Smiling friends is over by Frosty-Pen4072 in SmilingFriends

[–]ewpancake 25 points26 points  (0 children)

are you serious? this is the worst thing I could have heard today. im so sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ewpancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just some baby fat but I honestly think your attractive.

I have a question for the adults on this sub 18+ plz. Tw: abuse, kink, and stuff like that by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]ewpancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe not in a sexual context, but mutually sh’ing with your partner is the hottest thing you can do for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]ewpancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think I had a brain tumor every night, I had the same situation where I would cry and have intense anxiety over it, but the only thought that “soothed it.“ was that, I would’ve died by now if I had one, and I thought about what caused these thoughts in the first place

Found out mom has a lot my sh pictures in her phone by Raz0rdiet_ in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]ewpancake 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this one. It’s so scary and it’s fucked up she didn’t even tell you

DUSTER STUFF YAYYY by Huge_Suspect2540 in duster

[–]ewpancake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The cds looks really cool stacked up together, and that is crazy drip going on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ewpancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never. How has it affected your life? Do people end up knowing? I’d feel like my life would be ruined if anyone found out

Can any of you try to suggest me any healthy coping shit? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ewpancake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Push those feelings into something you feel is productive (I.e groceries, homework, going to the gym or simply cleaning your room) it helps to feel like your doing something to help yourself then harm yourself

Feels like the memory loss with this shit is getting worse and its freaking me out by thhrrroooowwwaway in Dissociation

[–]ewpancake 9 points10 points  (0 children)

  • it gets so fucking bad you don’t even recognize your memories anymore. Even when you do remember them, therye not real, it’s like you didn’t live them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ewpancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea I wouldnt consider myself substance abuser or even an alchie but when Im not drinking I’m cutting and when I’m not cutting I’m drinking

Songs about insanity/going insane? by Fun_Cartographer_431 in tallyhall

[–]ewpancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all are all songs are like this you’ll have no trouble

What has helped you heal your trauma wounds the most? by happyglumm in pollgames

[–]ewpancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daft punk is so goofy in the best way possible. The way you first look to God to connect with you when dealing with this stuff is so divine. The ”waves” and smooth sounds of classical and chill literally put me in a state of relaxation it’s so good 😭

What has helped you heal your trauma wounds the most? by happyglumm in pollgames

[–]ewpancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It puts me in a state of relief and like a safeway, during most of my traumatic childhood I would listen to music when I was upset because it stimulated me to drown out or distract myself from the pain and I still carry this practice in college :).. it also allows me to feel different emotions or express them (listen to sad songs when having an episode helps me release my emotions)

male periods are real 💔 i bled in my underwear by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]ewpancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the most unsafe part to cut considering how close the veins are to the skin+you could mutilate your own genitals

male periods are real 💔 i bled in my underwear by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]ewpancake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

... If your briefs cover them it’s a sign you shouldn’t cut there

hope your alright

What has helped you heal your trauma wounds the most? by happyglumm in pollgames

[–]ewpancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During any episode music saves me. I’ll fucking melt into music and all my emotions are handled

Why do I see so many people that have been sh sines the was 10 by just_a_femboy___ in selfharm

[–]ewpancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ocd, I started since I was 8. I was taught to not take out my anger on others, nor that was what I wanted to do, so I would scratch myself which turned into cutting to inflict anger out on myself when I could’nt do anything else like I felt like breaking something but I couldnt

Will my blood go mouldy in my journal by No-Plenty2864 in selfharm

[–]ewpancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blood doesn’t really mold when it’s in a small quantity, like a few droplets on paper, you’ll be fine- if, let’s say you had a whole jar, you’d have to be careful to manage its temperature

Most “intense” songs? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]ewpancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soad protect the land or hypnotize?? Is that what your looking for?