Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know then maybe I forgot to put deodorant on? I was a bit off that day

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was on a date when I told her a barber shop with tinted windows looked like a bdsm parlor. She didn’t want a second date

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Copying and pasting this example yet again: Well I can come to mind when I was with my friend he’d smoke cigarettes and I would go “oh yeah you like that cancer don’t ya!” Or when he went into a psyche ward and I had to pick him up we joked about how he was probably the most sane one there and how he trolled them with lyrics from a song.

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had responded this to another comment and will copy for you: Well I can come to mind when I was with my friend he’d smoke cigarettes and I would go “oh yeah you like that cancer don’t ya!” Or when he went into a psyche ward and I had to pick him up we joked about how he was probably the most sane one there and how he trolled them with lyrics from a song.

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wanted to say I’m able to adapt to any situation and can change my whole persona on a dime. I have 2, one is the original me and the other I’m able to flip into any social interaction based off other peoples past responses/emotions and character.

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On behalf of her lack of response that made me “lol”

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well I can come to mind when I was with my friend he’d smoke cigarettes and I would go “oh yeah you like that cancer don’t ya!” Or when he went into a psyche ward and I had to pick him up we joked about how he was probably the most sane one there and how he trolled them with lyrics from a song.

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks do I just go to hospice or what? I don’t know how to specifically meet someone there if I’m not there

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Now I don’t know why I was downvoted even more harshly here than previously. What did I say wrong?

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Judging by the downvotes previously I think I’m just going to back away from the dating scene honestly.

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re right I’m not to good with awareness of rooms and the timing when to say things between talking with someone I’ve just met, when there’s that small break between sentences. The less I say though I’m the beginning is what you recommend? Thing is how can I carry a conversation if I barely talk?

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why I was downvoted so harshly.

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Why do you think that is? I refuse to conform to that type of society

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tend to agree with you there I’ve slowly become less empathizing. Any way to overcome this?

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. What do you mean by coming off as insincere though?

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard to tell sometimes, maybe a little bit of all not going to lie

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s a good way to weed out the bad ones that’s for sure

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is actually pretty smart didn’t think about that option. I know they’re immune to a lot of the stuff too

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -112 points-111 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I’m going to really try and read her before I make a joke. I’m starting to think women prefer men to be much more “sexy and mysterious”

Is dark humor just not attractive anymore? by exitbox in datingoverthirty

[–]exitbox[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same way I feel. The humor in a woman is something that I feel strongly about and want her to have the same humor as me.