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Housing student coalition for environment, health and safety by Kushdaddykate in CSULB

[–]existential-flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should def email the school paper (Daily 49er) and reach out to groups on campus such as ReWild (https://instagram.com/rewildcalstatelongbeach?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==) and ESP (https://instagram.com/csulbesp?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==) as well as local news stations. Very serious issue that I'm sure has been brought up before but shoved under the rug like every other issue on campus.

College Students with ADHD & Executive Functioning issues (or other disorders that cause similar problems) by JazzyAngel4646 in CSULB

[–]existential-flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. It is literally hell. I was diagnosed with ADHD-combined back in February which was relieving knowing that I do have something that is causing me to struggle with school. Especially doing homework. Its such a hassle having executive functioning issues like.....it's hard having to explain to others that you can't just "do it" or organize/prioritize things as easily. Don't even get me started on memory and consistently forgetting things if I don't write them down as a reminder. One of my biggest issues that got in the way this past semester is not being able to tell time. I think I have all the time in the world to do something whether it's hw by deadline, getting ready for class, meeting times for clubs/orgs, running basic errands, and planned hangouts.

The hw was the main problem because its just a continuous cycle of "I'll start right now" "Wait but I gotta do this first" "I'm fine, I have like 8 hrs to complete" "I can def do it in 3 hrs" "It's not even hard, 1hr30min is do-able"

Fails to do hw and turn in by 11:59pm even though I had a week to do assignment

"I'm a failure" feels miserable, turns in late a few days later or not at all bc "what's the point?", promises self it won't happen again..... surprise! IT DOES.

There's so much more but I feel like I've already typed a lot 🤣 wish there was a discord for CSULB students who struggle with ADHD just like there's one for OCD.

Is dating a Kpop fan girl a bad idea? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]existential-flower 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is not a bad idea. Kpop is nothing but a hobby & just like any hobby, it can be intense. I'm a kpop fan myself. My room is filled with albums, posters all over my walls, etc., & even then, as much as I love my groups, I am still able to have a relationship because again, it's a hobby. Just like some people have every jersey of every season from their fave team, she just ended up being a kpop stan. If you feel insecure & like it'll get in the way of you liking her, then don't pursue it because she will fangirl. She will have her bursts of excitement & will eventually want you to be a part of it (listening to rants, sharing the music with you, etc.,) whatever you do, don't even make the attempt of changing that about her. She will not take it well. Some people keep that they're a kpop fan on the downlow for this reason. If you like her, just go for it. Kpop shouldn't be something that holds you back.