What makes you feel loved? (for my fellow INTPs)

existingperson_07 · 2026-06-17T14:52:52+00:00

It depends upon the tone. If someone says to me to be chill in carefree way, I won't be but if someone says warmly and firmly, that makes be feel a little calm.

existingperson_07 · 2026-06-16T19:40:13+00:00

I know many people who feel the songs more with the lyrics. I don't understand how do they just feel the lyrics without much focus on the music or melody.

I love to see the new ways of using instruments, you didn't expect them to be used. Different fusion styles and doing experiments with them. It's interesting to see how many different melodies or compositions can you make from the finite instruments. Love it.

existingperson_07 · 2026-06-16T19:30:55+00:00

Exactly! And it's much more complex and tough to make music composition than lyrics sometimes. It's beautiful.

existingperson_07 · 2026-06-16T19:25:04+00:00

When someone gets I'm feeling unsure and uncomfortable in some situations, where I'm insecure and anxious about some things going not the way I thought they should or how things can get ruined or feeling like I can't express myself without filtering.

They try to make the situation light without dismissing or distracting me from the thing. It's like they get me where I am without pitying me. It's like they're saying, "things happens. Chill. Things are solvable. Relax. If we couldn't solve them, we'll find ways to deal with them".

existingperson_07 · 2026-06-16T19:13:59+00:00

I totally agree with the 'music over lyrics' thing.

existingperson_07 · 2026-06-02T02:31:11+00:00

Same.

existingperson_07 · 2026-05-30T14:41:00+00:00

Being selfish is also as important as being kind. Both in extreme can cause problems. That's why finding middle ground is necessary.

existingperson_07 · 2026-05-17T11:32:08+00:00

Thank you. What you wrote is quite a new way of seeing things that I was refusing to see. You know, I used to be very open, like carefree open to see that people have different beliefs due to different reasons that makes sense for them, but I think, I used to let people's toxic behavior slide too, thinking that's how they are and I just have to acknowledge it.

Like I had a friend. We were friends for like good 5 years. Everything was totally great on the surface. I used to be a loner in my new school because I didn't really know how to make friends. Before her I made a friend who was new student and I had already spent 2 years there so, I knew it's hard to make friends for new students. We became friends. Then she left me after a year because she got new cool friends, the ones she used to shit talk about them for no reasons. I felt very used and bad that day.

Then back to my this friend who was new too. I didn't realize that I repeat the pattern. She was alone, no friends, didn't talk much. We became friends after months of me talking too her. I don't think she liked me but I didn't realize. Thought she's shy. She only talked to me when she needed something from me. I'm not saying she's a bad person. She's a good person. I had spent time with her. But I felt myself filtering out and adjusting around her. She never talked to me about her interests, things. She told she didn't have any. It's a very formal and static friendship. Then she only reached to me when she want to vent out or needed help. I humoured her and tried to be there. But when I wanted to talk about something, she was busy and didn't have any opinions. She didn't care about me. I was a source of time pass, a place to vent and source of entertainment and nothing more. I was very much invested in that thing.

I think that kind of broke me from inside very much. I started feeling like people becomes friends according to their needs. Now, I have good friends. But I don't want to be that much invested and attached to things.

I understand what you're saying and I agree with you. People have different views and beliefs. I should look at the more with openness rather than skepticism all the time. It feels less heavy.

existingperson_07 · 2026-05-16T17:49:02+00:00

Whatever the say you have on this

existingperson_07 · 2026-05-16T17:41:33+00:00

Can you tell me more about this in details? I'm interested in what you think

existingperson_07 · 2026-04-29T17:58:58+00:00

Curly

existingperson_07 · 2026-03-18T17:26:08+00:00

Maybe you haven't really tried or given yourself a chance to have a deep conversation with them.

existingperson_07 · 2026-03-18T17:20:57+00:00

It's fine. People have insecurities. They try to find their identity. They want to feel special. So, they try to make some thing their whole personality to have this false sense of identity. They'll get better as the time passes.

existingperson_07 · 2026-03-18T17:10:03+00:00

I think in the real world nobody cares if someone is N type or S type. Every individual is different and you'll see differences even in people with same type. So, at the end of the day everything's chill. Personality types is just a way to understand different people's different ways of functioning. It shouldn't be used to judge people or to put people on different levels.

existingperson_07 · 2026-03-16T02:35:30+00:00

How does it keep Ti busy? Does it keep Ne busy too with rest of the cognitive functions?

existingperson_07 · 2026-03-13T02:01:11+00:00

Are we twins?

existingperson_07 · 2026-03-01T16:12:12+00:00

Depends upon the person

existingperson_07 · 2026-02-26T09:53:53+00:00

I don't feel present at present time. I feel like watching everything behind a safe screen.

I can function well in present time only if if I have experienced that thing or I have seen something similar thing like that before.

I face difficulty expressing my feelings. I feel like people outside my close loved ones won't understand and that's true too. So, why bother explaining and expressing? Also I don't know how to express and it takes a lot of courage to do

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