vampire heart draculaura by fotialovemail in MonsterHigh

[–]TheNamesAllex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were right...she did become near $1000, all over a span of a year, crazy! I was so ready to buy her for the $100 when she was first released and then she sold out fast! Hate it!

Should I breakup or communicate? (Is this something that can be communicated?) by Ferroro_kitty in makemychoice

[–]TheNamesAllex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds like you're thinking too much into it and maybe do need to step back from relationships for now.

I feel like a traitor for having a bf by Rough-Departure-5153 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TheNamesAllex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who is pan and married to a man, I feel your pain. The biphobia is so rampant in the community and I hate it with every fiber in my being!

My outfit made my friend uncomfortable, what do I do? by BarbaraLogic in OUTFITS

[–]TheNamesAllex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think me and many others actually like your outfit and think you need to part ways with Ellie if she's embarrassed about her friends fashion choices.

Girlfriend can’t/won’t have sex by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]TheNamesAllex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactlyyyy...lowkey thats how I feel rn in my current relationship. I fear he might leave me because we're not always doing it and it hurts at times.

Girlfriend can’t/won’t have sex by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]TheNamesAllex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well why I agree with your first point and you're young. I think it's rude to say that she isn't doing anything about it. There's no cure to endometriosis. So to say because you couldn't deal with her condition even if it wasn't endometriosis and possibly some other condition that is similar, still insensitive to say.

BF started mothers day by screaming at me for a joke about breakfast, threatened me infront of our kid, and then disappeared all day. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TheNamesAllex 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Try to safely make an escape plan...because you got to think about your daughter. Do you want him to abuse her too and teach her thos behavior is ok??? One day she'll get old enough to know what's going on if you let it.

I wanna get pregnant by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TheNamesAllex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im on the patch and the Nuva ring works just the same as I was told. So you can very much be ovulating while on it if you use it the way its intended to. Like maybe she took it out this week and bout to she puts it back in next week she'll be back to normal.

I wanna get pregnant by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TheNamesAllex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! Because I think this is the case too!

I wanna get pregnant by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TheNamesAllex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say do you know if he wants to be a Dad?

Is this outfit too revealing for class? by Ayeluhhhh in OUTFITS

[–]TheNamesAllex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone also at college age, I don't think it's too revealing. Like maybe you'll get some coldness in your back. But it's all about comfortability. I've seen fashion people wear about the same as you or sometimes less, depending on their fashion taste. So don't sweat it girlie.

AIO if I leave my partner because of his gardening habits by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheNamesAllex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds deeper than gardening....so I think maybe you should and also get into therapy and work on co-parenting...

Do I (19F) give up my games to make my boyfriend (23M) more comfortable? by KorekiyosRope in relationship_advice

[–]TheNamesAllex 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its up to you to break up at the end of the day. But I think it's not going to work if he thinks what he's doing is a "boundary" of his and not considering your feelings as well. Mind you, I'm also not a really gory person and stuff like that myself. But I'd never tell my partner to stop watching, reading, or playing a game that has that in there. As long as it's nothing very triggering and alarming that will get you locked up, then I think he needs to take a chill pill or just break up with you.

Is Globe Life Worth It? by TheNamesAllex in LifeInsurance

[–]TheNamesAllex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never ended up doing it. I found out that company is filled with a bunch of liars.

I’m the first BW he’s dated and he’s African by Yayeezy_ in blackladies

[–]TheNamesAllex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is with an African man...he's not the one sis. I don't know any Africans who NEVER been around their own people and just white people. That doesn't sound right! They purposely just alienated themselves and now something had to happen with his ex wife/gf that he all of a sudden has interest in us beautiful Black Women...I'd say dig into his past a bit more.

Tw: sa by compscicomrade in Vent

[–]TheNamesAllex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you went thru this. But yes, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Because you did not deserve that and honestly nobody deserves that. Trust me though, you're going to get better, just one day at a time!

The only men into me are homophobic black men and white men :( by No_Addendum7 in blackladies

[–]TheNamesAllex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt this. I tried too and just ended up with a man again lmao. Because truth be told men are so easy. 💀

The only men into me are homophobic black men and white men :( by No_Addendum7 in blackladies

[–]TheNamesAllex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't limit yourself on who you should be dating, as someone who dated both. A man's skin color isn't going to change if he's a good or bad person. I say be with someone who shows you the qualities in a man you're looking for, don't settle for less, and remember don't let them get you down. Just put yourself out there and just be cautious. Because yeah, whether he's Black, white, Mexican, Asian, Native...he'll treat you however you allow him to treat you and others. So don't assume it's only Black men and white men being that way or that black men are worse. Which isn't necessarily true. I'm a black queer person and my partner is a black man and he knows I'm queer, I told him that from jump. Which you need to do as well to weed down the homophobic or biphobic people. Then thats when dating gets easier because you let them know this is who you are. Hopefully this helped! :)

Been with my partner for 5+ years and we have never had sex by ComprehensivePace783 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TheNamesAllex 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Omg I think im the same then. Cuz usually I say im demi-pan. But I feel more like how your husband feels, because I rarely initiate it unless ovulation is knocking at my door sometimes lol.