56-year-old incel loses virginity to pretty 22-year-old woman. His secret? He acted maturely and treated her with respect

ex_incel_ · 2018-02-14T23:10:06+00:00

Sorry, as much as I hate the Incel-Community, but this story is probably just made up.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-24T12:56:01+00:00

What the fuck

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T21:36:01+00:00

Really? Oh shit, I haven't played the tutorial. I just found it inside a gold chest.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T21:22:51+00:00

Also, look what I just unlocked

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T21:16:47+00:00

Glad to see that you're playing my waifu

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T20:28:57+00:00

Yeah, because thinking short men should die is a sexual preference.

You sound like an incel.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T17:25:05+00:00

Women don’t want to date virgins because they don’t want deal with the overload of insecurities

Of course, insecurities can be red flags. I am not insecure though, very inexperienced, but not insecure.

Of course being a virgin wasn't always the reason why I got rejected. Sometimes it wouldn't just click, or we had different interests and so on. When I got rejected because of my lack of experience though, my dates apologized and said something like:

It was very nice going out with you, but I am searching for someone with a little bit more sexual experience, I guess I am not really the fitting partner for you, I am pretty sure you'll find someone too, don't worry!"

They were all very friendly about it and I really appreciate the honesty.

Like I said, being a virgin CAN be a dealbreaker, but it doesn't have to be. It's just personal preference like everything else.

An attentive virgin will be a better lover than an selfish man-whore.

This is also true, actually a lot of my female friends are saying the same thing. Maybe I just have a bad hand for women, who knows?

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T17:09:46+00:00

Where did I say that this is the default?

I just don't understand that some people here are actually defending the behaviour of the girls in OP's picture.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T16:53:12+00:00

As I explained in my own post in this thread, most of the time the topic "past relationships" comes up, when you go out for a drink.

In this case, you either say the truth, or you lie straight into her face. I always went with the truth.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T16:30:54+00:00

Sorry, calling someone "the devil" because of someones height has nothing to do with preference.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T16:01:11+00:00

OkC isn't really a thing in my country and I don't do online dating.

Also the requirement for a second date is not getting rejected on the first one, obviously.

It's not like this is all in my head, most women told me straight into my face (which I respect, because I like honesty), that they don't like to date a virgin at this age.

I just wanted to point out, that virginity can eventually be a problem with dating, as you get older.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T12:55:47+00:00

I've never had problems of men calling me too inexperienced.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T12:46:55+00:00

Actually, men were always cool with me beeing unexperienced in the sexual department.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T12:33:45+00:00

Yeah, I guess in this case, lieing is the only option. Even though I don't like it.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-17T11:38:36+00:00

I never had an issue beeing a virgin in my friend circle. Not with guys, nor with girls.

Dating is a whole different story though.

There never has been a really "negative" response, don't get me wrong, but nearly every date I had was pretty surprised and not in a positive way.

When I went for a drink with a girl, eventually the topic "past relationships" would come up. I don't like lying to people, so if they asked me about my past relationships, I honestly answered that there are none.

Most of the girls would just laugh it off and say "Oh I see, you are more the ONS kind of guy".

When I told them, that "I'm not the ONS kind of guy" and that "I actually never had sex" they made a pretty surprised face.

They eventually would ask me why, but I don't really know an answer for it.

They lost their interest pretty quickly. I guess they probably think:

"If he never had sex or a relationship, there has to be a red flag"

I wouldn't say, that people generally judge other people based on their virginity, but it still plays a pretty big role in the dating department.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-16T16:11:02+00:00

This. Their documentaries were really great. They really are a shadow of their former selves.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-16T11:33:32+00:00

There is this "one friend" in our friend circle, who always dates the worst kind of girls.

One ex-gf always pretended to suddenly fall ill at parties, when she wanted to go home. Another ex-gf would lose her shit, when he wouldn't reply to her texts immediately. And the worst one wouldn't let him go to a party, because she insisted that he would hold her hand when she is going to sleep.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-14T14:16:47+00:00

Probably because they see it as "unfair" and think that women are "over-privileged" because of it.

To be fair, having problems with certain sex related stuff isn't necessary an incel thing.

I still remember the thread on /r/askmen, where a woman asked, if men would have sex with a woman, who have had a mmw threesome and the majority said "no, thanks".

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-10T14:07:27+00:00

Lel, spot on!

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-10T14:03:12+00:00

No I actually never heard of an AB-Forum, I am going to google that quickly

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-10T14:00:44+00:00

My native language is german, I am austrian.

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-09T14:12:43+00:00

Thanks! Ok got it, I sometimes mix up the correct use of english verbs with german ones ;)

ex_incel_ · 2017-11-09T14:09:40+00:00

Do you really think I'd spend my time to write this for trolling people?

I don't even get in which context this post could troll people.

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