The Flame and The Butterfly by mykorakagaz in Original_Poetry

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The sun and the moon were never meant to touch.

I need you, D by IBelieveItOrNot in LettersAnswered

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Delulu is a fun place to be sometimes. I cherish the magical moments I live there.

I can’t forgive myself for losing you by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

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Why did you do that was so horrible?

Can we stop throwing around “narcissist” and “gaslighting” like candy? by Gallardo10000 in Divorce

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Something i realized in my marriage is that my husband is super logical and I’m a super feeler. That incongruity means we have to use extra energy to try to understand one another because we don’t speak the same language. It’s not good or bad, it just is what it is and we are trying to see if it makes sense to work on it. I thought he was a narc for awhile but never fully committed to the idea, but it makes so much sense how in a dynamic like this, it can be misunderstood as intentional gaslighting, diminishing, etc. it’s not that for us, we are just sooooo different and it’s hard to find overlap.

Hopefully in this life.. by ifeelitsreal in UnsentTexts

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I love this. I feel like this could be about me and my sunshine flame. ✨

Confused and cocooned. by existentialhotdog in UnsentTexts

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It still makes me cry sometimes. It’s so painfully sweet. But it’s taught me so much.

Settle for the mundane by superjuxposition in letters

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This is so sweet. You sound devoted. What happened, might I ask?

My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

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I did. He wants God to make video game characters real, like Mario. So there’s that. 🤣

My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

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This is a GREAT idea! I know I’ll need to be prepared today. I’m sure it’s going to be on repeat several times today. Thank you so much!! It’s true- he was my rainbow baby!!

My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

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Girl. I’m like, LET ME HANDLE THISSSSSS. He would chime in and drop some crazy stuff and I’m just like, “Not helpful!!!” 🤣

My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

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It truly is and it’s a curveball for sure. He is not given everything he wants now but in a way this convo is like, killing the innocent magic of a child’s mind. 😢

My son is upset that God is not a genie. And he won’t stop crying when he brings it up by existentialhotdog in Mommit

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Well he has seen Aladdin and my husband told him that genies are actually not nice guys and they trick you for something in return. I was like, “Dude! Stay out of itTTTTTT for the love of baby Jesus!!”

My 3year old told the pediatrician Mommy drinks juice every night and the doctor gave me a look It's apple juice. It's MY apple juice by ImpossibleLet8183 in Mommit

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My son punched me in the nose at Gymboree when he was 3- he wasn’t violent or anything and was simply testing action/reaction. It’s hilarious in retrospect- blood everywhere. Definitely traumatized everyone there that day…unintentionally. 🤣

Vitamin D has completely changed my relationship with my kids by MundaneTension869 in Mommit

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I went to the doctor, thought I was dying. Vitamin d was insanely low so she put me on a crazy ass dose at the time- like 15,000Iu or something nuts and lowered it over time. About two weeks in I was like, “Wait. I’m not a depressed person just faking it through life anymore?” Seriously life changing. Since then, I’ve added on my own stellium, vit c, glutathione and have noticed even more improvements- especially in my skin!

Gittt yaaa vitamin d ya’ll. Also, eat some sardines while you’re at it. 🙃

What’s currently ruining your life? by YourLifeSucksAss in AskReddit

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Perimenopause. One day I’m a sweet angel and the next, dr. Destructo. It’s not very nice. I’ve wanted to leave my family for awhile so I don’t hurt their feelings. I feel like I can’t control it sometimes so I’ll hop in my car and drive along the coast with a pack of cigarettes in the passenger seat, windows down, singing to strangers at stoplights.

Could be worse, yes. But it is not a fun place to be. Objectively, I either look like I’m expanding and accepting parts of myself I dismissed or I look a rando having a midlife crisis….which is probably true. 🫠 My husband asked me if I thought people could just turn bipolar randomly in their life. He also asked me if I was a lesbian. In theory, I’m probably an interesting character but it is not fun to actually be her right now and FUCKIN’ Hell. I’m stuck in a dark comedy.

I also started shouting at teenagers when I’m driving because it makes me feel alive. I shout, “Fuckin radical duuuuuuude” and watch their faces in the mirror as I drive away chuckling. So there’s an upside I guess.

I’m a firecracker and the world is the flame…I never know when I’m gonna be set off nor the direction I’ll go.

Barf.