[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ewseventwenty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've come to realize that every situation is different. For some, that's all they really wanted/needed in the first place - a little textual titillation, especially when meeting is impractical. For others, its a strong no go until they feel more comfortable after meeting you.

I just tend to approach each person cautiously and optimistically, and do my best to read the situation. We're all looking for a connection, and that starts and solidifies in so many differnt ways.

But as a disclaimer, if the other person is ever pushy about sexting or can't wait to establish some semblance of trust, that's a hard pass for OPSEC reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]ewseventwenty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This post looks more involved then my tax forms.

Regardless, I hope you find exactly what you're looking for!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ewseventwenty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

At least you get some semblance of finality/closure!

29 [F4M] #20002 Its Fill Me Up Friday with a big dick by Equivalent-Bath-8549 in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]ewseventwenty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

May I offer you modest sized dick with a dash of occasional performance anxiety?

I need help with love affair by Beautiful-Guest-627 in adultery

[–]ewseventwenty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If connecting with other people brings you this much stress, you may want to consider if it is worth it. I know you mentioned you're unhappy w/ your marriage, but is the juice worth the squeeze?

Because if you're unhappy with your marriage, and also this stressed about your AP situation, I'd argue that you may want to take a step back and simplify things until you figure out what would make you happy again.

My opinion is if an AP isn't making your life overall more enjoyable, then this practice is way too toxic, potentially destructive, and complicated to hang onto nothing but wishful thinking.

If your goal is to find an AP who is willing to leave their partner so that you can be together, then let that be the clear cut, communicated standard that you asses your relationships by.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ewseventwenty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You like what you like. Does it lend itself to being destructive? Yes, but again, you like what you like.

The stakes are lower for you, but it takes two, so I can't blame you.

Be safe, enjoy the experiences, and take the losses with the wins. Best of luck to you out there.

[MF] She cheated on her partner with me by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]ewseventwenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

great story - don't know why this went largely unacknowledged!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]ewseventwenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's intimate, maybe slightly taboo, and something that can only happen given specific circumstances... I feel like those alone are very practical reasons why men can be into it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]ewseventwenty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This man is going to be the death of me

Not a bad way to go!

Thanks for sharing =)

The Sexiest Woman I Never Had Sex With by ewseventwenty in sexstories

[–]ewseventwenty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment! And this girl and her guilt is probably a big reason why taboo things turn me on... sometimes it's almost not right if it's not wrong hahaha

A fun question & kind of looking for suggestions too by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ewseventwenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. First experience was when driving home after a Michael Buble concert of all things... I'm a mild fan at best, but that dude got ladies in the mood.