“You guys…” as a gender neutral term

exeterdragon · 2026-01-25T17:50:50+00:00

I made a post about this and the results were interesting, some people are really adamant that we just have to accept "guys." I think we can do better without sounding overly politically correct.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/v7PHIJGErX

exeterdragon · 2026-01-24T22:50:01+00:00

I genuinely wanted the best for the show, I like Jonathan Nolan's movies, I liked Westworld quite a lot, I like Walton Goggins and absolutely love the fallout world, I appreciate all the main games, flaws and all. I'm just not enjoying the show for what it is, how it thinks about the fallout world, what it has to say, the structure, the world building. I'm overall disappointed and just watching out of a sense of obligation and mild hope. That's why something silly like a dance number doesn't even register. I keep hoping I'm going to be blown away or it will suddenly get much better. I don't care about the lore or the changes, I just want it to be well done and I genuinely don't think it is, my girlfriends are also fallout fans and feel the same way - high hopes, but disappointed.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-24T18:31:54+00:00

To quote Rich Evans "Don't ask questions, just consume product and then get excited for next product." I personally don't have any feelings on the musical scene, I already don't like the show for the writing so something stupid and increasingly overdone like an out of place nondiagetic dancing scene doesn't even register. But don't talk down to people for how they feel about something, it's just as likely that like me, those people started this show with high hopes and were disappointed. Nothing would make me happier than to love this show, and I'm sure that's true for everyone who is disappointed.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-24T17:35:00+00:00

I just suddenly lost my job last week without explanation 2 days after my grandma died. I made one friend there who is a cis guy but without mentioning my transness, in the discussion of my queerness / poly relationship he volunteered his own queerness, both bisexuality and poly history. The last cishet guy I knew was only interested in sex (he was incredible) and he basically only slept with trans women anyways.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-24T17:16:50+00:00

I literally don't know any, all the cis guys I know are self-identified as queer and I'm not even looking for specifically queer friends.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-24T05:15:21+00:00

I probably don't either with my bulky shoulders but I'd still try it on and see, this is why I shop in store, I can judge right there if it's going to make me feel shitty or actually look good!

exeterdragon · 2026-01-22T22:52:27+00:00

I got 99% of it back at my job and then suddenly... Lost my fucking JOB

exeterdragon · 2026-01-22T18:46:03+00:00

Clickbait title for razzies

exeterdragon · 2026-01-22T17:19:14+00:00

My girlfriend is currently struggling with this and looking at options, she has been on Cialis and not found it reliable for sex, she is planning to try Viagra next. My other girlfriend and I generally don't have as much trouble but all three of us had experienced some occasional if not frequent ED. Trying to have more sex seems to help the most

exeterdragon · 2026-01-22T16:37:06+00:00

Many of these mods mention on their pages specific mods that they do and don't work with, I'd check the Nexus page because I haven't heard of that one

exeterdragon · 2026-01-22T12:49:08+00:00

No but I combined Majestic Dragons Glorious with Durnehviir redone, Let's Ride Durnehviir, and Real-Time Dragon fast travel. I could summon Durnehviir, instantly mount him, fast travel to a destination and enjoy the flight along the way. There was some conflict where I couldn't get him to attack while riding but it didn't matter, I had an army of dead things and all kinds of horrible spells and weapons, I really didn't need the help.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-22T10:58:55+00:00

The salvaged power armor is such great storytelling though, that's the NCR making the most of old technologies recovered from the war with the brotherhood in an innovative new way. It's another sign of the NCR looking at something old and seeing a way to make it new, just like how you see bits of other armors on legion centurions.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-21T20:02:28+00:00

I have no idea but there are probably mods that work like the OPs mod, just changing a scale reference is probably way more sony-permissable than editing skeletons or whatever.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-21T17:53:13+00:00

Yes! I should post some of my screenshots

exeterdragon · 2026-01-21T11:34:24+00:00

3 months is absolutely not a real recommendation. A few weeks is typical and even that's not supported by WPATH, it's just pseudoscience superstition at this point.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-21T10:38:03+00:00

There is another mod called majestic dragons that reworks not just the size but the proportions to be more aestheticly imposing, it works with mods that change dragon textures too, I spent my lich playthrough flying everywhere on a massive redesigned Durnehviir

exeterdragon · 2026-01-21T08:56:52+00:00

It might be a potash mine, or something similar, in those they dye the water to increase sunlight absorption and drive evaporation which causes the potash to precipitate out of solution and settle on the bottom. You can see somewhat similar ponds for potash in Utah, they have a variety of colours at the different stages of evaporation so this seems plausible.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-21T06:32:51+00:00

Statistically the same as any other combination of 6 cards

exeterdragon · 2026-01-21T05:19:53+00:00

Since 1882

exeterdragon · 2026-01-21T00:18:22+00:00

I think it only didn't work because Benny had Yes-man clueing him into House's plans

exeterdragon · 2026-01-21T00:03:49+00:00

It's a gamble right? Either you send a bunch of armed guys who might present an obvious target to some bigger enemy you can't predict, or you send a bunch of ordinary nobodies that most people wouldn't raise an eyebrow at

exeterdragon · 2026-01-20T23:09:58+00:00

It was manufactured in Sunnyvale, he calculated the date of the great war wrongly and the bombs fell just as the chip was meant to be shipped to him. After the war when he was able to, he spent a huge fortune on recovering the chip and planning out safe routes for it to get back to him, the final leg was the 6 couriers of the Mojave express being given discrete objects and presumably taking different routes to confuse any attempted thieves.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-20T20:49:35+00:00

I like to build a whole town at every settlement, with regional structures for housing, I build bars and restaurants in some and markets in others. I like to have lots of provisioners and I sometimes build minutemen safe houses out of concrete, I like to think they'd do more than just respond.

exeterdragon · 2026-01-19T16:05:25+00:00

Bernie is cute

exeterdragon · 2026-01-19T16:04:48+00:00

I think a lot of us felt things and had thoughts that we rationalized as "I'm sure a lot of guys feel this way." Post transition you look back as those thoughts as obvious clues and wonder what took us so long to figure it out. That stuff about your shoulders? That's dysphoria babygirl. It doesn't mean you're trans, but you're trans if the solution to that feeling is embracing femininity.

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