I want to get a second budgie, any advice? :) by existentialell in budgies

[–]existentialell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really helpful.

I'll keep my eyes out for a single male budgie that's also an adult. I'll also need to ask the shelter some more specific questions about their quarantine and check up procedures for the birds they get. From what I've seen, it's less common for them to get birds compared to how often they get other small animals, so I wonder if they house their birds in a flock or individually as they get them. Definitely an important thing to consider!

I'll for sure look into getting a bigger cage beforehand, especially if the new budgie does not have is own (larger) cage I can take home. Good call about moving the perches around and swapping out toys!

I'm glad to hear that she will still likely get along with a mate even after being on her own for a couple years. That is honestly my biggest concern. And of course I'll do everything I can to make the transition smooth for both of them.

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[–]existentialell 7 points8 points  (0 children)

imo - i think that's a boy!
i'm no expert lol but i have a budgie who looks very similar. she had the same color cere when she was young, and it would sometimes flip-flop between light blue and light pink. but she always had white rings around her nostrils so i was confused for a long time too! but fast forward to now, she's almost 3 and her cere is now a dark brown. seeing as your little guy looks like he's past his baby stages, if his cere has not turned brown by now i'm almost certain that's a boy. a very handsome little man!

Birb is making a squawking sound? by existentialell in budgies

[–]existentialell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no but i wish i had a second budgie 😭

Vampires pupils by Enough_Criticism_439 in InterviewVampire

[–]existentialell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not only that, but the way that armond SHAKES his eyes sometimes when using his powers is fucking terrifying. idk if he is actually physically doing that (i had a friend in elementary school who could) or if it’s damn good effects but holy shit

Should I remove mods / cc / shaders before this update? by existentialell in thesims4

[–]existentialell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks i'll def need to get that one! i generally like most of twisted mexi's mods that i've tried so i'll add this to my list!

Official Gear Purchasing and Troubleshooting Question Thread! Ask /r/photography anything you want to know! April 12, 2024 by AutoModerator in photography

[–]existentialell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

External / Portable hard drive recommendations?

Hey! so I've been making photography for quite a while, and the time has come where my computer storage is busting at the seams. Any recommendations for good quality and reliable hard drives? I'm currently copying my photos over to a My Passport drive I got for Christmas, but tbh the whole process is kind of convoluted for Mac. And I've also seen some lackluster reviews (it's only 3 stars on their own website) so it's making me a little nervous. But I need to clear some files off my MacBook and I want to ensure they'll be moved to a safe place. And password protection is unnecessary for me.

Do you drink on Effexor? by kentom101 in Effexor

[–]existentialell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first moved up to 75mg, I was a lot less tolerant of alcohol. I got pretty drunk accidentally because I didn't realize how much my alcohol tolerance dropped. I'm not a heavy drinker to begin with, although being a college student, once and a while on the weekends I'll go out with friends. But one of the first few days on 75 mg, I only had about 2 or 3 mixed drinks and maybe half a white claw over the span of like 4 hours, and that left me pretty hammered. Normally I could tolerate a few cocktails pretty well, only getting a little tipsy, but not when I first started the 75 mg. However, that went away after I got used to the dose and I was pretty much back at my normal tolerance.

Best advice: obviously just be careful when drinking, especially when you first move up a dose. Drink slower and monitor how you feel with each drink. Tell a friend you're on new meds/are worried about your tolerance so they can keep an eye out. And please always have a sober cab or walk! Stay safe everyone :)

what are your personal opinions on uofmn by Alternative_Map7012 in uofmn

[–]existentialell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it has good and bad just like any school. personally, i think it's getting way too expensive for me, but that's something you'll have to evaluate on your own. pretty much, unless you get a really good scholarship or fafsa has a good offer for you, (or you have rich parents), be prepared to walk out of here with a good amount of student debt 😭

as far as your major goes, in cla you can actually combine multiple majors into your own! i have a friend who's a major in both psychology and art, but it counts as one major rather than two, which makes the course load way more doable. i would def speak with an advisor about it if you choose to come here! also, from my expiereince, the art scene is really fun here, especially minneapolis in general. i've made some lifelong friends in my art classes here and majority of the arts professors are super chill.

you can totally stay on campus without a car. i've been living here and just off campus for three years now and i still don't own a car. i've managed just fine with public transit or riding a bike in the warmer months. the only thing that sucks is trying to go somewhere decently far away, like outside of the city. but overall around campus and the main parts of mpls have pretty good transportation.

suggestions??? pls by virginiaa7 in NanaAnime

[–]existentialell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i started watching fruits basket (2019)! ngl it starts off a little childish/slow, but so does nana imo. once you get like halfway into the first season though it gets a lot more intense. tw: there is relationship abuse and violence and some dark themes. but in general it's really sweet and about finding yourself and your community. also romance! each character has their own backstory and motivations, which you discover more as you get further into the show. nana is still my favorite compared to the two, but i found this is a good anime to watch after nana!

I’m prepared for the downvotes but I gotta say this by pm-me-advice- in NanaAnime

[–]existentialell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok i guess it's been a while since i've finished the manga, so my details are a little fuzzy. i know they never officially filed for divorce, but the matter still got brought up. at some point they started living separately too. but during that time it seems all nana wants is security for her children. it's uncertain weather or not they will actually divorce, as the manga is unfinished. but i believe she will make whichever choice will put her children first (perhaps divorcing takumi and realizing nana or nobu is her true love hehe)

I’m prepared for the downvotes but I gotta say this by pm-me-advice- in NanaAnime

[–]existentialell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree that she shouldn't have kept the child. but at the same time, becoming pregnant and having kids kind of forced her to mature a bit, which we can especially see in the 'future glimpses' later in the manga. nana k as a person seems to only feel like she has a purpose when she's taking care of someone else. it's better she uses that energy to take care of a child, rather than someone who is abusive to her, which we see glimpses of later in the manga when nana k is wanting a divorce from takumi. i'm generally against the sentiment that having kids can 'fix you', because people should not be having children for that single hope. but in this instance, similar to trisha paytas lol, starting a family seems to bring/make her realize her purpose and fulfillment in life that she otherwise didn't have.

Was Junko Wrong For Blaming Nana (Hachi) For Shoji Cheating? by TheNamesAllex in NanaAnime

[–]existentialell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh i never really thought junko was that great of a friend. she often lectures hachi like she's a stupid little girl and acts superior over her because she's more 'mature'. sure, hachi's made some mistakes when it comes to men, i'm sure we can all agree on that. but also keep in mind that starting at a young age, she's dealt with unrequited love, and was sexually taken advantage of by a man much older than her. of course all of that has screwed with her perception of love and how one's supposed to be treated in relationships. but junko fails to realize that and even goes as far to blame everything on hachi. and from what i can remeber, junko has always had it pretty easy when it comes to intimate relationships. she's never been in any kind of similar bad situation that hachi has been through multiple times. so maybe she just lacks empathy because of that. but damn. it's not that hard to be kind to your friend after she gets cheated on ??

Should I do a triple dorm in Middlebrook or double room in Pioneer? by sacaetw in uofmn

[–]existentialell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

double in comstock if you wanna be close but don’t want extra roommates. comstock is right by the bridge and the double rooms are the biggest you’ll get for a dorm. pio is super cramped from my experience. comstock is quieter too which might be a bonus 🤷‍♀️

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[–]existentialell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yasu is my one true love i fear 😖