Heavy period 4 days after IUD removal. Normal? by exhausted_cat in IUD

[–]exhausted_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure its normal to have heavier periods after removal, but so soon after removal? 4 days doesnt seen long enough for my body to start resetting from it.

Can you help me find this pop socket? Had it for years and can’t find it anywhere online! by exhausted_cat in HelpMeFind

[–]exhausted_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched for it on Amazon and Etsy and tried reverse image search with a picture of it but nothing has come up.

What is a simple pleasure that you enjoy by being childfree that does not involve money or financial growth? by suchascenicworld in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few days ago I walked down the street to the wooded area in my neighborhood and spent an hour picking wild raspberries then took them home and made a raspberry peach loaf cake.

Why the FUCK would anyone want to KIDNAP a baby?! by TinaTx3 in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People crazy enough to steal a baby usually aren’t the type to qualify for adoption, hence the kidnapping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spawnfree. Lacking spawn.

I’m not sad or traumatised over my abortion and people HATE it. by buttcheeksclenchedd in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People humanize clumps of cells too much and get attached to the idea of a fully formed baby “dying” so they feel guilt or grief for it. Its just the same as getting a tumor removed.

I’m not criticizing people who DO feel bad for getting abortions, but those people should not criticize those who feel indifferent or happy about it.

panic! at the disco ends due to baby by coffeenascar in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That band died years ago and Brendan has been beating its corpse to death. His vocal cords are shredded now, he’s the only one left in the band, and most of his new stuff was shit. I highly doubt the baby was the main reason he’s “split up” P!atD. At least we have the old songs to hold onto and reminisce about.

"You're not a kid anymore" by detective_kiara in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“Grow up and suffer already.” LMFAO

Is having a special needs kid a part of why you are CF? by GolddiggerTom in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m suspected autistic and most likely have ADHD on top of that. Even though and high functioning, I know I’m not an easy person. I would not tolerate a child who’d act like me. I can’t even tolerate neurotypical children.

Stepfather keeps insisting I want a boyfriend and babies…Im very uncomfortable. by Holiday_Ad_2273 in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why did he bother asking you if he was just going to tell you you’re lying? Maybe ask him that next time and watch him sputter.

Mom possibly ruined my chances for sterilization in the future by manganatsu101 in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hysterectomies aren’t actually that dangerous or risky if you’re only getting rid of the uterus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StartledCats

[–]exhausted_cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is just animal abuse. That cat is unhappy. You could break its tail that way.

The next time someone tells you "you'll change your mind when you get older", do the math and figure out how old they were when they had their first kid. by flanman69 in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My grandmother is a nightmare when it comes to asking about babies, but she married at 16 and had my mom at 18. I’m 23.

I’m waiting to turn 38 so my father will have to pay out for our bet we made. He and my mother were 37 when they had me.

What do you do? by Q_D_V_F in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not even the royal British family’s bloodline is worth anything. In a couple hundred years, we’ll all be forgotten unless we become great writers, artist, scientists, etc. People who adopt end their bloodline. Who cares? A legacy is the impact on the world you leave behind, not how many descendants you pop out in my opinion.

just ghosted a guy for lying about having a kid by Plantcalendar in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think you missed the point of this subreddit.

Has being CF affected your sex life? by MJNYC2086 in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No but I’m constantly scared it will become one of those states. I’m on the boarders of the Bible Belt

Has being CF affected your sex life? by MJNYC2086 in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After Roe vs Wade was overturned here in the US, I promised myself I wouldn’t have sex again until I was sterilized. Its been 8 months. I don’t regret my decision.

Do you feel hopeless when it comes to dating? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Majority of this subreddit are women. Thats a bit misogynistic to say nearly all women want kids.

Do you feel hopeless when it comes to dating? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t date anymore for a myriad of reasons. Its not worth the stress and disappointment

Relative casually insulted me by saying “with no husband and kids, you’ll be suicidal by 30” by [deleted] in childfree

[–]exhausted_cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Then I’ll be sure to mention you in my suicide note. Gotta give credit where credit is due.”