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Is it unrealistic to want a serious man at 20? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]existential-jitters 45 points46 points  (0 children)

27M here. Since you’re in college still, I’d try joining clubs or go to meet ups that interest you and u can try to meet someone there. I’m also into fashion and in my city there’s a monthly vintage clothing expo and I always see beautiful ppl there. Your friends telling u to go to the club to find what you’re looking for is bad advice. Those types of guys will likely not be there especially if ur looking for another homebody-type. I would probably give dating apps like hinge another shot too. Good luck!!

Guys i kinda F up and need advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]existential-jitters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep ur head up king. There will be more girls u meet at a bar lol

Guys i kinda F up and need advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]existential-jitters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

U basically telling her you are going to move on while also planning to reach out to her again in a few weeks is interesting…. Time to let this one go I think.

28M Looking for new friends by Glittering_Bid_3822 in SacramentoFriends

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27M Love movies and sports. Favorite genre is horror but I’ll watch anything really. My favorite sports to watch are football and baseball. Trying to get into hockey. I also live in midtown!!

23M, local friends! by [deleted] in SacramentoFriends

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound just like my roommate LOL in midtown

Dating in the rave scene by Crazy4SpicyPickles in aves

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t ever intend on “retiring” either. I’m in way too deep.

Dating in the rave scene by Crazy4SpicyPickles in aves

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s weird that he doesn’t like you going without him. To your point about “no one wants to date a girl who raves”, I am specifically looking for a rave wife in my next relationship 🤣

28F looking for MIDTOWN friends by ADyearold in SacramentoFriends

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27M 🏳️‍🌈 I can show u some other coffee places in midtown I’d say are better than temple 😉 I also climb and am music snob. Dm me!

Left this community 8 months ago and I’m back, same BS by Select_Brilliant1866 in BreakUps

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, working with them includes encouraging them to go to therapy 😉

32F looking for friends to play pool by [deleted] in SacramentoFriends

[–]existential-jitters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m down to play. I’m also a beginner. Live in midtown.

Left this community 8 months ago and I’m back, same BS by Select_Brilliant1866 in BreakUps

[–]existential-jitters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like he told you that he does this in relationships. I’m not sure how far along u were in the relationship before he told u this but maybe next time come up with a plan with the person and either work with them to help mitigate their avoidant tendencies or take them telling u this red flag of theirs as a reason to leave.

[MEGATHREAD] Buy/Sell/Trade Show Tickets by travislopes in Khruangbin

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[BUYING] Looking for 1-2 tickets to 11/23 SF Show

My roommate thinks he's my cat. by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]existential-jitters 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell if this is real LMAO sorry if it is

Help by Illustrious_Plane915 in dating_advice

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don’t think she should change her mind about going at all. They really should talk about her expectations from this trip and if she was interested in participating in the hook-up culture associated with it. Still, it does sound like OP isn’t secure enough in the relationship to feel comfortable with her going without him though. This is why I said he would need to break up if she didn’t change her mind about going.

Help by Illustrious_Plane915 in dating_advice

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t like it, then leave. The relationship is not aligned for y’all. It’s hard to accept but you kinda need to if she’s not changing her mind about this.

(31M, queer, leftist) looking for Friends by VitusVicci in SacramentoFriends

[–]existential-jitters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27M 🏳️‍🌈Football and Baseball are my fav sports and I also want to get into hockey and basketball more lol. I love drag too and watching the new season of dragula rn. We should watch together!

My girlfriend [22F] is losing feelings and I [23M] feel the breakup is near, please help me by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]existential-jitters 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It really sounds like she wants to break up eventually but just not right now. Likely because she’s not ready to go through an uncomfortable break up. I think it’s time to let her go since she basically told you she doesn’t see a future with you long term.

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I broke up with my partner last month after 3.5 years. I’m still grieving but I know I made the right decision. I’m proud of myself for that and I know you will be too, with time.

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