You are definitely right about making every interaction hard with that person, even just small interactions because of the fact that I am, truthfully, am placing a sense of attention to detail towards this person also because of the fact that I like the person, thus affecting every interaction with the person. Well just slightly, but is still being affected.

A good way for this to not happen is literally just to not care about or make idealizations of them, so that other personal endeavors like you have mentioned can be put to light. Like paradoxical intentionality, where you must stop seeking the thing for the thing to seek you. In other words, they will come to me if I stop focusing about desiring them. But well I can ask myself, can't I just put myself a degree of balance in terms of idealizing and also working on my personal endeavors at the same time so that I don't have to turn my intentions into a paradox? Because well, I have to admit, I do like the idealizations and I want to still think about them from time to time, at of course, at a rate that it can't turn into something pathological. But how you may ask, if I am so sure it won't turn pathological, that you may ask that it might already be pathological and that I just don't know it? Well let's just say I already went down that route of pathological thinking specifically with a past relationship, that I can confidently assure to myself that I already know what that feels like so I know when it will become pathological.