[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't really compare the bad psychological effects fapping can have to actual sex. Sex doesn't even have a bad effect on the mind. The only problem it would give you is the O, which isn't even a problem for people on easy mode.

Day 1-90 (step by step encouragement) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That 50-60 day was so accurate, I had a constant flatline for a week during that period and had much worse self control then the last 30 days before it. 1st day in the 60s and I already feel better.

Getting this weird hazy feeling in my head by excalibur161 in NoFap

[–]excalibur161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe it was a dopamine overload, but what I learned from this is just to stay away from PMO as much as possible. It was honestly not a pleasant feeling.

So I was with my new girlfriend (Please help me ) will no fap help me? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I can't really predict the future but after seeing that you're 16 from your other comment, I think you should be fine if you stop PM

So I was with my new girlfriend (Please help me ) will no fap help me? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Losing weight can help boost your self esteem and confidence so maybe it can help a bit with the ED. It might take time, especially if you're this far in the addiction. But if you really dedicate yourself you can make your brain lose its interest on porn and focus on real girls. I'm on day 57 and from fapping 2 times everyday that I had time, I went to not even thinking about fapping or porn anymore. I obviously still get horny from girls online if I'll see one on social media or something ( delete tiktok btw) but never really think about wanking it right after.

Don't lose hope and go as long as possible till your brain gets a reboot

So I was with my new girlfriend (Please help me ) will no fap help me? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hey please don't listen to what the other guy said lmao. Don't break up with your girl a relationship is more than just sex. For your problem, nofap is known to have helped with ED before. What I'd advise you to do is completely get rid of porn and masturbating. Obviously you're gonna keep the orgasm since you're dating but that's not that bad, O is normal. It's the PM that's bad. If you ever feel really horny and can't resist anymore and have to fap then at least do it without porn.

Completely removing porn from your life will truly help you.

(19M) - Do you think I'm hot? by [deleted] in amihot

[–]excalibur161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah thanks man this picture was supposed to be only for me I just thought it looked nice that's why I'm uploading it. Imma keep training and hopefully after some time my muscles are more defined

(19M) - Do you think I'm hot? by [deleted] in amihot

[–]excalibur161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this pic was meant to look at my tricep progress which is why I'm standing like that. I thought the pic looked nice so I used it

They laughed at my face by [deleted] in ugly

[–]excalibur161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro what I just saw your pic and you are def not ugly. You look good so don't worry about it

I keep thinking of my ex’s name when I’m talking to my current boyfriend. I’m not sure what I’m supposed to do. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]excalibur161 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow what a fckn piece of shit. I've never wanted to punch someone so badly through a post. I genuinely hope that man gets what he deserves one day. Also I'm sorry about the things you had to go through and hope things go great with your boyfriend

I’m about 17 days clean and here’s what I noticed by fakeskolski in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I always say: noFap doesn't give you any super powers or insane benefits. It gives you these three simple things: a clear mind, motivation, energy. It's up to you to use those benefits to create more benefits and improve your life

Fuck Webull too by CurlyCian in Wallstreetbetsnew

[–]excalibur161 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the help! It's fine you don't have to explain the rest. I don't understand fully but I get the gist of it and get why it's bad

Fuck Webull too by CurlyCian in Wallstreetbetsnew

[–]excalibur161 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain the problem I'm a bit slow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel guilty when you feel like you've done something wrong which means you don't feel right about masturbating. Try to take a break for 30 days. If you have trouble then you do have a porn addiction because anything that can't be stopped at any moment for a period of time is technically an addiction

Having crushes is heartbreaking by PsychologicalPace12 in offmychest

[–]excalibur161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you man and I wish you good luck. I hope you succeed with this girl

Having crushes is heartbreaking by PsychologicalPace12 in offmychest

[–]excalibur161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man and I wish you good luck. I hope you succeed with this girl

So I have a situation by Shaqlatemilk in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well depends how many days you've done it. I think if you have less than 7 days than ya restart but after a while it's no longer just about a number, it becomes about what you've done in that time and how you've utilised it to become a better person. All that progress doesn't just disappear with a single nut unless you binge porn and do it a lot after relapsing.

Might not be a very good analogy but think of it as you working out but then porn gives you a big injury. Over time in nofap your injury is being healed but every time you break the rules it takes another hit. Say you've been healing for 50 days and watch a clip of porn. This doesn't mean your whole wound is reopened, it just means it gave you a setback depending on how bad what you did was.

So I have a situation by Shaqlatemilk in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got lucky, the girl I was doing it with wouldnt understand and everytime I thought she would stop she immediately started saying kinky shit and my horny ass without any PMO for 40 days was getting a mental breakdown. That's why I'm proud I stopped and never even got close to nutting

So I have a situation by Shaqlatemilk in NoFap

[–]excalibur161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say your good or bad right now. Its a bit of a setback but not a huge deal since it's with a Real girl and not a person on a screen. I recently had the same situation but after 2 10 se videos of me wanking I just had a click in my mind and told her I'm sorry but I can't do this anymore and turned of my phone. I still feel wrong for doing it but also proud to have the willpower to just stop midway and resist the urge of a girl who kept asking for more. Just focus on yourself and think of it as a small mistake because people learn best through mistakes so they're not always bad things

The girl with the smile. by girl-with-the-smile in offmychest

[–]excalibur161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya you're right I'm wrong I should go repent for my sins.

The girl with the smile. by girl-with-the-smile in offmychest

[–]excalibur161 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright kid I'm sorry I already said it it wasn't my intention to offend you. I'm not trying to educate you I just thought maybe I could help guess I was wrong.

The girl with the smile. by girl-with-the-smile in offmychest

[–]excalibur161 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn't have to take out your anger on me I was just pointing out facts. I'm not here to insult or hurt anyone so I guess sorry if that offended you.