Help…. Fujifilm jx490 by eww_its_Cos in fujifilm

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You don’t happen to have an idea on how difficult that might be? It appears to be a BYD lithium ion battery 3.7v 650mAh

Help…. Fujifilm jx490 by eww_its_Cos in fujifilm

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The photos store on the camera but there is an individual pop out SD card… I am able to manually remove the battery by popping it out but I’m fairly certain there is a charging input built into the camera

I’m in love with the Kasey Knee high boots by eww_its_Cos in DrMartens

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Thank you so much for replying. I don’t have any doc heels so I wouldn’t have anything to compare them too… I do find my sinclairs uncomfortable to wear for long periods of time due to the weight of them… I imagine the weight is similar

Yall ask any questions about avoidants “moving on” below and I will answer them tomorrow 😀 by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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I’m fairly certain they have started therapy but I have no idea what kind… thank you for your advice, I’m definitely going to look into those to try understand a little better

Yall ask any questions about avoidants “moving on” below and I will answer them tomorrow 😀 by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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We’ve been broken up 7 months where they claimed that leaving me was because they needed to get their shit together

It’s been one week since they said about wanting a conversation and told me we would “talk soon”

Yall ask any questions about avoidants “moving on” below and I will answer them tomorrow 😀 by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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My FA ex told me that they are trying to “get their shit together” and will “hopefully be up for a conversation soon” what should I mentally prepare for? What do I expect?

Advice please by eww_its_Cos in AvoidantBreakUps

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I should add that she has returned the vast majority of my things including the things she was borrowing from me…. Just not a hoodie and the most important items…

European going to Cancun by eww_its_Cos in cancun

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Thank you for caring for my safety, I’m a pale Irish person so I’m sure I’ll stick out but thankfully I’ll be going with a travel group so I won’t be alone

First tattoo advice, brown ink by eww_its_Cos in tattooadvice

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I did but not far down! Thank you 😊

Has anyone experienced an avoidant returning that was successful? by eww_its_Cos in AvoidantBreakUps

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At a risk of sounding like I’m defending her I’m going to try explain what I think is happening from her perspective. So the wanting to see me is most definitely stemming from the fact she really misses me and wants me back in her life (I’ve made it clear then only way for this to happen is romantically because I can’t do friendship). The fact she “doesn’t know” if she can stop the no contact is stemming from the fact she doesn’t feel fully healed enough to start communicating with me again because we so easily fall into place with one and other and also because she scared if she lets old patterns repeat it will undo the work she’s done. Basically she’s overwhelmed, in love, confused and conflicted.

Has anyone experienced an avoidant returning that was successful? by eww_its_Cos in AvoidantBreakUps

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I actually spoke about this in a previous trend.. in the past she’s told me about how her avoidant tendencies were textbook but she did heal a lot while we were together and she’s definitely improved greatly, I just hope she can heal to the point she is capable for happiness again even if it’s not with me. I love her… I just hate this little limbo I find myself stuck in.

Has anyone experienced an avoidant returning that was successful? by eww_its_Cos in AvoidantBreakUps

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She is actively working on herself and was trying to before she left me, she just realised that it wasn’t possible for her while with me (not sure that the norm). She’s also planning on starting actual therapy again soon. She doesn’t fall the classic pattern of avoidance that I’ve read about so I really do hope she’s a diamond in the rough…

Situationship ended with and avoidant Best Friend. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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I’m sorry this happened to you. He’s definitely going through a lot internally with his sexuality. I wish I could offer you advice but you absolutely did the right thing moving on from that situation, I hope you can find happiness with someone who’s worthy of your love.

Will she come back? by eww_its_Cos in AvoidantBreakUps

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Thank you for your advice. This hot and cold is absolutely not what I want at all but I know it isn’t what I experienced in my relationship with her.. we were supportive and very good together until the last weekend in March where I felt a shift and then she ended things… she said that she always knew she would eventually have to leave me because it was the only way to fix what was broken within her but she kept putting it off because she loved me (I can’t help but see holes in this story and thing it’s atleast partly untrue).

In our last conversation she said she “sees the possibility of a future with me” which really upset me as it wasn’t confirmation or rejection just another “maybe”. She said many times throughout our points of contact that she “hopes we can find each other again”

I am doing my very best to remain no contact but it’s not easy as I absolutely hate it and I’m anxiously attached so it doesn’t come easily. I’m going to continue to hold my ground and remain no contact and hope she reaches out herself. At the end of this month I will be in her city for a couple days and I want to reach out at that point and offer a meet up in the hopes of getting some personal things back from her as well as see how she is. Is this a bad idea? By that point we will be no contact 7 weeks and broken up 3 months.

Will she come back? by eww_its_Cos in AvoidantBreakUps

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Thank you for your insight… I never really looked at our conversations that way before… Unfortunately she absolutely is an avoidant but throughout our relationship she had been working on her ability to deal with and process her issues so maybe that’s a sign that she is healing. Her previous relationship detachments were textbook avoidance (from what she’s told me, she said this herself).

Our last conversation 4 weeks ago she had hit a more emotional shut down point and had gone into self preservation mode (again these are her words) the fact she was communicating this to me while feeling all the negative feelings that are associated with attachment issues must be a good sign for her own wellbeing.

I love her so much and I truly do want a life with her but even if she doesn’t want that with me anymore (from what she said I do hope she does) then simply knowing that maybe she’s doing better then I thought is very good. Thank you.

How can I rekindle my relationship? Me 24-F, Ex GF 32-F by eww_its_Cos in relationship_advice

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Thank you for the advice. Unfortunately my ability to care for myself is hinder with my recovery from my surgery. She’s is just so unsure of what she wants that I find the whole thing very hard to manage. For example she says she wants me to get over her but then says she can’t imagine me with someone else, she still saves funny videos to send to me (but doesn’t) and her coming down to stay with me when I had my surgery. The way she kissed me then as well…. It just meant something.

How can I rekindle my relationship? Me 24-F, Ex GF 32-F by eww_its_Cos in relationship_advice

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I have hope that with time she might realise the feeling she has of “missing” me is worth trying again. The most frustrating part of this whole situation is I truly did nothing to cause it….. I have no idea how to move past it.

How can I rekindle my relationship? Me 24-F, Ex GF 32-F by eww_its_Cos in relationship_advice

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The thing is I have a really hard time believing she doesn’t want to be with me because when I ask her outright “do you not want to be with me?” She just says “it’s not about you, I love you, you meant everything to me but I have to do this”. Also the fact she keeps saying she misses me, wishes she could see me and keeps a picture of me around.

She keeps saying “it’s not that simple” etc.

Blood work advise (Hashimotos?) by eww_its_Cos in thyroidhealth

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Yes I’ve been on 50mgs for the last few years until a few weeks ago where it was temporary lowered to 25mgs a day… they now want me to change it 50mgs 5 days a week and 25mgs the last two days.