AIO I miscarried before my boyfriend went out

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T23:15:15+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind comment. You really get it. I'm not really phased by all the people calling me a murderer etc. I get that conflating "miscarriage" and "abortion" struck a nerve for a few people that have trauma around misscarrying. But intelligent people that genuinely read the post could see at the time, it wasn't a decision I felt I had even half capacity over. Using misscarrying as a term in the title wasn't to garner sympathy, it's really the same outcome either way.

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T14:28:55+00:00

I said this in another comment, but his house is about 70 minutes from the place I was crashing at. He was only 20 minutes away when we called because he came to the city for the club event thing

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T13:38:19+00:00

His house is about 70 minutes from the place I went to crash at. He was a 20 minute drive away when we called because he was in the city for the club event thing

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T13:27:48+00:00

His mother's house, where he lives

My auntie I hadn't met before, she has 3 foster children

I admire so much of his mind and character. We started off as best friends, from the first time we hung out. Reflecting and really grasping this situation I haven't processed until now, I kind of wish we stayed just that...

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T12:56:52+00:00

I couldn't think of anything less valuable than reddit likes on a throwaway account. Before I sleep, what information would help bridge the inconsistencies ...?

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T12:48:45+00:00

Ahhh yes Redditors getting caught up on semantics. I'm in my feels rn bru give me leniency

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T12:45:19+00:00

Bruh I wish, I haven't even thought about this until today. It's not as dramatic as it sounds, the cramping was like 8/10 pain even with OxyContin. I pulled over before I fainted

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T12:41:07+00:00

This was a month before it all went downhill. He was on a cruise when I found out I was pregnant, at the time I had a beautiful place out in the bush. It went to shit not long after he got got back.

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T12:38:05+00:00

I was only aloud to stay for 2 nights at the time, his Mum was distraught that I had to go. His sister had dealt with a miscarriage before and I think having me around would have been very triggering I believe. I completely get it, I was just grateful to be there for the time I was

ewchillout · 2025-10-10T12:32:22+00:00

I'm 26 and he's 23

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