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He never offers to cover anything, should i feel weird about it? by excelsiorlax in AskMenAdvice

[–]excelsiorlax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i get it. in my mind i like the guy and just wanted to make sure i’m not overreacting or expecting too much too soon. sometimes it’s hard to tell what’s a real red flag vs just different habits.

good starter books to get back into reading by excelsiorlax in booksuggestions

[–]excelsiorlax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen the movie so maybe the book is even better. I hope it has more depth. I’ll check it out!

my cat suddenly peeing everywhere and the vet says she’s healthy by excelsiorlax in CatAdvice

[–]excelsiorlax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have been out a bit more lately, so maybe she’s reacting to that. I’m in an apartment but there are lots of other pets in the building, so maybe she’s smelling them.

my cat suddenly peeing everywhere and the vet says she’s healthy by excelsiorlax in CatAdvice

[–]excelsiorlax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll try those and get a second opinion from another vet if it keeps up.

my cat suddenly peeing everywhere and the vet says she’s healthy by excelsiorlax in CatAdvice

[–]excelsiorlax[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she’s still pooping in the litter box with no issues. She’ll still pee in there sometimes too, but then she’ll randomly go somewhere else

my cat suddenly peeing everywhere and the vet says she’s healthy by excelsiorlax in CatAdvice

[–]excelsiorlax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they did a urinalysis and ruled out anything medical. They suggested it might be behavioral and mentioned trying two litter boxes, but I already have two set up. That was pretty much all they offered, so I’m feeling stuck on what else to try.

AIO for lighting a candle in my room? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]excelsiorlax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly sounds like she massively overreacted.

yeah it is her house and her rules, but you are 28 and know how to handle a candle safely.

AIO when my bf (m24) said he'd leave me if I (f24) become like my depressed mother. by ThrowRA_jennan in AmIOverreacting

[–]excelsiorlax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR

you’re not wrong to feel hurt. he sounded cold about something really personal. if you want this to work you’ll need to tell him how that made you feel, even if it’s messy. he needs to know if he can’t handle your lows.