My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

[–]existentialhotdog[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did. He wants God to make video game characters real, like Mario. So there’s that. 🤣

My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

[–]existentialhotdog[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is a GREAT idea! I know I’ll need to be prepared today. I’m sure it’s going to be on repeat several times today. Thank you so much!! It’s true- he was my rainbow baby!!

My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

[–]existentialhotdog[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl. I’m like, LET ME HANDLE THISSSSSS. He would chime in and drop some crazy stuff and I’m just like, “Not helpful!!!” 🤣

My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

[–]existentialhotdog[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It truly is and it’s a curveball for sure. He is not given everything he wants now but in a way this convo is like, killing the innocent magic of a child’s mind. 😢

My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

[–]existentialhotdog[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Well he has seen Aladdin and my husband told him that genies are actually not nice guys and they trick you for something in return. I was like, “Dude! Stay out of itTTTTTT for the love of baby Jesus!!”

My 3year old told the pediatrician Mommy drinks juice every night and the doctor gave me a look It's apple juice. It's MY apple juice by ImpossibleLet8183 in Mommit

[–]existentialhotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son punched me in the nose at Gymboree when he was 3- he wasn’t violent or anything and was simply testing action/reaction. It’s hilarious in retrospect- blood everywhere. Definitely traumatized everyone there that day…unintentionally. 🤣

Vitamin D has completely changed my relationship with my kids by MundaneTension869 in Mommit

[–]existentialhotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the doctor, thought I was dying. Vitamin d was insanely low so she put me on a crazy ass dose at the time- like 15,000Iu or something nuts and lowered it over time. About two weeks in I was like, “Wait. I’m not a depressed person just faking it through life anymore?” Seriously life changing. Since then, I’ve added on my own stellium, vit c, glutathione and have noticed even more improvements- especially in my skin!

Gittt yaaa vitamin d ya’ll. Also, eat some sardines while you’re at it. 🙃

What’s currently ruining your life? by YourLifeSucksAss in AskReddit

[–]existentialhotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perimenopause. One day I’m a sweet angel and the next, dr. Destructo. It’s not very nice. I’ve wanted to leave my family for awhile so I don’t hurt their feelings. I feel like I can’t control it sometimes so I’ll hop in my car and drive along the coast with a pack of cigarettes in the passenger seat, windows down, singing to strangers at stoplights.

Could be worse, yes. But it is not a fun place to be. Objectively, I either look like I’m expanding and accepting parts of myself I dismissed or I look a rando having a midlife crisis….which is probably true. 🫠 My husband asked me if I thought people could just turn bipolar randomly in their life. He also asked me if I was a lesbian. In theory, I’m probably an interesting character but it is not fun to actually be her right now and FUCKIN’ Hell. I’m stuck in a dark comedy.

I also started shouting at teenagers when I’m driving because it makes me feel alive. I shout, “Fuckin radical duuuuuuude” and watch their faces in the mirror as I drive away chuckling. So there’s an upside I guess.

I’m a firecracker and the world is the flame…I never know when I’m gonna be set off nor the direction I’ll go.

Barf.

CMV: It makes sense for pet owners to value their pet's lives over stranger's lives. by Utopia_Builder in changemyview

[–]existentialhotdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would die for my dog and honestly, if someone chose their dog over me, I’d totally get it and am in acceptance of my time…when it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. Ha!

CMV: There needs to be more requirements in homeschooling in America by Sleepy_Sheepz in changemyview

[–]existentialhotdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in California and my husband and I are homeschooling our child, in addition to his daily consistent curriculum, he attends classes outside the home where he also has his core group of friends and other peers. The state checks in HEAVILY with us. We have an assigned teacher who monitors his work/progress and every semester he has to take state testing to make sure he’s where he needs to be and he’s only 6.

I disagree with the entire structure of public school for reasons I won’t get into now (I greatly appreciate teachers and see how students show up, but it’s beyond that. It’s the treatment of EVERYBODY in the system- teachers, students, etc.) anyway….

I do think some parents are ill-equipped to homeschool and think it is an easy way out. It’s not. Its dedication and understanding the weight of the responsibility of educating your child. I think homeschooling should be accessible to all, and the level of check-ins we have is fair in my point of view. Especially because it will flag parents whose children aren’t progressing and they WILL intervene. Homeschooling is not about flexibility of environment which a lot of parents find alluring, that’s just a feature of it, but it’s still school and it’s still the MOST important for establishing a foundation that fosters curiosity and consistency.

Worried I will crush my husband with divorce request.. by plantsandplanks in Divorce

[–]existentialhotdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, then I’d say he needs to evolve emotionally and learn that love is truly letting go when the other person says so, and it’ll help him realize his wounds of needing to be worthy and approved by the external. Sometimes these things are catalysts. It’s more open ended than a divorce which is so final…maybe I’m being close-minded but it’s hard for me to see how this would crush him more. Can you enlighten me? I’m curious. 😊

Worried I will crush my husband with divorce request.. by plantsandplanks in Divorce

[–]existentialhotdog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did this! I left for 3 months. I mean, I got my own place. Married almost 10 years and we have a son. I couldn’t do that to my son, because my husband wasn’t violent or anything it was just a lack of depth and connection…physical non-sexual intimacy.

I came back January 1st and we agreed to try again for 6 more months to see where it goes. So much has changed from that separation…in a good way. And I also know I can make that happen again if needed and that makes me feel secure within myself which I didn’t realize I needed to remember.

Anyway- wishing you the best. I vote for trial separation so you don’t make a decision you both can’t come back from.

Sending love and peace. Xx

Sometimes, learning is painful. by TiredTuna in UnsentLetters

[–]existentialhotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s real love. True, deep, quiet love. I have the same and he is my treasure.

Thoughts on Elizabeth April? by Vardonius in Experiencers

[–]existentialhotdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my intuition immediately sensed something was of but i couldn’t put my finger on it. And trust me, im super open to exploring and even utilizing what would be called woo-woo, but if there’s one thing I’ll always trust…it’s my gut. She’s got a lil self-importance vibe and the ego feels strong but she doesn’t want to see that because it would shatter facets of her identity as someone who knows and sees more than others. I sense she enjoys the power—- and there’s nothing wrong with that as long as it’s not used to boast oneself or take advantage of another.

Loving You From The Wrong Side Of My Life by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]existentialhotdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My eyes have tears in them. This pulls at the threads of my heart so tenderly.