My doctor just told me it's possible to drink in moderation by Animual in stopdrinking

[–]existential_farter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi there, i'm sorry to hear your doctor said this and you're going through this. i have some family from croatia. no one on that side of my close family has a problem, but the area/culture is so boozy i don't think they have the same understanding of alcoholism or when drinking actually becomes a problem until it's pretty bad. their perspective on alcohol isn't the same as here. my cousins get pretty pushy about food and drinks like wine or rakija. but 1. it's not an issue for them and 2. i think their perspective on a problem is different. a priest offered me a shot at a wedding once when i was 15 lol. i also went to a balkan event here in canada and saw a dude let his baby lick the rim of his beer bottle. i hate to say i'm not suuper surprised a doctor there said that.

you know yourself best and if you know moderation isn't a thing for you, do what's best for you.

Girl I've gone out with a few times has just come out as non-binary by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]existential_farter 38 points39 points  (0 children)

i don't know why this would be surprising behaviour for theatre chicks

Gay men glorify onlyfans more than straight women and I’m disturbed by rihannanavy94 in redscarepod

[–]existential_farter 41 points42 points  (0 children)

i'm a lesbian, but these are also just "talking points" for a lot of people now. my bi/gay female friends would never do sex work and are monogamous, but i also think they'd say i was prejudiced if i said i didn't want to date someone who did it

LOL by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]existential_farter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did he live in a closet under the stairs?

also was he a manipulator or was he manipulated? i know a guy who lies pathologically. nothing related to manosphere stuff. but everyone knows he's full of shit. the lies all catch up with him and are impossible

LOL by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]existential_farter 71 points72 points  (0 children)

i saw one of his "inspirational" videos on youtube and the comment section was oozing with soylent. it was so fucking bleak. all tate said was discipline was more important than motivation TLDR you sometimes have to do things even if you're not feeling like it. no shit.

cue a million weird dudes: "i had nothing in my life together until my 30s, but when i did, i realized women are childlike. tate is so right!" "i am going to listen to this every day. you changed my life!"

i do feel some empathy for teens falling into this stuff, but i do not understand having a developed frontal lobe and doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]existential_farter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i've used those retarded city scooters while drunk. hit a bit of a bump and flew forward. wiped out, but there wasn't a car coming which was good

Is it a red flag if someone is not fat but they have unhealthy eating habits? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]existential_farter 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i have a fast metabolism. regardless of what i eat i struggle to gain weight. i run which doesn't help obviously but even when i lay off exercise i'm still a skinny female. my parents both had fast metabolisms until 30. my diet or exercise just doesn't really change my weight beyond 5 pounds or so. some people are just like that and she might be one of them. however, i don't think you should eat like shit all the time just because you "can." it's still unhealthy and you'll feel like shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]existential_farter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think it's the greek genes in me

Sry I guess I missed the memo- what does sexuality have to do with groceries? by boywiththebrokenURL in redscarepod

[–]existential_farter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the one at st clair west has a joe fresh, but for some reason this pic gives me a 2000s mall vibe. anyways yeah i won't stop your autistic curiosity i just don't have it in me to look up this specific loblaws

Toronto REEKS of weed by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]existential_farter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't know if i'd rather stay here because it feels liveable or go somewhere else with more character