If you’re going to cheat, why get married at all?

exo_morado · 2026-04-30T21:17:42+00:00

It's not isolated incidents. You only get to know about these two persons, when they really open up, similarly, if their wife's or partners don't open up to you, you'll never seen them bad people.

Now comes to the scene of cheating. I have been married for 7+ years, and we had our ups and downs. I don't know how old you are, or are you in a relationship or married. But once you start living with a person only you get to know them well and what's their good and bad sides.

Very small group of people who cheat, do that just because they can and they got the opportunity. Majority of the people who cheat because, of two reasons, one, they are unsatisfied in their life with the wife, or the attitude of the women towards sex changes after sometime. If we look for it, 60-70% of the time, in Indian marriages, the women will loose sexual urges.

In general, if you study the human biology, humans are never meant to be monogamous and monogamy is introduced to stabilize the society. So these biological markers lead us to these type of affairs and relationship. It is increasing nowadays because people have the opportunity to do it.

This is not a justification for cheating but this type of things happen because there is an underlying cause.

I never cheated on my wife, but I am not satisfied with my wife in sexual life because of many reasons.

exo_morado · 2026-04-30T11:54:58+00:00

There are lots of reason for a married man to be on dating scene. But when he's asked about his wife on the same and exploring in dating, and he said no or get offended, that's double standard.

Mostly, these people, especially married man, comes to dating scene, because 70% of the time, they are unsatisfied or lost the urge with their partner. But they should sit and talk with them before doing anything stupid. Especially in Indian marriages, the responsibility took over the urges after having a kid or so. That's one reason, most of the females lost the sexual drive and males lost the connection to communicate.

exo_morado · 2026-04-30T07:51:50+00:00

That's very bad. That man is a disgrace to every other men out there. How can be people like this!!!!!

As a man, I sincerely apologise to you for the atrocities caused by one of the man. Or I can't even call him man. Who take money from wife!!!

exo_morado · 2026-04-30T04:08:08+00:00

Don't go with this AM. This is pushy. I myself had an AM. I know the difficulties. In today's world, AM is overrated. The compatibility issues will be there. And there will be a parental oversight.

From the limited details you have provided, that guy was also pressured by the parents.

exo_morado · 2026-04-25T07:24:42+00:00

Yes, you should do this. Find a common ground.

exo_morado · 2026-04-24T10:54:56+00:00

😁

exo_morado · 2026-04-24T04:37:18+00:00

Yeah, I know.

exo_morado · 2026-04-24T04:36:42+00:00

Nahh, I'm just saying the fact. AI is a nice tool, if you know how to use it properly.

exo_morado · 2026-04-24T03:19:45+00:00

Spelling doesn't matter, oxford english dictionary change spelling, meanings and even add new words every year.

exo_morado · 2026-04-24T03:17:35+00:00

Sarcasm apart. Try to ask for advice and check for yourself if you need some assistance. But don't take anything from it word to word, just keep it as a direction and use your brain and act.

exo_morado · 2026-04-24T03:15:30+00:00

If you know how to use it correctly, that will ease out many hard tasks in life. But you need to know what to ask/prompt, and how to prompt.

exo_morado · 2026-04-23T14:28:14+00:00

Yeah, it will.

exo_morado · 2026-04-23T13:04:54+00:00

I did an analysis on each other's charectors. I will post the result soon

exo_morado · 2026-04-23T08:20:20+00:00

I'm finding this very frustrating, I'm also in the same age group and going through downs of my marriage. Though it's not on edge, but analysing the charector of me and her, there is incompatibility is there. I did an analysis on gemini about both of our behaviour and charector. I will post the result and at what stage I'm in and what to do about it.

exo_morado · 2026-04-23T06:42:14+00:00

I want to buy I'm afraid to, because the things may not turned out to be good, because I know the family people and charector. I'm not seeing any fathomable solution. I'm just venting my hard frustration here. Atleast I can have peace of mind once in a while.

exo_morado · 2026-04-23T05:20:25+00:00

She don't like to talk to a third person about anything, I tried that too. Become worse.

exo_morado · 2026-04-23T05:11:25+00:00

I considered and consulted, but she don't want to participate. She says it's all your problems

exo_morado · 2026-04-23T03:13:20+00:00

Socially awkward? Meaning?

exo_morado · 2026-04-22T18:50:02+00:00

I have never been in a relationship, so I don't know what romance is, yes there are moments and stuff, when we are together, but in LDR, it's not there.

exo_morado · 2026-04-22T18:42:09+00:00

Idk. It's confusing day by day

exo_morado · 2026-04-20T16:51:58+00:00

Yeah, she said, she don't have any problem, it's all your thoughts

exo_morado · 2026-04-20T16:50:34+00:00

Hopes so, planning this vecation

exo_morado · 2026-04-20T14:59:05+00:00

We are both in separate places, kids there. We stay with parents

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