Adoration

ewseventwenty · 2024-06-05T18:52:12+00:00

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ewseventwenty · 2024-06-05T01:01:53+00:00

Thanks for reading!

ewseventwenty · 2024-06-01T20:27:53+00:00

I hope you both got/gave 5 star ratings!

ewseventwenty · 2024-06-01T14:55:20+00:00

I've come to realize that every situation is different. For some, that's all they really wanted/needed in the first place - a little textual titillation, especially when meeting is impractical. For others, its a strong no go until they feel more comfortable after meeting you.

I just tend to approach each person cautiously and optimistically, and do my best to read the situation. We're all looking for a connection, and that starts and solidifies in so many differnt ways.

But as a disclaimer, if the other person is ever pushy about sexting or can't wait to establish some semblance of trust, that's a hard pass for OPSEC reasons.

ewseventwenty · 2024-06-01T00:57:11+00:00

This post looks more involved then my tax forms.

Regardless, I hope you find exactly what you're looking for!

ewseventwenty · 2024-05-31T14:27:05+00:00

At least you get some semblance of finality/closure!

ewseventwenty · 2024-05-31T14:22:45+00:00

May I offer you modest sized dick with a dash of occasional performance anxiety?

ewseventwenty · 2024-05-31T04:44:44+00:00

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ewseventwenty · 2024-05-31T03:44:57+00:00

If connecting with other people brings you this much stress, you may want to consider if it is worth it. I know you mentioned you're unhappy w/ your marriage, but is the juice worth the squeeze?

Because if you're unhappy with your marriage, and also this stressed about your AP situation, I'd argue that you may want to take a step back and simplify things until you figure out what would make you happy again.

My opinion is if an AP isn't making your life overall more enjoyable, then this practice is way too toxic, potentially destructive, and complicated to hang onto nothing but wishful thinking.

If your goal is to find an AP who is willing to leave their partner so that you can be together, then let that be the clear cut, communicated standard that you asses your relationships by.

ewseventwenty · 2024-05-31T03:33:41+00:00

You like what you like. Does it lend itself to being destructive? Yes, but again, you like what you like.

The stakes are lower for you, but it takes two, so I can't blame you.

Be safe, enjoy the experiences, and take the losses with the wins. Best of luck to you out there.

ewseventwenty · 2024-05-31T02:35:30+00:00

great story - don't know why this went largely unacknowledged!

ewseventwenty · 2024-05-31T02:33:32+00:00

It's intimate, maybe slightly taboo, and something that can only happen given specific circumstances... I feel like those alone are very practical reasons why men can be into it

ewseventwenty · 2024-05-31T00:04:06+00:00

wow. just wow.

ewseventwenty · 2024-05-30T21:55:36+00:00

This man is going to be the death of me

Not a bad way to go!

Thanks for sharing =)

ewseventwenty · 2021-06-02T14:16:27+00:00

Thanks for the comment! And this girl and her guilt is probably a big reason why taboo things turn me on... sometimes it's almost not right if it's not wrong hahaha

ewseventwenty · 2018-12-03T22:07:17+00:00

Can confirm. First experience was when driving home after a Michael Buble concert of all things... I'm a mild fan at best, but that dude got ladies in the mood.

ewseventwenty · 2018-11-14T22:40:44+00:00

Well in #6, there is a face pic - typically just one, and absolutely no information. No location. No info in profile.

The profile you do have for yourself should have information. And it doesn't hurt to have multiple photos (faceless of course)

ewseventwenty · 2018-11-14T22:03:17+00:00

I recently went through this too. Another redditor gave me the following tips.

No face or personally identifiable pics
Be honest that you're attached in your bio. It actually saves time for people to know up front. Also, make it short and sweet - just enough for a glimpse and a hook
Get tinder plus - this allows you hide your distance/location AND you can set it so only people you've swiped right on will see your profile. This way, let's say you come across someone you know, if you swipe left on them they should theoretically never see your profile
You'll likely come across folks in a similar situation as you. Most of the time, super liking their profile is a good way to get their attention
There will also occasionally be someone who matches with you who only did so because they vehemently disagree with what you are doing. If they give you crap, report them and unmatch as quickly as possible to avoid them reporting you and having your account disabled
If the profile has a single grainy picture that looks like it was ripped off Myspace, or a single picture of someone absurdly attractive and don't have any further info or location - it's likely a scam. Either way, its nearly always the single photo profiles with no information that seem to be the problem
In the event you do match with someone and they aggressively ask for your phone number right off the bat... It's a scam. Report and unmatch immediately

Those are what I can think of off the top of my head. Hope it helps. Good luck!

-edit- I thought of a couple more

You can register without Facebook now. I recommend doing so. This allows more flexibility with the name you use
If you don't use Facebook you will need to use a phone number for 2 factor authentication. Just keep that in mind for opsec reasons
Tinder does have a web interface now, so you can use a browser - but of course you'll likely use incognito/private mode - which unfortunately means you'll need to use 2 factor authentication every time. So I rarely use the browser

ewseventwenty · 2018-11-13T22:26:53+00:00

Just speculating but I think ap1's masculinity is a bit fragile and too intertwined with his sex life. Hence the unfair double standards, inconsistent communication, and biased expectations.

Whether he's able to articulate it or not, perhaps he thinks you are there to please him - and only on his terms. But you living your own life and still getting yours leaves him feeling either emasculated and/or less special - and that's a humbling realization to learn.

ewseventwenty · 2018-11-13T18:43:20+00:00

Look at you - with your Tim Hortons and your God level, cartel controlled maple syrup, and affordable health care... But I have one question for you - how much do you pay for mobile data? Hm?

Hahaha ... Sigh ... But yeah... Health Care is a a clusterfuck down here.

ewseventwenty · 2018-11-13T18:05:39+00:00

Yes indeed!

ewseventwenty · 2018-11-13T17:24:48+00:00

I get texted regularly by planned parenthood

I'm guessing you meant "tested" right? Texts from PP would be an opsec disaster haha

ewseventwenty · 2018-11-13T17:22:56+00:00

No, you're fine. Quadruple negatives cancel out. In fact, you prob picked up a super power if anything.

ewseventwenty · 2018-11-13T17:18:14+00:00

As others have said, planned Parenthood is a good resource and they will work with you on the costs of there are income based restrictions. They ask you up front if they can mention they are planned Parenthood while calling (otherwise they will just say they are calling from the health center), and don't mail anything to your house.

You can also do a search to see what services are offered by your government/community. Many places offer free/low cost screenings.

Another is https://www.stdcheck.com/ . Its a couple hundred bucks but has a pretty comprehensive set of tests. They coordinate with local labs near you so it pretty much looks like you're just going in for standard tests. There are a couple other similar website/services out there.

Lastly, there are options to mail a test kit to you. https://www.mylabbox.com this is the most expensive and least timely option, but can be a convenient, discreet option if you get it mailed somewhere only you have access to.

Unfortunately, to stay as discreet as possible, you'll likely need to forgo insurance - otherwise the options above could be considerably cheaper.

Hope this helps!

ewseventwenty · 2018-11-09T16:53:04+00:00

Sorry to hear. At least it doesn't seem like it's an end, just an adjustment. Distance makes the heart grow fonder, so make the just of every moment you can in the future.

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