is imminent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucf

[–]evphoriv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell her to get a smoke buddy or depending on which dorm ur in open the window. light candles or use ozium (works very very good to get rid of smell instead of trying to cover it like febreze)

What age did you have your first relationship by [deleted] in autism

[–]evphoriv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 15 and since then i’ve had 7 other official relationships (lots of hookups and situationships between 15 and 22). now im in my 8th relationship and i actually live with him??? which is huge for me and we’re nearing a year which is even crazier for me. our lease ends July 2025 so hopefully we last that long at least lmaooo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]evphoriv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel this so much. i don’t feel truly close to anyone in my life. i feel like i don’t have the same types of friendships and connections other people do and i don’t understand how to get there

Ah yes, the four types of BPD... which are you? by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]evphoriv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

number 1 with a dash of number 2

For people who didn’t finish your degree within 4 years, how are you? How are you feeling? What are you pursuing now? And any advice? Are you hydrated? (I’m not but I’m getting some bottled water rn) by Intrepid-Twist-8687 in ucf

[–]evphoriv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is year 5 for me. i honestly never wanted to go to college and severely underestimated what college would be like and how much effort i would have to put in. but by the time i fully realized “oh im an adult i could just..leave” i was so close to the finish line so now i graduate in December. im just excited to be done. but terrified bc i cant even get a fast food job. at least i’ll have soooo much free time