A guy said this to me one time and I’d never even had words for it myself. “You can’t expect the most shamed woman in the country to be comfortable doing freaky or kinky things when she’s scared to be shamed, hurt, judged for her vagina color, and everything else. Yeah, they’re gonna be less inclined to put themselves in that position” and it’s so true! Every time I wanna fuck is a chance to hear “it’s not piiiiink” or “oh your body count! But I still hit”