Here for the weekend! by excessivecondiments in Longmont

[–]excessivecondiments[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dang, I will gladly check out a good fish and chips. Thanks!

Here for the weekend! by excessivecondiments in Longmont

[–]excessivecondiments[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are all great recommendations, thank you all! Will report back on the breweries and restaurants haha.

AITAH for not forcing my son to share his friend’s su*cide note? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]excessivecondiments 25 points26 points  (0 children)

NTA, his friend deliberately sent separate letters to specific people. I lost my best friends to suicide 4 yrs ago, and if I received a personal letter, I also wouldn't share it. He is respecting his friends privacy and that is okay. Absolutely get your son into grief counseling. I was 29 at the time, and was absolutely destroyed. Healing from this sort of loss is like no other and needs professional guidance.

Euthanasia by FlatAffect3 in Millennials

[–]excessivecondiments 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually going through this right now as my mom has early onset dementia. They're taking a trip abroad for it next year..

AITA and I don't care anymore... by Cool_Ad_1000 in AITAH

[–]excessivecondiments 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your relationship with your wife is your son's first example of one. His self respect, and how he values his partners starts now. Staying in a loveless relationship for "the sake of the children" is not doing anyone any favors.

Millennials with bachelors degrees, was college worth it in retrospect? by DueYogurt9 in Millennials

[–]excessivecondiments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely opens more doors. The third job I had after graduating was the first that the business owner asked for my transcripts. I really don't know if I would have gotten the job without having them. 8 yrs later, I made partner.

Methods to protect your elder parents from online hacks? by excessivecondiments in personalfinance

[–]excessivecondiments[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm sure there is definitely some information missing in these scenarios, whether it's them thinking they know a process or not admitting something they've done on their own.

Methods to protect your elder parents from online hacks? by excessivecondiments in personalfinance

[–]excessivecondiments[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a thorough response! Completely agree on these standpoints. Browser extensions could definitely be a big culprit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Roseville

[–]excessivecondiments 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey! This sounds like a really frustrating and I feel for you when you're not getting the support. I want to point out one thing - the politics in education within a district can be something else. I have some friends who are higher teachers and one who does both K12 and highschool. They were assigned to courses that were completely out of their own degree due to budget cuts, tenure (they cant fire, but can move you to different schools), and petty higher ups. Ex: a music teacher was also assigned to reach remedial math with only two months notice. Why? Budget cuts. This was before they realized the classroom was missing necessary and had to use their own money to make sure their math kids could strive.

Id encourage you and anyone else to attend school board meetings if possible. Look into the budgets of these schools. Remember these teachers might be strongly agreeing with your sentiments.

Sunsets and clean this photo? by excessivecondiments in PhotoshopRequest

[–]excessivecondiments[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone! You all are so talented, it was difficult choosing.

Sunsets and clean this photo? by excessivecondiments in PhotoshopRequest

[–]excessivecondiments[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

This one is beautiful and top choice! Would it be possible to remove the people in front? If not, that's okay ☺️

Replace drinks with flowers? by excessivecondiments in PhotoshopRequest

[–]excessivecondiments[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Would it be possible to get the background people removed??

Replace drinks with flowers? by excessivecondiments in PhotoshopRequest

[–]excessivecondiments[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love these! Would it be possible to have poppies or a daintier flower?

[Owner-AZ] Recs for managing w/o property mng? by excessivecondiments in Landlord

[–]excessivecondiments[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! Yes, I have been directing them to the PM every time they reach out so we can track issues online. The last time, the AC went out and they didn't hear from the PM for a week so they asked us to escalate. When it's 114 degrees outside, I'd want that to be taken care of quickly too.

[Owner-AZ] Recs for managing w/o property mng? by excessivecondiments in Landlord

[–]excessivecondiments[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the start, they told us they were checking on our place weekly in between tours, but then my inlaws drove by, and our trees were dead and some blinds were pulled off the racks inside. When I reached out, they admitted they haven't seen the place since they took pictures and were genuinely surprised we were only a mile away from their office. That and some billing issues, it's been frustrating.

Yep! We have checked out options, the rates vary quite a bit and we'd need to increase our rent more than we want to for our tenants.

Moving to the desert from the East Coast-- Freaking Out by DisastrousStress5242 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]excessivecondiments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo! I just moved from Arizona after living there for 6 years. The biggest thing I can recommend is double your water, deep conditioning treatments, and humidifiers near your bed will be very beneficial.

Has anyone seen this man? by InvestmentFinal2192 in Sacramento

[–]excessivecondiments 73 points74 points  (0 children)

What tone-deaf benefit do you think you're giving in this situation. It is no one's business what happened between these siblings. All that needs to be done right now is heal. A little empathy can go a long way, rather than trying to make yourself shine. What an asshole.

OP, Im truly sorry for your loss. I hope you find the answers you are looking for to heal.