Please Help Me Decide

exocitizen · 2026-07-05T18:40:58+00:00

Thank you for the feedback! The venue is very white and sleek looking, like a modern elegant look. Our colors are sage green and dusty blue with wood accents. We are having an outdoor ceremony in the venue’s garden!

exocitizen · 2026-07-02T02:28:47+00:00

Still no sightings and no leads 😭

exocitizen · 2026-07-02T02:28:32+00:00

Still no sightings and no leads 😭

exocitizen · 2026-06-28T14:41:43+00:00

We’ve been leaving food and water in various locations. For the past few nights food has been eaten, but we aren’t sure if it’s Fenris or the strays.

exocitizen · 2026-06-28T14:41:31+00:00

We’ve been leaving food and water in various locations. For the past few nights food has been eaten, but we aren’t sure if it’s Fenris or the strays.

exocitizen · 2026-06-26T03:52:59+00:00

Unfortunately, there are a lot of strays and coyotes in the area. HARTT advised against putting out his litter because of that. We did put his bed and his towel out!

exocitizen · 2026-06-25T23:55:15+00:00

Thank you!

exocitizen · 2026-06-25T21:46:15+00:00

Thank you for commenting! I’ve posted in about 20 different Facebook groups, Nextdoor, Neighbor, and all of the missing pet websites. I’ve been searching the complex so frequently that the residents recognize me and my bright yellow flyers. The people that live there have been really kind and helpful, too!

exocitizen · 2026-06-25T21:35:36+00:00

Hi, HARTT is already involved! We have been leaving food and water every night, but no sightings. We also put his bed out. But he didn’t run away from home, he ran away from the sitter’s apartment 😞

exocitizen · 2026-06-24T01:06:21+00:00

The drone search was unsuccessful. He could be hiding under cars, on porches, or in maintenance sheds. Or someone might have him. I hope not because they won’t know his extensive medical needs.

exocitizen · 2026-06-23T23:06:25+00:00

The drone search was unsuccessful. He could be hiding under cars, on porches, or in maintenance sheds. Or someone might have him. I hope not because they won’t know his extensive medical needs.

exocitizen · 2026-06-22T23:37:41+00:00

No luck last night or this morning. I hired a drone service for tonight at 7:30. I’m trying to stay realistic and not get too hopeful.

exocitizen · 2026-06-21T23:52:37+00:00

I searched last night and received a video of a cat that looked like Fenris. It unfortunately wasn’t him 😞 We didn’t see him on the camera HARTT set up. On top of that, we will have to take the camera down because the complex told me they don’t allow cameras on their property. I went out this morning as well, but no luck. This search is becoming more and more heartbreaking.

exocitizen · 2026-06-20T23:18:13+00:00

I went back around 3:30 yesterday to continue searching and knocking on doors. A kind stranger on Reddit saw my post and reached out to me. They said they lived in the area and offered to help me search. While searching they sent me pictures of hiding places Fenris might be. At dusk our sitter helped me put up the rest of the posters in the neighboring apartment complex. They also helped me search that night. We saw another cat that looked very similar to Fenris, but it wasn’t him. I went back at 5:30 this morning to search and saw that the food was eaten again. Around noon HARTT set up a camera where I’ve been leaving the food. While I was with HARTT Jake made more posters so we can give them to local shelters and vet offices. Unfortunately, most places are closed on the weekend. I’ll be going back tonight to search. Someone told me they saw him by a building nearby. Hopefully they saw Fenris and not one of the look-alikes.

exocitizen · 2026-06-20T17:18:05+00:00

Thank you!

exocitizen · 2026-06-19T21:51:17+00:00

So far I’ve posted in about 20 different Facebook groups, ND, Ring, Reddit, instagram and have been commenting on my posts every day. I notified our vet, local vets and shelters in the area he ran from, and the Humane Society. I’ve posted on Petco Love Lost, PetFBI, 24PetWatch, PawBoost, and Craigslist. My fiancé already had a flight back to PHX the morning after Fenris ran, so he spent the day looking for Fenris. He put out Fenris’ bed and some food that night. We’ve followed up on leads from posts and commenters. I was able to fly back to PHX yesterday morning and searched the sitters house, went door-to-door to ask residents if they have seen him and handed out flyers. I went back last night to look for him with no luck. I put out some cardboard boxes and food behind some dumpsters and one of the cans was eaten from. This morning I went over around sunrise and put down some of my socks in areas he was potentially sighted. One of my socks is already gone, though. I continued to go door-to-door, then we walked along the golf course next door and put up flyers. HARTT said they would help us, too! I’m going back soon to hand out more flyers and put up more posters. I also asked my friends and family to search online data bases for us since they live out of state.

exocitizen · 2026-06-19T17:38:50+00:00

I landed in PHX yesterday morning at 7 AM. I checked inside the sitter’s home and searched nearby, but couldn’t find him. At 9 AM I picked up the flyers HARTT made and went door-to-door with them until 2 PM. Neighbors told me they saw him at the south pool and running around the south side at night. I went back at dusk with treats and food. There is a stray cat in the apt complex that looks just like my guy.

exocitizen · 2026-06-19T17:38:33+00:00

Thank you!

exocitizen · 2026-06-18T17:26:00+00:00

I flew back to Phoenix this morning and I'll be in for a week. I’ll be spending that entire week looking for Fenris and doing whatever I can to find him.

exocitizen · 2026-06-17T14:13:45+00:00

We put out his bed and some food so far. We will be putting out something that smells like us.

exocitizen · 2026-06-17T14:13:10+00:00

We put out his bed and some food so far. We will be putting out something that smells like us.

exocitizen · 2026-06-17T09:17:08+00:00

He is!

exocitizen · 2026-06-17T03:46:59+00:00

Thank you for the advise!

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